more people know than you think....

I think my Mum probably knows. When I was about 14 she asked if i'd been in her underwear drawer. I said "No". She then asked if I had a problem I wanted to tell her about, physically shaking by this point I again said "No". I never heard any more on the subject. Last month she took a pile of laundry to wash for us as our machine had broken (flooded the kitchen floor 3 times :mad: ). Anyway my wife had inadvertantly put my silk and lace blue panties in with the load. Despite the fact that they should've been handwash only, they were obviously not my wifes, as they must be at least twice the size of anything she owns. We got the load back all neatly folded and ironed, and never a further word said. Mums... Don't you just love them. x

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Originally Posted by KellyT

I think my Mum probably knows. When I was about 14 she asked if i'd been in her underwear drawer. I said "No". She then asked if I had a problem I wanted to tell her about, physically shaking by this point I again said "No". I never heard any more on the subject. Last month she took a pile of laundry to wash for us as our machine had broken (flooded the kitchen floor 3 times :mad: ). Anyway my wife had inadvertantly put my silk and lace blue panties in with the load. Despite the fact that they should've been handwash only, they were obviously not my wifes, as they must be at least twice the size of anything she owns. We got the load back all neatly folded and ironed, and never a further word said. Mums... Don't you just love them. x

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yeah I am monkeys uncle if my mother doesnt know, on the subject of neighbours and being sociable, I wish mine wasnt sociable anymore he is always there when i go in the garden, never see me dressed though I suspect?

My male ex next door neighbour who moved years ago told my I looked good in my fluorescent pink bike shorts in a sarcastic way and the Italians in the two story house behind have definitely seen me dressed. There is no way they could miss as their house is on a hill overlooking mine back yard.

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I think my Mum probably knows. When I was about 14 she asked if i'd been in her underwear drawer. I said "No". She then asked if I had a problem I wanted to tell her about, physically shaking by this point I again said "No". I never heard any more on the subject. Last month she took a pile of laundry to wash for us as our machine had broken (flooded the kitchen floor 3 times :mad: ). Anyway my wife had inadvertantly put my silk and lace blue panties in with the load. Despite the fact that they should've been handwash only, they were obviously not my wifes, as they must be at least twice the size of anything she owns. We got the load back all neatly folded and ironed, and never a further word said. Mums... Don't you just love them. x

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Yeah ya gotta love 'em! Growing up, I was always in her dresser, being as careful as I could as she was an an extremely neat person, so much so that she let on that she knew I was doing something. But boy did she find out! She always wore padded bras because as she said, she had a chest that was flatter than a pancake. I stole one of her bras, lengthen it to fit me, and wore it. Why not? Not only could I wear a bra, but have a chest at the same time! Well, One day she got fedd up with my messy ways, and cleaned my closet. Caught! :eek: When asked, I did a Ralph Cramden Imitation-Hummina, hummina, hummina. In other words, I pleaded ignorance. She believed me of course. Yeah, right! She did say that she never wanted to find anything like that again. She didn't. I got real good at hiding, and alot more careful with her things that I continued to wear. Love and xxx, Lily

Yes; women can tell. At the check out line in the supermarket they will say things like "Thanks... hun ... sweety or dear. I don't think they would defer to just any guy that way. At the same time that special smile they sometimes bestow is unbelievably flattering and I always take pleasure in returning that smile. I just know a kind of femme bond has taken place. It's so joyful. I know that I'm blessed to be the way I am because no regular guy can experience this with a woman. It makes me feel like a true sister and what could be beter! :happy:

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[...] that special smile they sometimes bestow is unbelievably flattering and I always take pleasure in returning that smile. I just know a kind of femme bond has taken place. It's so joyful. I know that I'm blessed to be the way I am because no regular guy can experience this with a woman.

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Nicely said.

Sounds like you live in the wild wild West. Drinking, shooting, you forget to mention what you were smokin? HaHa

Sounds like they know and are ok with the amount of what they know. I think its great. Have fun with it and next time you go shooting don't forget to bring your polish with you........ and don't forget to share!!

Gina

You're probably right Wendy. We just may be fooling no one but ourselves. Wouldn't that be funny? Everybody going around saying "don't say anything, he thinks nobody knows he crossdresses". It just goes to show how kind hearted people really are.

Wouldnt be surprised if people in my small apartment complex knew.Its one of those places that only has 24 apartments and everybody pretty much knows each other.

I have a neghbor that screams out "Mommy I am a crossdresser" at the top of his lung every now and then outta the blue. I am not sure if he does this when I am not around or not. But when he does it my mom gives me funny looks. Yes mom knows but does not know why he does it so we all can hear him.

April Marie

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after meeting my new niebhors,we became friends in the sense that we were niebhors and say hi to each other...Then one day I came hope she came over and asked if I would take some of her clothes to the goodwill that she didnt wear them anymore or I could just keep what I wanted and she left...so now from time to time she gives me something that she doesnt want...and thats all thats been said about it...I have never dressed in front of her or her husband but she knew some way...Sheri

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Hi Sherri,

Oh wow, that is SO cool of your neighbor. We should all have neighbors like that!

I used to get makeup from a lady that I met on-line in the alt.fashion newsgroup. She was a serious makeup junkie who was apparently spending tons on stuff she'd try once and not like, so I benefitted, and it was wonderful!

