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One question I would have is what was she doing "snooping" on your computer? If the pictures were in a closed file then she had to have been actively looking for something on YOUR computer to have found them. Now, if it is a "community" computer in the house then it's pretty much a moot point, but if it is your computer in your house, one has to wonder what was she doing on YOUR computer snooping into YOUR files.Quote:
Originally Posted by JOEY88
Kandis:love:
Well Ladies; I guess I deserved the harsh words. I do see your point.
Just to clearify a bit, we had discussed my CD before, and I mildly exposed her to Erika previously. She chose to ignore it and hoped it would all just go away.
I wanted to show her that in fact, Erika was not going away, and hoped she would accept and understand that. Now, in retrospect, It was a real bad idea, and I appreciate all your words of wisdom.
We are going out tonight, (don't worry I am wearing pants and a shirt! Man style) :heehee: and I do believe we will weather this storm.
I am now left with a decision to make. DO I abandon Erkia forever to please my SO ? Or do I go way, underground ?
:eek:
Erika
Ericka, Everyone is diffirent and in diffirent cercumstances, that being said here is my opinion. You can't get rid of erika, you may bury her for a time but she will be back. I have been through that several times through several relationships. When i was engaged to my ex-wife she knew for 7 months before the wedding worn skirts around the house everything. But once the ring was placed she tried to put a halt to it. Which happened for about 2 years. Then i was up in arms because of the fact she tried to change me and the only reason for it was her own hangups. She still makes fun of me on occasion and I retaliate in kind, she always backs down. Truth is the founding stone of trust and truly without a good foundation how will you two weather the real harsh storms that may come your way. Talk about it openly and try to take it slow. You are who you are as is she, be respectful and loving.
XOXOX
Claudia
We as Cd's have nothing but the world we create and each other, what we do is taboo, gays come out the closet we hide in it they say they are gay and proud we say nothing gay people have the numbers and got power we got just the cloths on or back. what people do not know about they are scared about......we need to stand up and be counted.
LA CINDY LOVE
Joey,
My wife told me the same things your sister told you. She wanted me to talk to my doctor and didn't like it when the doctor told me that everyone has both male and female in them. We didn't chose to be this way, just the way we are. Everyone always wants to blame someone.
Well it's good your sister's hot telling :hugs:
Angie
All right y'all, play nice! Remember this may be a very young girl we are talking about who said it came from the Devil. We could be talking about a child here, not a narrow minded adult.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rachaelb64
LA CINDY LOVE for President! It is very true what you say, we hide in the gray area as most of us are hetrosexual and wear womans clothing for pleasure. If we get busted, usually we are branded as gay as the current male dominated world cannot see anything but black and white.Quote:
Originally Posted by LA CINDY LOVE
I don't think cding comes from the devil he don't really like girly stuff. It sucks that your sister would think that but i'm just guessing it was said out of shock. I would be kinda weirded out if i walked in my bothers room and saw pics off him as a girl. I don't really understand what is so bad about dressing as a girl if your a guy. It would seem kinda strange a few years ago but really anything goes now days.
Tell your sister your sorry you dressed that way and you will try better to look more like her next time.
Ronni,
You are so right about the male dominated world. It is alright to be a guy, even for women. They have panties called boy shorts! But for a guy to act the least little bit feminine. Well, whats the world coming to!