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2 choices?
both undressing every day.
1st pair of panties was like 5+/- years old. That was 64-65 years ago, one of my playmates changed underwear and panties while playing in her bedroom.
I basically have a very big internal feeling of female in a male body.
Puberty was very hard on me.
Cloths are cloths, the internal feeling is always the same.
I do both I underdress when I can't crossdress
The underdressing concept is a bit obscure to me, since I don't especially want to interfere with other humans when dressing. So I dress privately and overdress.
I am both......... no question. I love wearing bra and panties every chance I get and I love to fully dress when I can.
Definitely an underdresser. I wear panties every day and I sleep in a nightie and matching panties every night. When my wife isn't home I also wear a bra and slip. I love to go out and about fully underdressed as long as my outerwear will hide the bra hooks and adjusters.
Now that I don't have any testosterone due to ADT for prostate cancer, my identity is all over the map, but mostly leans toward the feminine as expected. I often wear women's T's and sweatshirts, carry a gender neutral bag that most people recognize as a purse, and sometimes a touch of makeup. In a word, I dress androgynously because that is my identity form at this time. I have been on ADT for a year and have another year to go, but by then I will be over 80 and with such prolonged ADT it is possible testosterone levels may only rise a little after treatment. Fine by me.
When in private, which doesn't happen much as my wife stays home most of the time, I enjoy dressing all the way. But that does not fit my present identity form. Sort of like putting on a suit. It is nice socially, but not all that wonderfully comfortable for me and I only tolerate it for as little time as possible. Dresses are sort of like that, but tolerated more due to my feminine bias. My identity at present is like scrambled eggs and ham - a blend and so that is they way I dress with a mixture of male and female. One advantage of being old is that people tend to tolerate a lot, "He is just an old man and you know what that can be like." They can think that all they want, but at heart I am very much a woman. My male side used to be dominant; now he is faint and Gretchen is dominant in my sense of self.
With shoulder length hair and earrings, 24/7 my general presentation is androgynous. I only wear exclusively male clothes once a week or so for a volunteer gig. so it's a toss up. Or, both?:strugglin
I am predominantly a crossdresser, but have under dresses when the pink fog hit and I simply wasn't able to completely crossdress.
By Doc's definitions, both.
By the OP's definitions, neither.
Underdresser here. If like to venture into wearing blouse, ladies pants, etc., but that wouldn't go over well with my wife.
I am a crossdresser most of the time. Nearly always at home. Often in public, but as what I like to call, under the radar dressing.
It is not the same as undressing. I am wearing all womens clothes.
For example, yesterday I ran errands and spent an hour at a coffee shop. My outfit from bottom to top: black leather booties with 1.5 inch heels, womens knee high trouser socks, womens gray wool dress pants, panties, black bra, black cami, womens black merino wool sweater. A beaded bracelet of black jade, I was carrying my computer and planner in a black leather handbag. My under the radar makeup routine consists of moisturizing, light foundation, a bit of light concealer around my eyes, a touch of blush, barely noticeable contouring, finishing powder, eyebrow brush, very light mascara, a touch of my favorite perfume. I am not wearing one of my wigs.
The discerning female will most likely pick up what I have done. Men rarely notice a thing.
Repeat the above but go more casual with womens jeans and a womens flannel shirt. It works.
Completely Crossdresser.
Both. I have a lot of boy things to do. When doing them I always wear panties and pantyhose. I usually add a sports bra or a lace bralette. I switch to female mode as quickly as possible. This means adding a full coverage bra, breast forms, a wig, a dress or skirt and top, and ballet flats. I’m sitting here now in a long black skirt and a blue top and feeling on top of the world.
As one who dons her best femme look to go grocery shopping I'd say I am a dedicated OVER-dresser!
I would say both. And at times it also depends on the mood I am in and what has been going on with life.
Under dress most days at work. A bra in my natural size (38B) with panties and panty hose.
Totally in team crossdresser. Although I do wear fem undergarments under Mom jeans and top to walk my dog. I usually wear a cute top but cover up with a hoodie.
Yes........
If I am home I am 100% crossdresser. Completely dressed from the neck down.
No makeup or wig for me. Well very rarely a wig
If I am out in the wild I am definitely an underdresser.
I do not own any mens undergarments. So no real choice here :heehee:
Panties always. A bra with forms and a nightgown to bed. Fully dressed not often enough!
After years of crossdressing, I'm now trans I dress 24/7. When I cross dress, I wore women's cloths all the time. Jeans and tops.
Anymore, I am just an underdresser. My last purge got rid of my small,collection of a few dresses, skirts and blouses so now I am down to panties, bras and other lingerie that I will wear under my male clothes from time to time when I have an opportunity.
Yes. Both and either.
I'm complicated, I do both.
At home(family present)usually leggings and sweatshirt, T-shirt, racerback tank depending on the weather.
If I get Michelle time (home or away) I fully dress.
If I am away from my home area,(with wife), I mix it up, leggings , skinny jeans, knee high boots, uggs, women's sneakers, ladies tops( androgynous look), and a slimming camisole with very minimal concealer and foundation. No dresses, hose, bras, or wigs.
If I'm in an area where I'm likely to run into someone I know, I am underdressed.
I under dress every day as the only underwear I own are lace panties. I always wear a bra, forms, and a nighty to bed. In cooler weather I under dress with nylons and a bralette, too. I have fully cross dressed at home and have been out in public fully cross dressed but not often as I can't do so near home.
Has to be crossdressing to make my day complete. Underdressing just doesn't quite do what I need, but on rare occasion as with most others I will underdress with the understand it just isn't making it.