Fragile and insecure....

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Originally Posted by deborah jane

We have both just been out around an estate

Debs

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See I Knew there were Bentleys there :) Sheila's a duchess or something isn't she?

Listen, Debs moving into a new area ain't easy and lets face it being a southerner moving into Brass Band Country ain't going to be easy whether your a CDer or not.

Just take the horns and bull it out, what doesn't kill us only makes us stronger
:)

Rach x

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Originally Posted by deborah jane

We have both just been out around an estate [with me presenting as Debs]....We walked about a quarter of a mile and during our walk saw two groups of kids, neither group took the slightest notice of us.

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Excellent news! :) YGG! I am so pleased that you were able to have the courage to face this head on and come out of it winning! :clap:

we are going out to the nearest town 9from where we are staying this weekend) this aft.fingers crossed for us ans wish her well please:):)

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Originally Posted by deborah jane

As we passed a group of young lads [Sheilas nieghbours], there were cat calls of....."Deborah, Debbie, Debs", etc.
As i looked at Sheila i knew what i thought was true....It was aimed at me, she later confirmed they probably knew about me!!

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you just have to be yourself stand strong try not to show fear as then the lads will leave you alone.

after 5 years i lost count of the cat calls. at least they call you by your name. I've been called far worse and to my face.

next time sis if they call you then go say hi do the guy thing. however you greet i don't know. just get to know them.

right now they have no understanding. case in point rent " To Wong foo "
all the best sis BTW i guess you can't hide now so be yourself :hugs:

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Originally Posted by Sheila

we are going out to the nearest town 9from where we are staying this weekend) this aft.fingers crossed for us ans wish her well please:):)

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Fingers, toes and legs are crossed for you both. And of course along with that are best wishes that all goes smoothly. Neither of you need, nor deserve, any more trouble :hugs: