With an attitude like this, koolaidkid99, I think you both are going to be fine, too. The most important thing is to love one another for the persons that you are, not the sex you are.
Your husband's feelings while he was growing up and the conclusions he has reached at this point in his life are not at all unique... that given different circumstances, a different path may have been chosen thought. I have a feeling the the two of you are going to be a nice addition around here :hugs:.