I enjoy doing what I'm doing. Given the chance I might enjoy being a real woman but it is not going to happen.
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I enjoy doing what I'm doing. Given the chance I might enjoy being a real woman but it is not going to happen.
"could you put that button behind my ear,doctor? i really dont want anyone finding it."
wouldnt it be nice
yea i would stay female, i think the first months would be nothing but lots and lots of sex though !
As long as we're dreaming here, why not go for a week or a month to really be able to savor the full life on the other side?
I think this is a dream many of us once wished we could have. I would stay female.
There are also those questions of if there was no gender identity and everyone was androgynous, would you will want to do what you do? These are hard to define and answer because it asks "Are you cross dressing or transitioning because of social influence or genetic defects?"
I can't relate to cross dressers even though I labeled myself as one when I was young. I have always had a problem with my gender of birth, I just never accepted to myself that I was going to do anything about it.
These questions are always tough for me ;)
couldn't have said it better... :thumbsup:Quote:
Originally Posted by Seville
Oh, heck ya I'd stay a girl. It would be a dream come true!Quote:
Originally Posted by latebloomer
All right everyone no has posed this, what body would you be in. First I would not want to be the 16 that I am now. Some OK A lot of us don't have the body and having the female parts are MAYBE OK but I for one want a size 8 OK I will take a 10. Then on with the part , 1 day 10 days a year.
Josephine
I would stay as a girl and you know why?
Cause girl can do man activities and wear men stuff without any probleme
we all know about the man doing girls thing...
If in this magical transition, all angles and dimensions of life become OK with the change - then sure. Presto chango - I'd be fine with it for the duration. Joni
I totally agree with Dixie on this. I'd jump at the opportunity to be a real girl for a day, and would have to reserve my decision till the end of that day, but I do feel that a week, or even a month would be better to make the right decision. One day certainly wouldn't be enough time to truly enjoy it.
I'll like to stay the man who I am. My wish to crossdress comes in regular periods, weeks, sometimes a few months.
When I satisfy my wish for a day of a few days in a row, than it usually gets boring and no longer interesting, I switch back into my male mode.
I like it that way.
Doreen
If I was changed to female for the day it would have to be as a fit ,healthy good looking, sexy young woman for me to want it to be a permanent change into a female .
If my wish was granted then yes please a permanent switch :heehee:
''Nishababe'':tongueout
I'm proud of being a man, and haven't learned all there is about being a man. I haven't been an Elder yet. I'm curious. I have things to give that may require being a man in order for them to be well received.
Become a woman? How about "Next Time?"
:rose: Roberta :rose:
[SIZE="1"]For me I would surely stay there, a dream come true.
Even a 20 million lottery win wouldn't disuade me[/SIZE]
no way no how not ever!!!! we still enjoy being the man? about the house and just enjoy taking time off some days to relax and let some one else be responsible for the worlds problems.
Now if I could change for the whole day and go back about 30 years, I might have a bit of a problem with coming back.
But truth be told I have it all now, the ability to be as femme as I want, to be a father, grandfather and husband. How lucky can one girl get!
Hugs,
Carla
If the change were simply to wake up in the same life with the other plumbing and have to piece together a new life amongst hurt and confused people who knew me as a guy - No. I'd enjoy the day, maybe try the plumbing out and wistfully go to bed knowing that things would be back to normal again. (and take lots of pictures for Karren)
Of course, I have also reached the age where the physical and social differences between men and women start to diminish. I don't play football anymore and I probably won't get drafted; My wife is very unlikely to have a baby. We both work and pretty much treat each other as interchangable parts.
Now if you had asked me this question when I was 16 and had a lot fewer ties and responsabilities...probably the other answer.
I've done a lot of interesting and enjoyable things in my life that I probably wouldn't have had I been a girl. I don't regret many things, but there is a part of me way deep inside that yearns to have had and mothered a baby.
Oh well (she said wistfully)...
jj
Oh yes one way ticket no looking back. :doll:
I'll keep this short...
Been there done that but I stayed for almost 5 years (non-op) as opposed to one day. IF I hadn't had to deal with issues like transisioning on the job, friends, family, neighbors, a daughter being born, (thankfully a supportive wife), I can say it would be great fun. Oh it was to a point but then again it wasn't. As I remember it was 6-8 months+ before most people I knew quit referring to me as "he/him" etc. Due to the circumstances of my transision (controled medical issue out of my control) work was the easiest place. Family, as with most people, was the hardest but at least they were understanding. Around year two I really felt "normalized" as a woman (accepted by everyone). The trip back was actually easy on everyone around me (family/friends) but hard for me in that due to my job (if I wanted to keep it) I had to present as a female. This ment dressing and going to work as a woman, then coming home to dress and be a man. THAT was hard... to just switch off a learned mind set after 4 years when you get out of the car at home. If you think spending a week or a weekend "enfem" is fun but hard to remember everything on Monday morning you should try it every day.
If I had to do it over again right now:
1) I would have never gone down that pathway
2) I would not have transisioned back
but
3) I really wouldn't changed a thing.
just keep it a fantasy...its a lot more fun that way...
Jenn
I think I would stay as a woman, as I have spent years as a man. I am most generally open to new things and doing all the things real women do with hair styles and make up and all the changes in the clothing might be fun.
Well, I'm a TS. Does this answer the question? If not, I would want to remain a female.
I would love being a girl 100% for one day. Only for a day though. Would go back to cding.
I think I would definitely take up the offer of being female for one day, but would change back to be a genetic guy afterwards. I enjoy guy things too much, I just like to be femme occasionally.
I'd be happy to be female if I could be a Mommy... I always feel so damned broody...