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This is why I have mixed feelings about "easing" the SO in on the CDing levels. She may begin the relationship assuming a very different scenario than the CDer ultimately or subconsciously has in mind.
Absolutely. Couldn't agree more. I feel uncomfortable when I read about 'easing her in gently'. As an accepting GG I needed to know 'worst-case' scenario as soon as I was told. I don't believe my SO has moved the goalposts since first coming out to me... I looked for that at the beginning but he's stayed consistent. Therefore, all the answers I received to the questions I asked at the beginning are still the same today.