Personal pronouns

I am 24/7 365 and pronouns should be she/her/hers! Behind my back I don't know what they say! To my face I get ma'am but have been called miss and recently madam and baby girl! Just take it in stride! If you present as male or female most of the time go with those at work! Best wishes with this! Hugs Lana Mae

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Originally Posted by Joyce Swindell

I think the whole thing of this movement on "what's your preferred pronoun" is silly. I think it's selfish to expect someone to adjust to what YOU want in conversation. I don't expect anything more than respect from others. Therefor if I'm dressed as a woman I should be spoken to in the feminine. If in male mode I expect to be spoken to in the masculine. If I'm mixing the two genders then it may be a question for them to ask me which they should use.
So with that, it maybe I didn't realize that I'm presenting in a confusing manor that I might need more makeup! :)

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I agree 100%.

This is of course a personal thing. Me, I'm a they/them person. I'm fully out, including at work and still use my birth name. It works for me. It might not work for you, but hey, that doesn't matter. Find what works for you and live it.

I really don't care. I just hope it's not something like 'The Deceased'