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Panties every day and bras most days, keeps the pink fog at bay. My chances to fully dress are very limited, once or twice a year. If I could not at least undress, the pressure would build I?m sure.
I did go once for about two years to stop cding, but I never stopped thinking about it or looking at garments. Luckily, I only packed away my stuff and did not purge.
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Before retiring, not very long. Now, like Jamie, I underdress daily, sometimes more. It?s pretty much standard procedure. And yes, I thoroughly enjoy it.
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My opportunities to go out are limited, usually to a full week every year. Occasionally other odd days become available but they are few and far between. Would I like more, yes of course but like so many here we have to live withing the confines of our family relationships.
That said I do get amble time to dress PF, Partially Femme most days. Underwear, hose, skirt and top, forms in as well. Being in a DADT relationship I have to keep the femme me hidden. You'll often find me with a fleece top and jogging bottoms covering up my femme things sans forms. Keeping them on would be strange to say the least. I won't go into details but with the way our daily schedules pan out, I typically get 4-7 hours a day were I'm PF and as I've said many times, I regularly count my blessings. Reading here of those who go for months and years without the chance to dress confirms to me just how fortunate I am.
And as for how long can I go without dressing before it starts to get to me. Well, weeks. Life will throw circumstances at you that mean dressing just isn't possible but also that time is that which means you're being kept occupied doing other things, like an extended holiday. I'll continue to people watch, looking at what GG's are wearing. Looking for outfit ideas, style hints. And of course, absence makes the heart grow fonder so once the period ends it's nice to return to your other wardrobe.
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Sorry your opportunities are so limited. I need to go out fully dressed regularly. I always feel better!
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It depends on what else is going on (competing for attention). Right now, I get out about twice a week to do our grocery shopping, in another part of town. Occasionally, I'll stop for lunch at a fast food place. Would I like to get out more? Of course! But I have other responsibilities that require me to be in my guy disguise since my wife doesn't want anyone that we know to know about this side of me. So I'm grateful that she accepts my biweekly excursions.
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The longest I've ever gone without dressing at all was about a year to 2 years. That was decades ago. For most of my life I've seldom gone more than a month. More recently I've been out in the world in some way dressed more than once a month and am dressed much of the time at home.
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I'm in my 9th year of CD sobriety. Of course, I never stop fully thinking about it, so I visit here to placate what many refer to the pink fog. I had a long run of never getting "caught" and decided it better to walk away from the table while ahead. When I read about so many of you discussing the supportive wife that embraces it, I sometimes wonder if it's a bunch of lies because I cannot relate to having that kind of spouse. But that doubt passes soon, I just wish I had the same experience as so many of you.
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Since retiring a couple years ago I have a much lesser need or desire to fully dress. Not sure if it's lack of opportunity, my busy schedule or less stress in my life. In my later working years I absolutely needed to dress at least once a week. My longest drought was 12 years. Unfortunately it lasted from my later high school years until several years after my wife and I got married. I had pretty much written it off as a puberty-phase-thing I had outgrown (pre-internet days). Unfortunately, it has caused a lot of mental anguish ever since it came back.
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I go for a week or more occasionally with out the need to dress, but not very often. If I'm traveling with my wife (she knows, but isn't into it), I will generally put off full dressing until I get back, but if the trip is more than a week, I find myself looking longingly at dresses and such, and will occasionally buy one as my wife and I are out shopping. She'll comment on my tastes, no apparent negative judgement, but I still don't dress in front of her. Oddly, when I'm in between CD times, I may be surprised that I have no urge at all, but then an hour later, I can't wait for the transformation-- this happens frequently.
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Even 18 hours is stretching it for me because I have constant urges, I love my lingerie so much and can't wait to slip into it for bedtime every night. Since I started dressing in my teens it's rarely been more than 2-3 days without dressing.
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10 years is the longest spell. Varies from once ir twice a week to every few months. Depending upon opportunities and whether or not I have the urge.
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6 months is the longest I?ve gone without dressing up. I?ve purged my clothes once when I moved to a new home, and regretted it immediately. It?s amazing how quickly I can stock up on dresses, petticoats, and pantyhose when the urge is so strong! The thrill is still there when I hit BUY or SUBMIT ORDER on a pretty piece of clothing. Once the clothes are in my possession, my urge to dress is almost impossible to fight. When the wife is home, I sneak dressing up sessions in the middle of the night when she?s asleep. The amount of times I?ve almost been caught by my wife is too many, and definitely will be posted in other threads!
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I have mornings from 4 to 9 and a nice private space.
Routine eye appointment this morning so I'm skipping a day.
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I went almost a year. I'm back in now dressing less. Giving my wife more husband time. I can tell you never purge
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Due to living circumstances I don't have the opportunity to dress up, it's been years since I've fully dressed, but, it's never far from my mind. I used to have a job which meant staying away during the week, so would dress up a lot of evenings in my hotel room, but, I changed jobs as got tired of the constant travel and being away from home, I knew it would probably mean dressing up opportunities would be limited and it was a factor I considered when deciding to change jobs. While I do miss dressing up, my life otherwise is much better, hopefully I'll be able to get back dressing again in the future and do plan on getting a full makeover in the next year, just need to build up the courage to go through with it.
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Three Weeks....Nope. Couldn't do that. Now make up has always made my face feel hot and I usually try not to do much of that. But I don't even have enough male clothing to go close to that long...lol. I am what I am. Loving it too!