Congratulations JoAnn, that is very cool. You might find that when your wife attends a meeting with you, she could feel more comfortable about everything. Like was mentioned, go slow and tell her the truth.
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Congratulations JoAnn, that is very cool. You might find that when your wife attends a meeting with you, she could feel more comfortable about everything. Like was mentioned, go slow and tell her the truth.
I took her to "Olive Garden" for dinner Sunday night as a Thank you. Last friday I was in a car accident. A F150 hit me from the rear. No one was hurt, but yesterday the insurance company decided to total the SUV, since it was going to cost more to repair than it was worth. So wife is thrilled, she gets a new car too. LOL
That is great. I am glad that your wife is coming around. Good luck and keep it at her pace.:)
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I hope my wife is that good to me when she fines out
Jammie
Jammie.......I told my wife last year I was a CDer. Her reaction at the time was she did not want to see me dressed and I could have one Saturday afternoon for myself. This was the status until 2 weeks ago, when she accidently saw me fully dressed. It is clear now that she had a lot of preconceived notions and fear about her husband being a CDer. When she saw me fully dressed, I think a lot of those concerns vanished. As we continued to talk, I think her fears also started to vanish and now it's not such a bad thing, even a fun thing is some respects. LOL I also think she is enjoying pulling my chain on this with some of her recent attics and remarks.
If you have not told you wife, I hope when you do that she responds as well as mine has. It has taken almost a whole year to get to where wife and I are at now, with 98% of it coming in the last two weeks.
It is amazing that I have over 3,000 posts when you consider that I had to sneak around to read, reply, and post on this website over the last three years. Now that my wife accepts me, I can now openly logon and read/reply and post without having to quickly switch pages and such. In fact just a few minutes ago, she walks into the computer room while I had this site up reading. I start to scroll down to the next message and she sys, "Stop scrolling, I'm not finished reading". So I wait and she says, "OK done". I ask her if she would like to get her own account and she says, "Naw, I'll just read yours". LOL
you have a really great wife. mine lets me wear a dress heels hose and jewlery but still doesnt want to see me in make up and nail polish.