This is a great on-going story. Keep the progress reports coming. I have yet found a way to full disclose the extent and desires of my dressing with my wife. I did sign her up for this board. She just doesn't know it yet
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This is a great on-going story. Keep the progress reports coming. I have yet found a way to full disclose the extent and desires of my dressing with my wife. I did sign her up for this board. She just doesn't know it yet
I'm so very happy for you....two people sharing all of themselves...you can't get any better than that...well done :hugs:
Hi Kristen,
Great thread, great story! I'm very happy for both of you. I have always felt that CDing can enhance a relationship, bring couples closer together, and build intimacy, and it sounds like that is what is happening for you. Way to go! :thumbsup:
Do be aware that some women, especially if they are the caring, nurturing type, tend to bite off more than they can chew initially, in terms of their acceptance level. It makes us so happy to see our partner happy, that we go overboard and lose touch with what we really want and need....for a while anyway. Then eventually we start to feel uncomfortable and resentful and don't understand why. I guess what I am saying is that even when a woman is initially very accepting and encouraging, it is still a good idea to go slow and make sure she is being true to her real feelings before she gets in over her head and has to put the brakes on.
My best wishes to you both, and please keep us updated.
Love, Marla xx
[SIZE="3"]Points well taken, I have slowed it down gave her time to comprehend what I have said, I have told her not to let me presure her into something she is not comfortable with, that she is the one setting the pace. As for me, I am listening to her, I try not to have those conversations over the phone, I want to see her face how she reacts, hold her hand be there for her when somethings are a shock or a little tough to understand. I am not trying to act like a kid in a candy store, with my new found freedom, If anything I have been dressing less lately do to time restrants, and the fact that we have been seeing each other more. I have learned alot froms other's posts here, and hope that what I post here other can use to come out to their SO.:hugs: [/SIZE]Quote:
Originally Posted by Marla GG
[Size=4]Note...My GF once used the term GG before I told her, and I read more into it than she knew. To her GG stood for Great Grandma an old and wise woman, Id be careful using the old part here but the GGs here are wise.[/Size]
I am so glad that things are going so well for you and your SO. keep talking and keep on gurlen. Can't wait for your post on the makeover she wanted to give you. I hope it is soon and I hope it goes well.
I never said this (total honesty) would be easy, but I did say it would be worth the effort you've made. I almost laughed outloud when I read your ironic typographical error quoted above. You only can't if you think you can't!Quote:
Originally Posted by Kristen Kelly
It sounds like the two of you are well on your way to forever together, and that is as it should be. :hugs:
Kristen, awesome!! Thanks for sharing and caring!! It sounds like once you figured out what you needed to be you, you took logical steps to share with someone who sounds like could be your soulmate!! I like the way you have done your homework, that's what this site is for!!
It's great that you are continually reassuring her to let you know if all is well, for real!! Like Marla said, many women do go along for the ride, thinking they are okay, and something happens, and realization sets in. The 2 of you spending extra time communicating and doing new fun things together is a great foundation builder for a solid relationship of total trust and love.
The simple, kind things my partner always did for me for 12 years is what brought me around!
My heart is happy, keep it up!!
:love: Kat
Great news Kirsten
You seem to be going itn the right direction and at the right speed as well.
Long may it continue.
Thanks so much Kristen, for sharing your story and keeping us up to date. your's is a remarkable story and it's so sweet to see it turning out this way.
It's inspiring and encouraging to so many members of our community.
Thank you again,
Rikki
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Right on girls!!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Bernice
Congratulation :love: sounds like "dreams come true" :heehee: