Around 3.5, I have been out in public occasionaly (love to get out more) but no friends or family knows. Usually in dresses or skirts with high heels.
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Sabrina
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Around 3.5, I have been out in public occasionaly (love to get out more) but no friends or family knows. Usually in dresses or skirts with high heels.
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Sabrina
I dont where I am... I've been fully dressed only twice. sometimes I do wear panties under my male clothes, and sometimes sleep in a nightie. My family doesnt know but there's about 15 or so of my GG friends that do know and have seen my pics.
Usedto be a #5 but now i dont crossdress any more, IM JADED
Definitely 5 now. Though I have to schedule time to dress for both outings and at home due to family priorities...
I LOVE being out in public now. I get a few knowing smiles now & then, and WISH someone curious and polite would ask me about my little hobby... Being out and about is quite refreshing... I hope that when people meet/see me, they have more respect for us crossdressers...
dont have the time to dress up allthe time and its not a good idea to wear panties undernieth at work for i dont want them to be smelling like grease. but i do go out fully dressed at lease once a week so i say about a 3 :cool:
ava if they see you honthey would think yous a chick :D
I am sort of a 3 but as I live alone can dress whenever I like, which at the moment is just about every evening and weekend when I am not going out.
However I hope to move on to at least a 4 very soon once I gain more confidence. I am planning my first outing very shortly and hopefully things will progress from there.
I try to dress as a woman of my age or slightly younger would and I have no interest whatsoever in the fetish side of dressing. I dress as it helps me to relax and relieve stress.
Guess I would be a 3 also but would prefer a 5. That is hard with a not so understanding wife :( .
Due to circumstances and the fact that we don't do hallowean round these parts i must now be a '0' :(
Lucy
Hmm. I don't really seem to fit the scale!
Often a 2 (specially at work - wearing pretty pink & white polka dot panties now under my drabs)
Sometimes a 3 - when my wife is away (who does not tolerate me dressing under any circumstances - so it has to be secret from her)
A few times a 5 - out dressed in the car for drive arounds, and several times I have tried on lingerie and girl clothes in shops
Annabel
I am probably between a 2 and 3. I have all the clothing necessary, both under and over and am reasonbly good with make-up. My wife knows,and ignores it which I can accept, although I of course wish it was better then that. I dress fully 1 or 2 times a month. I have met one other girl who I think is about a 4.5 and loved it. I would love to dress and/or shop with other girls and take photos. I love the career/business woman look. I am 56.
I live alone,So i can dress any time I want and usually do. I love skirts & nice tops or dress. I always wear a nite gown & panties to bed. As for why I dress, It give's me a better state of mind & very relaxing. I just started using more makeup & losing weight,So some day maybe a 5.
XOXOXO :love:
Danette
im a five just luv to hang out at home ala fem or go out mostly luv to go out!!!!!!! xxoox
I am interested to see how many 3.5's there are. That is about where I would put myself. I wear knickers, pantyhose and camis and paint my nails all the time and wear bra and skirt quite frequently, but I fantasize about being a 4. Maybe one day the fantasy will be realized.
3.75
for me
hi ladies
i'd be a 2.5 as no one knows except you ladies. i wear lingerie under my clothes and dress up in that and a little more when home alone. can't dress at home now until schools reopens in fall...2 teenagers here coming and going.
jamie
Like to wear panties and stockings underneath my male clothing occasionally.
Like to wear a bra & panties all the time and I try to
Secretly underneath my male clothing and at home like to dress up fully, makeup, dresses, panties, etc. when no one is around. Still in the closet. Do it when I can but difficult due to circumstances.
Need to dress up as often as possible.
I dress up with my wife at night and sometimes when the kid's are not home
A 4! My wifey knows and I dress in front of her. No one else in the family knows though.
It is a NEED. Dress daily in mornings and evenings before and after work. Lately I have gone radical and in addition to my 18 hours a day in thigh highs, I have been wearing my 40B bra under loose fitting shirts to work and out and about to stores, etc. I think only once was I detected when someone suddenly patted me on my left shoulder blade and possibly felt the bra straps.
Number 5. I won't just stay at home all dressed up and with no place to go. I like to go to bars or night clubs, but when I have the chance, I also do everyday stuff like go the supermarket or to a mall.
I think I'd put myself as a 5+++, having transitioned (if I'm still allowed to answer, being TG not CD). If I'm in or out, whatever I'm doing and wherever I'm going I'm en-femme and I love it :) . Never been happier.
I have no male clothing :thumbsup: and although I have loads of clothes (including ones I've only ever worn when I tried them to buy - in true female form :rolleyes: ) I am still building my wardrobe. Where HE struggled to buy clothes even when absolutely essential, I struggle NOT to buy new clothes (especially if I see a nice skirt).
What sort of thing do I wear?
Lets get the work thing out the way first. I wear jeans (life can't be 100% perfect), a top and if it's colder a jumper to work.
Outside work, I'm ALWAYS wearing a skirt. Usually longer length (calf length or longer). With the warmer weather and my legs being less hairy than they used to be (thanks to having them waxed and probably my hormones) I'm not wearing stockings at the moment. I have also started bringing my hemline up to a relatively adventurous level of the knee or slightly below. I usually tend to go either for black or shades of red/pink in skirts. I also have a couple of skirts in blue and about 6 in biege/camel/cream colours
I usually wear a fairly loose fitting tee shirt or long sleeve tee shirt, which comes pretty much up to my neck to hide any chest hair I may still have (again, this is improving tremendously though not due to waxing - you try having your chest waxed :eek: ). The last couple of days though, I have worn tops with a more open neck and the one I'm wearing at the moment (and have been out shopping in this afternoon) is more of a plunge neckline, almost showing my cleavage. Most of my tops are white/cream/shades of red.
I've had numerous peole tell me that I look good in reds and I love the colour as well.
I (usually) dress to suit my age.
All my family know and are comfortable with me. Mum and Dad are even going to come and stay nearby when I go for my op.
Anne
and we aint talkin about the weight kind!!
Somewhere between a 3 and 5 is where I have been to currently am. Twenty five years ago I passed easy and freely as a tall woman at 6'1 135 lbs (somewhere around here is a pic of me at the beach with my wife...and Im the one in the string bikini!!). Now, at 6'4 and 210 lbs it aint so easy. Funny thing is tho...now I care less about who see's me. So Im out and about less as a lady, but dressed more often than not in casual womans clothes. Other than my wife and the Aunt who created Jennifer, no one else knows nor needs to...
Jenn
I'm like 2.4.
I think you're over-qualified ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by Anne_0
OK :cry:Quote:
Originally Posted by Tristen Cox
Oh stop! I as kidding :kissing:
Mostly a 4 with touches of 5.
I hate to quibble, dear, but it's important to me. The last time I checked a CD can be TG, or not. I'm a CD with no plans to take hormones or anything, but I definitely consider myself to be TG - even if "low end".Quote:
Originally Posted by Anne_0
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[size=2]Upon reconsideration, I guess I'm a 3+. I like Katrina's pi! I do belong to a nice private club with changing rooms, a big well-lit makeup room, and an area for photos, as well as a lounge area. I go there every week if I can. So I guess I'm not entirely "closeted".[/size]
hugs
Rachel
i guess im at no. 3 now but hopefully moving on to 4 one day :)
Just about a 3.5 , if you include my wife knowing, and asking the mens chainging room lady at M&S if I could try on a skirt. :rolleyes:
I'm more than 4 not the quite the full confident 5.
I go out quite regularly 2 -4 times a week in the daytime but I 'm not sure that I totally confident enough to interact with people in all situations.
Fiona xx
guess i'm a 5,,mostly,,i dress daily,,go out regularly en femme,,and pretty much everybody knows,(except for a few neighbors who actually think i'm a girl,/they've only seen me from a distance,20 ft or so, and we've never really spoken except hello),,but this just isn't possible, and i'm completely closeted at work,, though certainly suspect,(long nails,hairless arms/body and ponytail) i basically just avoid the issue.
I'm not sure where I fall on your scale. I guess we will have to go with a 3+. I am definitely a 3, and while I have not told any family or friends, I do, on occassion go out en femme.
Most of the time this is in the evening, and often when I am travelling for work, but I am usually out without drab two or three times a month.
So call me a 3 - 5.
JenniRose
MMMM hard for me but 3.5 I wear panties 24/7 and lingerie to bed dayly. I do dress in fem cloths around my wife. I have even changed to a dress or skirt while out 4 wheeling.
