Heather, so there's nothing that turns u on any more? Is that because of your age?:sad:
I'm asking because I'm older than u and there r still things that turn my crank!:devil:
Heather, so there's nothing that turns u on any more? Is that because of your age?:sad:
I'm asking because I'm older than u and there r still things that turn my crank!:devil:
Full cut nylon briefs from Vanity Fair or Shadowline.
Wearing a black genuine leather mini skirt.
I haven't worn a slip or any kind in years but I use to love them I'll have to get back to them, literally . I do remember well the Liz Taylor photo in a slip and it was a turn on.
Silky nightgowns.
There are items that set pulses racing but not mind blowing. With me the end result is much more than the sum of the individual items.
For me it?s a pretty bra. Second thing I have never worn one but a blue jean skirt. I love to see a woman in a blue jean skirt
Not really a fetish for me anymore.
I dress because that is how I feel most comfortable.
I dress to feel more relaxed and to give my mind a break.
The way I dress is more a sense of self.
I look in the mirror and the person I see when dressed is how my mind thinks it is supposed to look.
Not really a fetish or a hobby, Just the way life should be.
I was just thinking that for so many people to say there is nothing sexual involved, then why do we see so many pictures of lingerie or boudoir like photos and skirts hiked up to show off garters and other underwear. Let?s just say my wife never took photos of herself doing that. No criticism at all, just pointing at some conflicting info, so I see the point in the original post. It might be subliminal but perhaps more going on in our brains than we are aware of.
Sandi
When I read posts that say nothing about dressing turns them on anymore, Sandi?
I feel sad!:sad:
You know I was re reading your post and I have to agree that I also get excited when I look in the mirror once finished dressing. However, in my case it is knowing that I am getting ready to go out in public looking that way that really floats my boat so to speak ; ). Knowing others will see me is exciting in itself. It is not for everyone. That is fine, but it can be quite a rush.
Sandi
High Heels and Shiny Tights. They get my motor rrrrunnning. The other "fetishes" are not very PG 13....lol
Why Doc? When it comes to turn on's they happen far more for me when not dressed. For sure that can happen when I'm dressed too, but being dressed is mostly not the reason. Being dressed just happens to coincide with the event. Long and the short. Being relaxed and being myself is certainly connected to being turned on, whatever I am wearing.Quote:
Originally Posted by docrobbysherry
I'll admit it!. It IS a turn on. My big thing is Makeup, especially Lipstick, Breasts second, and The effect of seeing "NOT ME" in the mirror. I suppose, upon analysis, elements of the brain strive to maintain the normal "ME persona" but produce a "disconnect" and a "High" when one's normal image of self is BROKEN. So I am essentially an ESCAPIST type of CDer. I CD to take a "vacation" of sorts away from "myself"--- if even for a few hours. Not only do enjoy the Quasi erotic "High", but all the concerns and worries of the normal ME "drop away" and relieve my stresses and allow me to completely relax.
We must keep in mind that that there are several KINDS of CDers here. Some have gender issues and see their Dressed selves as their "Real ME". While others have simple erotic fetishes. I have even known of some who have an S/M (humiliation) HIGH thing going on and other "motivators", like risk taking and taboo breaking that also generate "highs". --- Some types are more open and "vocal" than others, especially the "Its the Real Me" types, so that can sort of give us a false impression of the proportions of the different types represented here. Still others are drifting in a pink fog, and do not know what is going on--only just it feels good. --- But as they say, "whatever floats yer boat". ;)
I can truly say that wearing a nylon baby doll with nylon rumba panties to bed light my candle every time. Cheeky panties are also something I like wearing.
Interesting thread. I'll answer it a few ways
1) dressing is something I have to do , I have tried not too and that was not a good thing
2) My clothing fetishes are nylon and satin, but panties are my #1, I gave up my guy underwear 5 years ago and even thought changing at the gym is hard it is worth it.
3) my sexual related fetishes involve being feminine , and being prone I think. I guess I like to give up control and enjoy the fun.
For me, it was always stockings or pantyhose. I just loved hose of all kinds. In my younger days hose was quite a turn on. I loved wearing hose, but all I needed was to see a lady in hose and that triggered my senses. As I aged, it all changed. I just love wearing a bra. The feeling of my breasts encased in a bra is very much my #1 fetish. It is quite crazy in all, as I was always a leg and thigh man. I was never drawn to a woman's bosom. I have been working to increase my bust size, and now fill a C cup quite easily. The jiggle when I walk is mind blowing for me.
Thanks for calling me out, Jane. What I really meant was when NOTHING turns u on anymore it's sad. Because to me sex is a big part of life!:o
Marina, thanks for your varied comments. I, too, am a dresser who goes to extremes to NOT see any part of my male self in the mirror. Even a male finger ruins the image for me!:doh:
For me it would have to be one piece swimsuits. Yes panties, obviously but the caress of pressure one gets all over is comforting and strangely reassuring.
Material obviously plays a part. Lined, soft and supportive. loved those Japanese ones from the 80's vibrant colours and beautiful cuts.
Non lace bodysuits, stretchy, shiny,slightly padded in the body.
Thank you all for the interesting read.
The mirror. I love seeing the woman looking back at me.
I'm with Paulette.
A nice set of traditional babydoll pajamas with full briefs will fan my fame every time.
Lacy PJs
It's pantyhose and lace top stockings for me. Nothing beats a great pair of legs.
Any kind of a long skirt or dress gets me going every single time. I don't know why but I'm attracted to the traditional, classical feminine look.
Me too. I love watching old movies to catch a glimpse of a pretty woman in her baby doll night gown. A really low budget and very bad movie that has a lot of baby doll nighties is Monster's Crash The Pajama Party https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x2P8v-vM0B0Quote:
Originally Posted by Paulette
Karen, how did I miss such a quality movie? Of course the shots of those babydolls are fantastic. Reminds me of the ones I loved to view in the catalogs of the 60?s.