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hi greenie, glad to have the perspective of another GG.....so the origin of the tale is that of another member here who suggested a video, i thought it was a great idea and saw it getting lost in her post and highlighted it here, was not going for doom and gloom....i myself have always advocated the letter at the very least and out of respect and love for a weakness of not overcoming the fear of the disclosure, i would hope it would be in a loving sincere tone, some thing for the loved ones they left behind be it a wife or other family member or friend....my feelings are that it will help those left behind to learn about the way the trans-spectrum has affected our lives and decisions on how we related this with them and lived in fear about it....as they learn so may the overall process of acceptance instead of the status quot and the assumed feelings if we leave nothing.....even if it only helps one it would be better than none....i know luca? shared this with you but for some it just insurmountable!
Caden im happy that you are blogging about this as well....the more that may be helped by this small easy way to acknowledge this to loved ones the better.....
why have such questions lingering about while they are still coming to terms with our passing....
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I do like the idea of a love letter as well, however I feel that if your SO might have to find and process the knowledge of your dressing without the ability to ask questions, some sort of explanation would be decent.
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So much excellent advice here. Thank you, all.
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I like this idea, My true friends and family know already. However, as my wish is to be presented in a dress at any showing, perhaps a video from me for those who may be unaware be available during the service would be a good idea. And the idea of where one wants the collections of a lifetime to go is good as well. I would not want things like the vintage Spring-o-lator shoes just donated to a thrift store for example. Good post!
