When discussing things such as this it's impossible to find a single word that's familiar to all that will encompass the full spectrum of meaning.
I would be more than happy to live in a society that was fair, tolerant and accepting. I could have used welcoming but we've all been "welcomed" into someone's house when we've turned up unannounced when really they really wished we'd not called at that time and are happy to see the back of us. Whatever words you use it's possible to find some negative connotation.
