Isn't it just so lovely to be seen and recognized as you wish to be?
Every time you were referred to as m'am or she didn't your heart jump with joy?
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Isn't it just so lovely to be seen and recognized as you wish to be?
Every time you were referred to as m'am or she didn't your heart jump with joy?
Yes, it was indescribably joyful.
I have no idea how it happened, in retrospect. Nevertheless, I am exceedingly grateful that it did.
Really that sounds like a killer day. Sure wished i had the nerve to get one....You look GREAT!!!
Abby sounds like you had a great day. It does feel good being call ma'ma or lady when out. All you need to do is over come the fear of going out not other people.
I couldn't agree with you more, Glenda.
And, Bobbie Jo, I hope you are able to do this in the near future. You just need to want it very much. The girls here have been so inspiring always.
We are happy for you!:D A perfect day! Congratulations! I believe that you made it a perfect day because you believed it was going to be a perfect day. In the same way that I have gone to the lumber yard with a nice set of 40 C+ breast forms under my drab clothes, with no comments or even glances, because I was projecting a male image, I believe your day went well because YOU decided it was going to and YOU presented a positve female image. Your avatar is not large, but it looks very passable to me. Although I have had some very nice pedicures and manicures, I normally do my own, and spend the money on shoes.
Just a note re: getting a pedicure en homme, the shop that my ex used for her pedicures used to do regular pedicures on about half of the local pro football team. As far as I know, none of them dressed for the occassion.
Congrats again, please try to send pics next time. :thumbsup: :thumbsup: w.
You know, Wenda, I think you're completely right. I honestly have no idea where my courage or confidence came from but I had no fear when I went for the pedicure and manicure and when I went shopping all over thereafter. I probably had no right to be so confident. There are a zillion girls in our forum who are infinitely prettier and more presentable than I. Nevertheless, I loved the outfit I was wearing and I was so happy to be doing this. I paid close attention to how women carry their pocketbooks and always tried to have my elbows bent and carry the pocketbok in the crook of my elbow. I tried to walk calmly and with whatever grace I was capable of. But, in the final analysis, I think I was just extremely fortunate.
Hi Abby :happy: , small critique of something you said there. "I probably had no right to be so confident." Actually I think it might be more accurate to think "I have no reason I'm aware of to be so confidant".
Right? You've got plenty of right girl. Reason? You look the part as far as I can see.
Maybe this is one of those times to just accept it in a zen sort of way. Once you've done that then explore in retrospect the why.
The results justify the confidance anyways.