Crossing dressing and dating guys?

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Originally Posted by BARBARA_MELENDEZ

I love men and can't live without them...I get weak on my knees when I see a strong masculine guy:daydreaming:

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You go, gf :) Yahoo!

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Originally Posted by Karen__Starr

I have been dating men for longer than I can remember and the same goes for woman too while in female mode and I am as naughty as they come too.

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Same here, both are fantastic. Naughty is nice, in spite of what Santa thinks!

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Originally Posted by MaryAnn40c

Yes Yes Yes ....guys are fun to be with....spending the night ...dinner....breakfast yep its all fun to be with the right man.

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Those kisses at breakfast are soooo sweet! :)

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Originally Posted by Jacqueline Vasquez

I am bisexual. I like men but prefer women. I am so lucky to have a supportive SO GG. She naired my legs. she wants to have girls nights in with me. I feel blessed! she is accepting, but when she wants her "man", then she gets her "man",. everything in moderation.

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Women usually smell better and kiss better, but I feel so good when I'm in a man's arms... all tingly and girly.

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Originally Posted by Marcie4you

I don't think about it, I do! :)

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Maybe it's the MarciGene, Marci4you :) Like Nike says, "Just do it!"

don't feel alone Kelly; not all of us are lesbians. I've had a couple of "dates" and it was great. I'm sure they would ban me from the board and burn me alive if I were to give any details. :censor:

I never have enjoyed the company of a gay men and have always preferred to be around straight females. I couldn't see myself having a relationship with a manly man but I could definitely have a good time.

While I don't find men attractive, I have definately thought about it, though tooo scared to try.:eek:

For me based on things I love for my wife to do for me I wonder if I would like a man or not. The "fantasy" of one seems okay all the way until I put a known face or person to it or think about kissing another man. I just don't think I could do that or be emotionally attracted to one like I am to my wife.

All that said, I think if I look deep inside me and be honest with all of you and myself dressed or not has little to do with whether I would like any contact or activity with a man.

I've only had one experience with one and other than the panties I was wearing neither of us were dressed. He didn't like it near as much as he thought he would and it didn't leave me in a big hurry to try again soon, at least not from the same roles.

It's all good with someone good. The someone can be in either flavor. My wifes too important to me to ever cross that line, however, but it sure does take away ones breath to think on it once in a while. The warmth of two people being intimate ... makes the world go round. Make love, not war!

When dressed as a woman, just like when I am in drab, I only want to be with a girl. So that's me - if I wasn't happily married, I'd want to be a lesbian!

i only like to be with a man when i am dressed as a woman.

Count me as another lesbian crossdresser with no interest in being with guys.

I have always been attracted to women but I have had thoughts about being treated like a woman while I was enfemme.I have seen a few while in drab mode that I would fantisize about pleasing,still scared to try though.

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Originally Posted by Jodi M

Most men are jerks.They just want to get into your panties and I don'tmean wear them! Ha! Ha! Iguess I'm a CD that just likes girls.

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How very true, but when I am feeling girly I have tought about it. Being taken out treated like a queen, and showing him just as good a time, making him feel like a king.

[SIZE="3"]Me!!! Been there...done that :^5:[/SIZE]

I am a NON crossdressing male but I am attracted to crossdressers. Crossdressers are often much more feminine in appearance and act like a lady. This is what I find is missing in many genetic girls these days.

Crossdressers would you ever let a man take you on dates, hold you, protect you and perhaps be intimate with you (cuddle, kiss or all the way)?

thanks ladies

any tips on interacting with you ladies would be appreciated too!

If he was attractive and nice, I would....

And HAVE had my hand held, been on dates and kissed.....

Join our group in Indy....http://groups.yahoo.com/group/AlternativeGurls/

It's a start...

[SIZE=4]I do it and love it. While I don't do it often, I just love the feeling of being submissive to a man when dressed.:daydreaming:[/SIZE]

[SIZE=4]Yes absolutly. Been there, done that, love it. :daydreaming:[/SIZE]

I am another crossdresser who doesn't have, or ever had, any interest in or attraction to men. I would like a role-reversal type relationship with a woman though.

I am more attracted to males when i am dressed up. I would never act up on it though because i dont want to ruin things with my fiancee.

Just to buck the trend, I am a gay man and a crossdresser so I find men attractive all the time! Though as mentioned earlier, most gay men want to be with a man so it can be quite awkward to say the least.....

The best way to meet women is to become one,and that's all I want to meet.

Hi folks:

Yup, I came out as "gay" when I was 18 years old. I've always been attracted to men, whether I am dressed or not dressed. I also enjoy cding. Go figure. A large part of my fantasizing is about being treated like a lady by a man. I see it as a fantasy because I know that I don't want to transition to being a woman. Although I'd like to be the "fem" in the relationship. So, being in a long term relationship with a man who accepts my cding is really important to me, but it's just as tough for gay cds to find that acceptance from their SOs as it is straight cds (from their wives and girlfriends). Make sense?

