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I live in a small conservative town which keeps me in the house there.
I'm also involved in activities that I really love and if it came out, I might not be able to participate. The main reason is although my wife is very supportive, she considers it private between the two of us and I repect that.
Although I'd love ideas on how to change her mind :battingeyelashes:
At my age I would not think of "comming out". With that said, "going out" enfemme is another story.. smiling
Janet
I also vote all of the above. Crossdressers aren't exactly held in very high regard among the general population. Most people think we're perverted sexual deviants, prone to stealing their children.
Sometimes I wonder why it's so unquestionable to stay in closet...
Well, I have been married, had children and made my public career as a man. I love very much my new wife who doesn't seem to be especially interested in crossdressing. I'm also especially sensitive to other people's reactions, especially negative ones. May be I'm afraid that my total world collapses in a way I cannot handle or don't have strenght to accomplish the whole outcoming.
If being in closet on the other hand turns too intolerable I might have no chance to choose. But I'm rather lazy and tolerate quite much things before I'll act, so may be it's not going to happen.
I don't go out alone, far too dangerous in my area. My friends who know mostly have a don't ask don't tell attitude towards my dressing. Could never dress for work, be out of a job toot-sweet.
I live in Oklahoma, which could mean all of the poll options (except for job loss because I don't have a job.)
Not only am I a cross-dresser, I'm transgendered... Luckily I have friends on my side now.