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For many of us, our younger years of crossdressing were pre-internet. We couldn't have known that purging wouldn't stop the urges to crossdress, and so we did what we thought best, like throwing that partial pack of cigarettes out the window when we decided to quit smoking. That approach worked for many, and they quit smoking for good. The difference is the longer you go without smoking, the urge to smoke diminishes, but the urge to crossdress comes back (and, as many like to say, with a vengeance). You can quit dressing, but it will be fighting the urge all the way, and which doesn't seem to go away for good. Now you have the benefit of those of us who have been there done that (purged and re-built the wardrobe) several times. We're experts. Don't purge - it doesn't work.
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Never purge,just hide your stash somewhere.
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I've been thru 2 purge cycles in the last 10 years, the first time was when I first was discovered by wife, she strong handed me (hit me with a cast iron frying pan), second was just 5 weeks ago, right after the death of my daughter, wife insisted I was the cause, of her death, because she figured I never gave up dressing. and "God" was punishing us. I decided it wasn't a good idea to keep carrying things in my car(used for work only) because of what would happen if I was in an accident and everything spilled out. I dread the day that I will start buying again, as the feeling don't leave. There is not a good answer where to go next, being single and having own place will probably be when i get to enjoy my feminine side again, maybe before i die.
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pajean, WOW! You have been through the mill, and then some! Sorry to hear this very hard time. One day or minute at a time. Maybe do some things with the wife she would enjoy doing, and see how it goes. We humans are, very resilient, and adaptable, but it is not a lot of fun.
