My first Wife, yes, Cross dressing was a big No-No- and after 9 years and 2 kids, divorce, a bad one.
Now my 2 ND Wife, she knew that I liked dressing on our 2 ND Date. She was OK with it, and we where
Married; for over 9 very happy years; She passed away about 3 years ago.
We had some house rules, and I was OK with that. She would buy me things to wear, and dress me up.
I just was not allowed to go out dressed.
Rader