Trying not to panic

I pulled into the driveway one night when the coast appeared clear and what to my surprise popped up but my neighbor who was bent down behind her car. She looked up and said hello I looked at here and said hello back. Nothing else was said or ever has been said. She knew it was me, no doubt.
What are you going to do JUst say its my kink and be done with it if anything is ever said.
Of course you could always make up a great story about how thinks were going in the bedroom and it was a bet you had with your wife etc etc. take it as far as you want LOL

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Originally Posted by RachelRoxx

[...] In a way, man up and accept you were caught. [...]

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I'm envisioning a t-shirt: Man up about the woman you are....

Honesty is always the best policy, how you present it is where the understanding comes into play. My suggestion is to explain you did it with the mistaken idea that you would never be seen but it was important to experience the moment. If she can't understand that you may need to re-examine where you two are in your own life and marriage. Because you are not going to give up being curious and experimenting with who you are. And as far as the neighbor the simple fact is she may never say anything, if she does your wife doesn't know so she has nothing to answer for.

Personally I wouldn't sweat it, and don't invite trouble. Confront it if it appears on it's on. I wouldn't lie but I certainly wouldn't elaborate on the subject unless it was a must. With this said, I would have a heart to heart with the wife on what I am going to do and do my best to help her understand it and except the facts. This incident could be a positive motivation to a better marriage. IMHO

SandraEllen,
Bridget and Martina have it about right.
You need to tell your wife the whole story - you've broken your promise and potentially difficult position. The very least that you can do is to give her a "heads up"!
Consider this - you look out of your window at 05:30 and see a woman wearing short skirt and high heels emerging from a neighbour's house. You don't recognise her as the lady of the house and you've no idea if the lady of the house is at home. What's your first thought? Your neighbour may not say anything to your wife - whether that's good or not I'll let you decide!

Hi Sandra Ellen, It seams that you've gotten yourself between a rock & a hard place.
Only time will tell.