Maya

I know we all have things in life that we don't want to risk, but WHAT IF? What if it was totally safe?

I don't think there is anything that I WOULDN'T do with a very cute CD! :daydreaming:

I would like to propose a twist to this thread......
How many had no previous intrest in men, but had that change after starting HRT?

I have the greatest wife and I love mking love to her, the thought of kissing a man is a real turn off maybe you sould try a kiss 1st that may put you at a dead stop.

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Originally Posted by MissAmy

I coudln't date a man, not even a trans-man. I could date trans-women, but I like women in general even as a CD.

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I hope you are not saying [without meaning it?], that trans-men are different to men? We are all just as disgusting and rude as the rest.

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Right ladies [who like men of course!]…I hope you like Italian food, cause I’m taking you out! ;)

I'm not sure how this happened, but I think my mind changed a little bit on this subject.


Okay I'm pretty sure how it happened!!

Seeing monika & kaylagurl in their unbelievably beautiful pictures made my mind & hormones do a backflip twist. :daydreaming:


If I was really good friends with another CD'er who looked as beautiful as a GG and I was attracted to "her" I think I could definitely have a kiss or 4. Maybe some necking & caressing.
I think the clothes would have to stay on though.

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Originally Posted by maya1love

Hi folks:

Yup, I came out as "gay" when I was 18 years old. I've always been attracted to men, whether I am dressed or not dressed. I also enjoy cding. Go figure. A large part of my fantasizing is about being treated like a lady by a man. I see it as a fantasy because I know that I don't want to transition to being a woman. Although I'd like to be the "fem" in the relationship. So, being in a long term relationship with a man who accepts my cding is really important to me, but it's just as tough for gay cds to find that acceptance from their SOs as it is straight cds (from their wives and girlfriends). Make sense?

Maya

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Wow you are a really beautiful woman. I wish more genetic girls want to be fem but I find they just want to be controlling. I like to think of myself as the classic traditional man. Love to provide, protect and care for my woman.

I think you ladies need to realize that alot of us straight guys do have fantasies about you but we are afraid of what society thinks. Your feminine personality and dress is what turns us on the most. Makes us feel so protective of you.

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Originally Posted by monalisa

Probably more have thought about it or fantasized about it then actually have gone out with a guy. I would be tempted when dressed to see if the fantasies equal the real experience.

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I'm kind of along the same lines. I consider myself to be strickly heterosexual as a male, but when I'm dressed and in that mood I do occasionally find myself checking out some guys. I can't imagine actually going out with a guy though. It would just feel weird and is way beyond my comfort level.

Now oddly enough I might be more interested if they were a CD and we went out together.

I don't know. It's something that I may explore at some point, but I really doubt it.

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Originally Posted by monalisa

Probably more have thought about it or fantasized about it then actually have gone out with a guy. I would be tempted when dressed to see if the fantasies equal the real experience.

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I think that this probably sums up my feelings. I've had crossdressing urges for years but always considered myself completely straight with it. Recently though I find myself realising more and more that my female side has female emotional and physical needs. I would love to be treated as a lady for one night to see how it matches the fantasy but suspect that cold, hard, ugly male reality would intervene quickly and I'd realise exactly why I've always considered myself straight.

Anyway, I'm far too much of a coward when it comes to potential health risks.....

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Originally Posted by monalisa

Probably more have thought about it or fantasized about it then actually have gone out with a guy. I would be tempted when dressed to see if the fantasies equal the real experience.

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Not this crossdresser. I prefer real women for romance. I don't know about a transwoman as I've never met one in real life.

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Originally Posted by NiCo

I hope you are not saying [without meaning it?], that trans-men are different to men? We are all just as disgusting and rude as the rest.

;)

Right ladies [who like men of course!]…I hope you like Italian food, cause I’m taking you out! ;)

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This question has always fascinated me - how many MTF Crossdressers end up in relationships with FTM? It would seem like the perfect solution. I suppose the problem is that us girls are vastly more numerous.....

i have to admit that i have had a couple fantisies about this and in fact i had two different experiences. if you want to know more about them i am willing to share but you will have to PM me.

amy

so many different perspectives!

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Originally Posted by KellyWannabe

How many of us think about being with a guy while crossdressing?

I know I do! I wanna be a naughty girl! :daydreaming:

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I do date men as a sub fem and I would also like to find a dom female for some fun as well :D

Interesting, and very provocative thread.

How far [SIZE="4"]do[/SIZE] you need to go, to [SIZE="4"]be a girl[/SIZE]?

I love women too so I guess that makes me another lesbian

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Originally Posted by marlene4

Interesting, and very provocative thread.

How far [SIZE="4"]do[/SIZE] you need to go, to [SIZE="4"]be a girl[/SIZE]?

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I loved being with a man, but you don't need to be with a man to be a girl. Just ask any lesbian.

Karen

Guy? No interest what so ever! That being said...I've seen plenty on here who are quite attractive, though. I'm attracted to the "female form" in whatever it's incarnation I suppose.
If the opportunity presented itself, I'd dress with another CD, I think...

