Why is being a man and doing what men have done for 1000's of years all of a sudden toxic? I hate feminist buzz words.
No matter what you call yourself suzanne you are still a man genetically right?
So in the situation of having a FtM to coach one would need to teach dip into the bag of male stuff and teach what they know.
I'm sure Matt would rather experience what being a man is and not some trumped up feminist version of what a man is.
A year into transition is more like a puberty stage so would it not be best to teach him how to be a man?
Sure teach him to be a productive male in society and to treat people with respect.