You're so right, thank you both for clarifying. Sorry!Quote:
Originally Posted by Ariadne GG
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You're so right, thank you both for clarifying. Sorry!Quote:
Originally Posted by Ariadne GG
That single decision she made to accept u will go a long way in making ur life easier and worth ur while ..........congrats!
I have no idea why one person is accepting and another one isn't.
My wife is a wonderful person. She is a great mother, caring, helpful, and I am sure beyond all doubt that she is one of God's favorite people.
When she found out about my closeted secret, she decided that she wouldn't leave me, but that is the precise moment when the marriage ended. She won't discuss CDing whatsoever. Today, not only do we not have a traditional physical relationship, I am not allowed to hold her hand or give her a hug. It is very much like having a platonic roommate.
Other than the anti-CD attitude, she really is perfect.
I believe that my wife has accepted me for a couple of reasons. One, i was upfront with her at the beginning of the relationship. Two, she is pretty open - minded. Three, a degree in Psychology can't hurt, either!
I love to joke with my boyfriend about him CD too. The first skirt we bought him was a Miley Cyrus skirt (don't hate!) so we always joke around saying that we're going to "Miley Cyrus it up tonight." I'd say I am more open and turned on by it because I know it turns him on...and when he's turned on it turns me on. So, perhaps, your wife knows it is something you love and she loves you, therefore she loves it too. She may not be outwardly wild about it, but I bet deep down she loves making you feel good. Or else she wouldn't be buying you pretty panties.
I give my wife a lot of input for my female side and she enjoys it. Also I believe she also enjoys the idea that she can turn me from he to she.
I think it is some woman think it is another thing a man is trying to take from women. But I don't think they realize how much work goes into looking fem? As a man I am not trying to take anything from women if anything they should feel honored imitation being the best form of flattery!:heehee:
don't know why some wives [so] are surportive or not all I know I laid everything on the table before i propose to her and went to the marrige with open minds. been married for 30 years [tuesday] she some what surportive she buys me lingerie and other clothes but she not that surportive in like wanting to go out dressed she feel like it's a sexual thing or something. I dress in front of her, she helps me with my make-up, but it's all at home behind closed doors