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I have been stupid several times, I forgot a wig in the 2nd bathroom the first time. Another time, I left out a brush, I confessed, it was mine. told my wife the truth, I liked to crossdress. Recently I handwashed a bra and panties and hung them up in the bathroom while I cleaned up. Well, I forgot them. Even though she knows I CD, she doesn't like it. That's the way it goes!
Before I finally "told", I sometimes would hope to be caught, or even to have an item of clothing found .. just something big enough to be a catalyst for talking.
I must say that I now regret having told my sons. One of them, the older (23), seems ok with it .. but the other (19) seems to be very upset if/when the subject is brought up -- they have not seen me dressed, nor have they seen my clothes, they have only been told about it.
... but yeah, when I go out, sometimes I catch myself wanting to be "caught" or "read". It's a wierd dynamic, adds a little bit of excitement to a truly dull life.
I went out dressed all day on halloween. I was seen by several people I know who mentioned it to others. I received a few comments for a week or two, no one has mentioned it lately. If I were outed I doubt if any of my friends would really care.
That’s Halloween.
You can get away with anything then! :) It's probably the only time a closet CD'r (like me) can go out dressed with no expectations or intimidations. Or, most of all, having to explain other then saying "It's Halloween!"
If only someone would find the bodies under my floorboards... then I'd be caught and sent to prison, and the killings could stop!
Oops, sorry, thought I was on the murderers.com forum!
I was also imagining quite a few times that it would be exciting to get caught all dressed up. But when that really happend to me, I wet myself from embarrassment and fear. (sometimes I go out at night walking around fully dressed in the other side of the city, quite far from my neighbourhood. The reason for that is, that no one from my family or friends know about my passion yet).
I was totally unprepared when a cop stopped me while I was walking back to my car. I wasn't expecting that, since I didn't see him walking toward me until it was too late. He stopped me and I started stuttering because of embarrassment and at the same time peeing down my legs. He clearly saw that but I just couldn't stop. Finally I managed to stop, but huge puddle was already under my feet and pants visibly wet. I was so angry with myself, how could I choose exactly that night for wearing knee length light blue colored female jeans and not long skirt or at least something dark colored. Really soooo humiliating, especially since he was giggling all the time while establishing my true identity. I was so scared that he would arrested me or something. Luckly he let me go, since I didn't do anything wrong, but I had to walk all wet another 15 minutes back to my car where I had my male jeans and I could change. That 15 minutes felt like an hour to me.
After that incident I was gathering courage almost 6 months to go out again dressed like a woman.
Getting Caught by a Just Anybody is not soo bad, I would think, Like a cop or UPS Guy.. They are just randomes....
By a family member or a friend "especially" a Male Buddy would be the worse as far as FEAR GOES.
They say Honesty is THE BEST policy.. I think NOT ALWAYS! Sometimes this will hurt you..
As far as an answer to this question = WHO KNOWs. It depends upon the individuale and the settings..