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same here. That's why I always say that I am a porn star when I dressedQuote:
Originally Posted by smileinsecret
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Originally Posted by Wen4cd
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Originally Posted by Lorileah
BEST POST EVAR!!!
I dress to relax, actually I find my libido to be more subdued when dressed.
Transvestic fetishist so I the answer is yes...:o
As a woman trapped in a mans body I identiy with and have declaired myself a lesbian. Back in the day when I dressed alone, I used to get extreemly sexualy aroused. It was so bad that I could barly even put on a pair of panties. I still get aroused sometimes but not as much as I used to. Now what I really enjoy when dressed is when the wife is in a good mood. My Relationship with my Wife is still a work in progress. It has been 4 or 5 years now and she still isn't fully accepting of my female self. But when she is accepting and gets attracted to me when I am in Girly mode...Watch Out because I am in for a treat - Drives me insane.
I definitely am turned on when I first slip on some silk panties. Theres a thrill to it :)
must be har.....uh...difficult putting on panties when you're aroused. :heehee:
**Don't answer that***
i am in the school that i don't get really sexually turned on when i dress. i get a strong fem rush as i feel the things go on and then see myself dressed so nicely. Its that fem rush that makes me feel so good and want to do it more and more. Its so hard to explain but its so nice...and would so love to share it with a gg.
If that makes any sense at all!!
It's a yeap for me, since I get turned on every time I dress. It's always been sexual for me, well, ever since I learned what sex was. Nothing better than being able to be able to please yourself, especially when no one else is around.
This thread reminds me of the scene in "Silence of the Lambs" where Ted Levine is dancing around in his altogether while posing in a mirror, and mouths the eternal sentiment of the bi-CD/TV, "I'd f**k me!"
I used to be a lot more excited by looking at myself dressed, but I still have that little male animalistic bit of my personality which causes me to look into my full length mirror and ask if I would fancy myself? Unfortunately, as I grow older the amount of makeup, accessorizing, primping, and hair/wig styling which go into the effort to get the question answered affirmatively has increased exponentially.
I am a terrible narcissist, anyways. I can get excited while posing nude as a guy and thinking how hot I could be in bed with myself if I were in TV mode. How sick is that?
For a long time I thought I was the only one who got turned on by their own photos, LOL. It's not just you.
You are very lucky to have a spouse who dresses with you. Mine won't even take a pic with me :(
Don't get aroused when I look in the mirror when I'm dressed just happier with what I see. I remember the days of waiting until I was alone in the house and going wild in a pair of tights but I just don't get that anymore. I dress to be me not to excite me
Well, sometimes it's a real kick if my mind is in that special place, and the photo is a really good one. But most of the time I don't find my photos to be something that are anything more than someone modeling women's clothing and trying to look presentable.
Long ago when all this was new to me those photos seemed to be a lot more exciting than they are now.
The mirror, if I ignore some very specific problems, lots of very specific problems, can help get me feeling pretty good sometimes. But again, I know that woman in the glass much too well. She needs to spend more time on the treadmill, get her nose worked on, shave better, and even then I know too much about her problems.
Now there are photos of other girls that I find very interesting but that is a different topic.
I know when I first started it was most definitely a turn on to be dressed. But somehow, it later became less of a turn on and more like a natural thing for me. I DO get turned on when I wear an outfit that makes me look really hot, though.
If I take a lot of time to look good, sometimes I do get turned on and I want to kiss my mirror and well you know the rest...........................:eek:
Back when I first started dressing, back when I was just a wildly hormonal teen, there was certainly a large part of it that was undeniably sexual. I just couldn't believe or fully take in all that I was able to become there in front of my mother's vanity mirror. The transformation was so complete and hit every chord of my desires. The desire to have been born a girl, the desire to be beautiful, the desire to be kissed and accepted. Poor taste I think to go further, but to say I was able to find satisfaction within it all, though the guilt afterwards weighed heavily on my young spirt.
Over the years, as many of you can undoubtedly attest, the sexual aspect of it wanes and is replaced with a simple sense of becoming complete. Why we are this way, I haven't a clue. But unlike my former child self where it was all so fraught with such anguish and shame, I now luxuriate within my femininity. And if there's a sexual aspect, it is only that the desire to be with a man become more intense.
Robyn
I just feel better.
Why wouldn't I? I'm so hot! :heehee:
In the past it was the major urge but today just reflecting on outfits and the events and memories of pictures usally relaxes me just as if I dresseed up.:)
One word: Sometimes.
ChanDelle
It depends. If I am just in a bra and panties/thong not really. If I put something sexier on then for sure.
