bars and clubs

Danielle,
I am from NJ. Most of my ventures out are in the Tri-State area. But New England has reasons to drive up north too. There are conventions throughout the year. I am not sure where you live and where you are looking to go for vacation? But Boston has First Event in January and Hershey PA has the Keystone Conference in March. There are plenty others throughout the country. Perhaps one of these conventions could give you and your wife a quick, long weekend away having fun. 🙂

Unfortunately, we are all the way up in alaska, so our options are pretty limited. We have talked about visiting that area, but the kids make it difficult to get out by ourselves lol

I have been to every kind of bar/club there is as Robyn. I haven't had any problems at any but I, now a days, actually prefer straight bars/clubs. For me I feel like I fit in better at a straight bar. But it all depends on ho you feel and how you handle the different environments. Early on in my journey I almost exclusively went to gay bars, it seemed that it was a safer place to be. I have been to two lesbian bars, Lipstick Lounge in Nashville and The Lady's Room in St. Pete area, and have felt welcome at Lipstick but not as much at Lady's.

Here in CT their are several clubs and enjoy patronage $$$$. Obviously on the spectrum of establishments and can't name one but I wouldn't go into a biker bar dressed lol...