Carol

When I lived in the city, (Chicago), I shared an entrance with the apartment above mine. The lady who lived there didn't speak English very well, being a recent Polish immigrant (I lived in a seriously Polish neighborhood), so our exchanges were limited to to "Hi, good morning" types of things.

Anyway, since our mail boxes in the apartment vestibule were tiny, the mail was dumped on the floor, and we had to sort through it, so she was very aware of my many catalogs for women's clothing and fashion magazines, and when a package would arrive for me, bearing the name of women's clothing stores more often than not, if she got to the mail before I did, she would leave the packages by my apartment door on her way up to her apartment.

Do you think she suspected?:GE:

Carol

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Originally Posted by April Marie

I have a neghbor that screams out "Mommy I am a crossdresser" at the top of his lung every now and then outta the blue.

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Tourettes, maybe?

Gotta be weird hearing it, considering.

Well I have been out in the yard and in font of the window dressed, so it's possable, but i'm sure they have seen more:eek:

23 yo neighbor girl caught me with bra, panties and thigh highs on letting the dogs out one day. I must have set a world record for ripping that stuff off and putting on some "normal" clothes. When she finally made it to the door, she said, "Awww, you didn't have to change just for me, I saw what you had on!"

Now she is about 10 times friendlier than before, and goes out of her way to say hi. Some chicks must dig it!:evil:

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23 yo neighbor girl caught me with bra, panties and thigh highs on letting the dogs out one day. I must have set a world record for ripping that stuff off and putting on some "normal" clothes. When she finally made it to the door, she said, "Awww, you didn't have to change just for me, I saw what you had on!"

Now she is about 10 times friendlier than before, and goes out of her way to say hi. Some chicks must dig it!:evil:

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That is so cool!

More women need to behave like this! :heehee:

I expect that some of my neighbors know that I crossdress. I don't mow the lawn in dresses or that type of thing but I keep my legs shaved and wear short shorts in summer, and I've chatted at my Weber grill with my neighbor who approached me, while in said shorts and wearing an obviously femme watch and ring. I don't get in their face, and they seem to take me in stride (and this is in a rural town of 2,000 people where their ancestors have lived since Elizabeth I was queen and I'm an outsider who barged in four years ago). I don't expect to be elected Mayor any time soon, but no one has been tossing fruit or vegetables, bottles or cans at me or my house (well ok, we do get the occasional bottle and can found in the front yard, but I don't think it's got anything to do with how I dress). I think, even or perhaps especially in a rural backwater like this, that most older people who are my neighbors are more concerned about other aspects of how their neighbors behave, than crossdressing.

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D'ya think dragging the bin bags down the drive in my leopard faux fur coat and heels may have been noticed? Oh, bugger! ;)

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They might have noticed. I should try that. Tomorrow is garbage day. What color heels go with taking out the trash???

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we all think this cding thing we do no one notices when we try to be carefully not to get caught ... OK last night about PM my neighbor next door comes over and asks me if i want to target practice with our bows he said a few guy's are coming over and we will be drinking some beer .... well why not i went up stairs and got my new cross bow ...

in all there were 5 guys out drinking and shooting their bows .... i was setting up my cross bow as it was new and never used .... soon after every one was playing around with the cross bow ... and drinking beer ... my Nambour comes out and says .."you should put some of your red nail polish on the sight so you could see it better."....i just said good idear....

how many of you think that your nabobs just might know that something is going on in your house and yard???

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Wendy! What a great way to out yourself! A crossbow with a bunch of macho compounds and recerves! :tongueout

Oh yeh more people notice. My wife asked me if she could talk to a friend about it. I was way cool with it. She said that when she mentioned it her friend was all like, "yeh Ive known for a long time. He just looks that way"
And I have gotten to the point of not really trying to hide too much. I dont go out in a dress and such, but I dont wear anything male anymore.
I do believe that more people notice that what we sometimes think, they just dont care or say anything.

Hey Katrina, everyone knows you match your shoes to your accessories, in this case the trash, so silver shoes if you have cans, something in dark green or black for Heafty Bags.

One time while riding the elevator with a woman living in the same apartment building, different floor, She told me " You look good when you dress up" I was in drab at the time. She said it was cool and knows others. The surprising thing is she connected the en femme and drab presentation. Who else has done that?

I have been seen quite often coming home from being out some where enfemme. Neighbors on both sides have seen me that way. My one of my neighbors has even said hi to me as I was walking to my door, I said hi back and waved. I used to always check of weather any of my neighbors were out side before I left the house, but anymore I just walk out they really don't seem to care, if I'm dressed or in drab.

you girls are lucky, i know my mother doesnt know, and im glad she doesnt, when my parents divorces she made a huge deal of everylittle thing if she knew i was a cd she would have put me in a mental institution, shes psycho!

My only close neighbor works out of town and only home on weekends. He lives alone and not that it matters to me (rumor has it he is gay) as he never has any visitors. I spend a lot of time enfemme at home and do so enjoy sitting on the porch in the mornings and evenings dressed as well as doing yard work, car washing etc. He spends a lot of time tinkering with old Volkswagons and doing things around his place. I have noticed that he does do a lot of looking in my direction and although I have never caught him I think he likes to secretly (look/peep). In the few occassions we have spoken nothing has ever been said. All in all he is a pretty good neighbor, minds his own business etc. Friendly enough, we wave to each other in passing. Maybe someday something will be said or we will get to know one another better? Been neighbors for 6 years so don't think much will change.
ginger