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Crossdressing aside, I wonder if many couples go through a period of doubt at our age. I have been married for 32 years, and recently felt a lack of closeness, fell deeply into a crush that was not mutual, and am now seeing things more clearly. It just seemed it was time to re-evaluate my life and relationship and decide if this was going to be it for the rest of my life. This is male menopause? I have decided to work harder on my marriage and try to regain the closeness we had in our youth. I hope your wife comes to the same conclusion. Sincerely I hope you two become connected again.
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I'm sorry that you are in the position that you are in. There are all different ways that we can deal with our situation. Some divorce, some have DADT relationships, some have wives who understand but don't want to see, even if they are helpful at times (the situation I am in) and the CD respects that and some who have wives that embrace the CDing completely so it's not a problem at all. I suspect that the best way to deal with your situation is, as I think someone else suggested, is some couples counseling. Hopefully, you can find a counselor in DFW who if familiar with gender issues. We wish you well!!
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Hope it works out for you.
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I feel with this I've made my wife sound bad here for not embracing my differences but please understand it is not her fault.
I accept her for who she is and how she feels and I in no way think she is selfish here or in need of any real change.
I think it's much the same for many here in that we just want them to have some understanding into this part of ourselves and that all.
Thanks so much for all your thoughts on this
Leigh
