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[FONT="Comic Sans MS"]Hey secret sis
I just found out after 20 years of marriage that my husband is CD, and I found out on my own he didnt tell me. I did not freak out or scream or want to leave him I still love him very much.
But I will not lie to you it is very confusing. One minute I cry the next I am OK.
I am sure we will be fine.
She might not react like you think.
It is strange.
How would you feel I guess if she wanted to start dressing like a man.,
But if she loves you she will try to understand.
I am trying very hard.,
My biggest thing is I dont think that I want to see it. And you have to respect her for that right now it is hard. but we talk alot it has actually brought us closer in that manner.
GOOD LUCK!
If you need to talk I am here.
Good Luck
MG
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I told my wife after about 2 weeks of being married. WE were both only 18 at the time and a little into everything. She accepted me and also taught me to do my makeup curl my own hair and let me wear her dresses aand heels. It went well for a while and then we would have a fight about something and she would make me stop so I'd be patient till she came around again. She told me once that she thought I'd outgrow this and I told her I had been doing this since I was about 10 years old. After that I think she realized it wasn't going to stop and she became more involved in my dressing. She takes me shopping and if I need pantyhose or something she will shop for me while I am at work. I dress in the house when she is here and she is ok with it.Last night while being dressed I painted her nails to match mine,and sat and talked for a few hours and I was dressed. Be patient and go slow and things may work out for you like they did for me.
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telling wife
I have been engaged for three years and with my fiance for five. I have just revealed to her my desires to explore my crossdressing further. Since I met her she always knew of my underdressing...literally from the first date. I am underdressed 24/7. She has no problem whatsoever and after I told her about my further interests she is very happy for me and says it is divine to be free and wants me to be happy. She is going to shop with and for me and we both have a verry satisfying sex life and things could never be better. BTW she says she knew all of this from day 1 and is wondering what took so long.
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Thanks to everyone who responded to this... Since I posted this so much has happened...
Today was the day we were going on our litte getaway, but it has been cancelled, :sad: because this past weekend my mother in law had a heart attack. (She's going to be fine... will be leaving the hospital today.)
I was still considering telling my wife but now I know I can't for a short while. I will be rescheduling our trip for late June and I am hoping the opportunity to let her know will come up before then.
Thanks again for everyone's comments... :) It was great to get some GG perspectives on this as well!