As a man, I have absolutely no interest in intimacy with other men... I'm kinda repulsed by certain aspects the male body in fact lol. But when in my femme mode, I actually find myself thinking more about having a male partner as opposed to a female one. I think I am attracted to the concept of the male/female union as a whole and could be happy as either half.

Or maybe I'm schizo...

Melanie

i wear something female everyday whether panties pantyhose or go as far as dressing completely. i will admit that when i am dressed completely female i do think of being with men and yes on a few occasions ive been on a few dates and have gone the extra mile to make myself the complete female. its something i started doing when i started dressing completely and very much enjoy the feeling and attention i get when dressed.

One of my most fond memories of doing this CDing was a 'real' date I had with a guy. Came picked me up, took me out...oh lord it felt great to be the chick and have him open doors and all that.

Alas its very rare that any guy will do that. I would guess super passable FT girls would have more luck.

Im more attracted to a feminine man then any woman. But I also like more masculine men but not too masculine.

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Originally Posted by maya1love

Hi folks:

Yup, I came out as "gay" when I was 18 years old. I've always been attracted to men, whether I am dressed or not dressed. I also enjoy cding. Go figure. A large part of my fantasizing is about being treated like a lady by a man. I see it as a fantasy because I know that I don't want to transition to being a woman. Although I'd like to be the "fem" in the relationship. So, being in a long term relationship with a man who accepts my cding is really important to me, but it's just as tough for gay cds to find that acceptance from their SOs as it is straight cds (from their wives and girlfriends). Make sense?

Maya

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I know your feeling girlfriend:hugs:

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Originally Posted by NiCo

I hope you are not saying [without meaning it?], that trans-men are different to men? We are all just as disgusting and rude as the rest.

;)

Right ladies [who like men of course!]…I hope you like Italian food, cause I’m taking you out! ;)

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Good one Nico I wouldn't mind dating a nice trans-man:hugs:

Despite crossdressing, deep down inside we are all men and I view that men shouldn't mess around with men. I don't believe in homosexuality but I do believe they should have equal rights in employment. I would never mess around with men even if I was the most beautiful crossdresser in the world, and I believe those crossdressers on Craigslist that post sex ads for men ALL GIVE US CROSSDRESSERS A BAD NAME!

I would love to date a man, or men, but so far it hasn't happened yet. But, IMHO, I think a lot of these answers are a perfect example of how sexual orientation and gender are two complete different animals.:2c:

I've been dating men regularly for the past year or so as my female self. Of course, I'm also bi and a sex fiend....so its whatevs! :battingeyelashes:


If you weren't already bisexual, then what you're feeling (for 99% of you) is a reaction caused by being in a female state of mind. The attraction is a normative effect based on knowledge your sub-conscious has collected. Its like a mental knee-jerk. For the other 1%, this unlocked previously suppressed feelings so enjoy it and be safe!

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Originally Posted by legz31

so many different perspectives!

in my case, i have a fetish of being submissive. i also feel feminine most of the time. more and more lately. so as a sub fem, i absolutely feel that i would want to submit to a man. but i have never done it, so i am not sure how i would like it. i am hoping to find out sometime, hopefully soon.

it is not so much the male gender that attracts me, but rather a male body part :o and what can be done with it as a girl:daydreaming:

but i am not attracted to men, like i am attracted to women. for instance i cant imagine being in a relationship with a man. i dont 'check men out' the way i 'check women out' etc.

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Well give it a try! I admit at a certain time in my life I would have never imagined being attracted to CDs. But as I have met some they seem to be just like normal women and sometimes even better especially if they are passable. I love to carry crossdressers with my muscular arms, have them sit on my lap and cuddle with them and shower them with kisses. Its a real turn on when a crossdressers lip stick gets all over my face. lol

Hey boys,I'm waiting for you.I want you.

I would go out for say drinks and to a nice resturant maybe a movie,

a while back I went to dinner with a guy and It was so nice to set there and eat and not worry about people looking at you, because I paid attention to him and not them.When I travel I am always dressed. I have stopped and and dinner by my self. After dinner he was diving me back to my truck and then he kiss me and I was not ready for it. It turned me off real fast. I still want to be with a guy to see if thats what I want. And I still love the real girls and would love to fine one

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Originally Posted by NiCo

I hope you are not saying [without meaning it?], that trans-men are different to men? We are all just as disgusting and rude as the rest.

;)

Right ladies [who like men of course!]…I hope you like Italian food, cause I’m taking you out! ;)

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Nah I just meant that sometimes a lot of transmen have very feminine features that can't get rid of sometimes (which is the same vice versa) since I like feminine things and people.

I never thought it would but the idea's been growing on me for the last few months; I think I could do most things short of removing underwear. I don't know how many guys would be up for that considering that a big part of my motivation would be to feel like a girl. Also I would consider taking another cder out, with me in boy mode or girl mode.