haters and dumb/smart asses come in waves. GG concerns also

Everyone is right about groups and people in cars. Just think when was the last time someone just walked up to you in a store and stepped in front of you in line (when it is clear you are in line)? Now ask the same question when you are in your car on the road.
The other truth is that the gay comments were said because of fear and a lack of confidence in their own sexuality. Why would a confident heterosexual male be afraid of a gay male? The answer is he wouldn't. Now if he is insecure then he feels threatened.
I like the sumation of one of us...COWARDS!!
Don't let them get you down.

I've got one or three scars on me... Just life in the big city. Don't even attempt to understand them... Trying to think down to that level gives me a headache...

Well I hate to sound like an echo but yea, people sadly enough feel allmighty and powerful when they are behind a car, and in groups.

Yeah a guy at work who I don't talk about CD issues, I told him about it, not so much what was said but the drivel from these true men. :brolleyes:

He says he gets that all the time, of course he is NOT CD [maybe deep-closeted but who knows...] he looks like a bad boy/tough guy, intimidating as hell. Of course the comments he gets are more like "F*** you!" for no other reason than his being.

It's funny with guys [not real men but "guys"] cause they are bothered by anyone who looks overly masculine or overly femme.

It was after talking to him about this that I really felt better. :D
Some guys are so insecure. Gyod looking femme at least I have an excuse to feel insecure. :heehee:

"and so it goes, goes around again, but now and then we wonder who the "real men" are...." [Joe Jackson]

yeah.

Because there are idiots who will say it to your face... or at least say it to GGs faces. I cannot tell you the countless times I've been ever so grateful to my friends for being there for me when things get out of hand because some guy "won't be ignored".

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Originally Posted by valenstein

DD, I've witnessed secondhand too many of those blood curdling stories, I can't fathom what it is that makes a man do those things to a woman, or any person.

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If you ever get the opportunity, Gavin DeBecker wrote an amazing book called The Gift of Fear and it helps put a lot of this stuff into perspective as well as ways to keep yourself from being a victim. I highly recommend it as a guild to anyone male or female.

Well, I haven't had much of the hit and run name calling but I do have experience with stalkers while en femme. Luckily I have good friends to back me up when these situations occur. As DD said, some of these guys will just not take "no" for an answer and it's good to have someone there watching your back.