Kymmie
Like many of the girls I feel that I'm a three. Would like to be a four. Maybe someday.
Vivian :cry:
and your so passableQuote:
Originally Posted by fallen angle 1
good for you andria :DQuote:
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awww tristen be niceQuote:
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Kiss my!......Oh sorry folks I meant Sam :D :eek:
kiss your ..... what baby ;)
I indicated earlier that I am a 3 but am going out casually dressed in femme clothes with an androgynous look. Today at a family barbecue I was clearly wearing womens slacks and a womans shirt. It really took nerve on my part. No one really took notice and I received compliments from my sister and a female cousin saying I was wearing a very nice outfit! Made me feel really good. Maybe next year I'll go in a beautiful sundress but I wouldn't hold my breath.
I'm taking baby steps. My wife liked my outfit also. She said I have nice taste. Now that really made my day!
My son just threw water baloons at me and all his cousins and got my pants soaked! Aren't kids precious!
We had a great day!
Happy 4th of July!
Emmi
Well, i'm definately a 3 and moving towards a 4!
I regulary dress in lingerie, although i find it hard to get matching undie sets because my body's top half is so big, pantyhose, bras & camisoles, and try a little subtle makeup sometimes for my drab look as well as full makeup for en-femme.
I am moving toward dressing almost always in female clothing at home (now i'm pretty much single) and also will commence wearing womans business clothing such as pant suits to work when i get my new office job (soon i hope!).
My seperated wife is in denial based on lots of hints about cd'ing (she knew i wore hose, but for the wrong reasons), and nobody else, family or friends, knows about Christine, so i hope that when i get to my new home location (Canberra - Australia), i can open up and meet other cd'ers through organisations and the like. You never know your luck in a big city!
I have been outside dressed as female, both in daylight and in evenings, but with no makeup or wig etc. Just testing my courage and conviction about being outdoors, and haven't really been outside since (about 10 yrs).
The next year or so should see me develope more so as a CD, but will i become TG, i dont know at this point. My recent relationship breakdown has brought out the crossdresser in me more than at any time in my life.
But i do know that i will NEVER go back to stopping corssdressing for anyone again - its just to hard on the soul to keep hiding it!
Christine.
I might be a 4 if not for the fact that I have few people to trust in. Plus, living on a campus puts me in the position where being caught by anyone would mean having to face them for the whole year or more. I'm not up to that.
I think I with most of the girls. I am a 3 to 4 depanding on the day. I wear panties very often under my boy closes. I have girls jeans and shorts that I wear all the time. I would like to dress more often but my wife who knows is not very excepting. She lets me dress but is not comfortable with it. I have started to get dressed in the morning while we both are getting ready for the day but I still have not had the courage to put on a bra in frontof her, my prblem. ANyway I think the numbers for me come and go. As one post stated when we first come out to our wifes, we go hog wild tehn the numbers go up and down.
Does any one understand what things cause us CD's to have these numbers change as much as they do or is this change just me/
I would love to hear from everyone.
3 working on 4. My wife knows but doesn't want to see me or know any details. She accepts that I buy clothes and gives me time alone from time to time. I thank God for that at least. But it is not just the clothes I'm hiding from her -- I'm hiding part of me and I want that to change. I am working on showing more of the fem side of my personality to her in small ways.
Toss me into the 3.5 group. My wife is very supportive. I'm in panties 99.9% of the time, even to the doctors. And, I've gone out twice, but want more.
I'm at 3.5. Panties always, dress at home evry day to some degree, skirt, or dress. Wife knows and accepts. Have not told anyone else yet, altho I think kids have suspicions. Have gone out a few times daytime.
:Power: Beth
I have thought long and hard on this one. I will put myself at 4.5, working my way up to 5.
I'm dressed in fem clothes 90% of the time and I go out dressed androgynous on a regular basis now. My long painted nails make it impossible for me to go total drab, and I am totaly happy with that.
And the other 00.1%?? :pQuote:
Originally Posted by Teddie
Charlene,
Sounds like you had fun at the pool party your wife created a thread about. So you're definitely a "5" and you probabaly felt like a "10" walking around in the sexy one piece.
Good for you and Bunny!
Emmi
I'm a 4.....