Sarah <3
Do I get "turned on" when I see my femme self in the mirror? .... err no, not at all. I don't get turned on sexually, but sometimes if my makeup is really good and my outfit is cute, and my "hair" looks good, I think to myself, you know ... you look pretty good. In another reality I wouldn't mind a date with her. :D
Interesting reponses... I am glad I am not alone in my feelings. But finding this site has made me realize I an truely not alone.... Thanks
The first time I got all dressed up, I was definitely adoring myself in the mirror. Yeah, a little awkward for the GF when I'm checking myself out, but she's the other half of the girl-on-girl fantasy. It's all good with her these days, because it's a definite "YES" for me.
Several years ago I tried to see how I looked. It was a sexual experiment to see if I could get off by how I looked. I didn't think I'd have much luckk. Anyway, my shoulders and back were too big, my arms were too big, and I moved like a barbarian. So no, I didn't get turned on. I'm not a female. I've always felt kind of uglyish and small, but that experience taught me that I am not hopeless! If I'm not turned on by myself, that's a good sign. Since then it's something I infrequently do solely for how it feels and looks. Looking at the material enhances how it feels. Almost like I need to be recharged - so maybe how it looks matters most? I can relive myself just looking at the fabric alone all by itself.
This thread is very selfish/indulgent/narcissistic. Maybe that's why some GG's don't like CDing because their husband doesn't need them anymore to get his satisfaction? I feel guilty posting a reply. I bet people who do get turned on by it feel partly guilty?? Then again, it doesn't matter how you get off, there're a million ways to get off. People get off on everything and anything. Point is, when you CD to turn yourself on, you're telling your wife that you don't need her.
I most definitely get turned on looking at myself dressed up. I LOVE buying sexy outfits complete with lingerie and heels and seeing myself. I videotape myself, then get stills from the video for pics to keep. I absolutely love it!!!! To me, if there was no sexual turn on to accompany dressing up, there'd be no point. Just for me, at least....
Yes definitely, when I'm dressed up I love yo be effeminate in the mirror, twirl in my wedding dress, stroke myself with my satin nighties and touch myself - it feels just so natural.
I then close my eyes and imagine having such fun with another girl like me.
Not true Gemsay, my wife's libido is nowhere near as high as mine, and CDing to turn myself on goes someway to fill the void. She knows MY favourite fantasy is for us to make love with BOTH of us in sexy lingerie; but she's never going to fulfill that one while she hates anything to do with CD with a passion. In the meantime, I'd settle for lot more "straight" sex, and if she'd wear a few sexy items, it'd be a bonus. I've not stopped working on it, but it's taking a long time!Quote:
Originally Posted by gemsay32
Tony
I can get a little turned on while dressing, but then when I look at myself afterwords it's more utter happiness, especially if I'm wearing something particularly pretty.
If it's just my favorite staple, a skirt and a turtleneck sweater, then I feel rosy contentment.
[SIZE="3"]Yes and no. I am attracted to the work of art in the mirror, but, being on lithium, and 55, my libido, is almost nil. Several years ago, I always made it sexual, at the conclusion.[/SIZE]
[SIZE="3"]Gemsay, I admit to being quite narcissistic, but, i have never been married, nor had a SO. For decades i looked for one, but was always mismatched. Some of us old singles, do this partly because of being rejected, and starved for the feminine touch.[/SIZE]
If & when I dress, I'll aim for eye candy, but I couldn't even figure out if I've achieved an objective worth getting excited about.
to me, it's about doing....and liberation. I pick an outfit I like, and I go.
I'm too asthetic minded to the point that more work = better results. That being said, I feel intrinsically satisfied on a self expressive level if I've achieved my objective, and at that point it just seems like too much work to get sexually turned on .
I guess what I'm trying to say is that "I feel like a girl" when I've gone all out, and it's just a neat place to be, but my imagination is so people-oriented rather than self-oriented, that dressing up for sexual pleasure seems so meaningless and not challenging.
No, not really. It's escapism for me.
Yes. Sucks to be us. But you're beautiful. And way ahead of me. And you need to [gently] celebrate expressing yourself, even if only to yourself.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lorileah
Yes, I like to see photos and videos of me. That's why I took 'em. I think one reason it excites is because it refreshes the memory of how I felt when the pics were taken.
Watching the transformation as it happens, looking at my completed self in the mirror, hearing the click of the high heels and the swish of fillly clothes, the scent of perfume, the feel of applying lipstick...and more...are all arousing for me. And looking at images afterward as well.
it kinda varies - when young thinking about dressing would be enough to get things really going. You - dress, rise, relief, guilt trip, etc.......Nowadays, a few years later not so much. What does happen though is that when I go back to boring bloke aftr dressing my sex drive goes through the roof and my wife knows when I have been dressing as it is linked in direct proportion to "normal" sex (what ever that may be) activity.
Is this sub conscious block when dressed / denial not sure but if I go long phases without hi heels then sex drive wanes. Its almost as if male libido reacts and pushes testo higher at times!!!
I used to analyse this and the whole CD thing continually and go into black places, but now accept it and have a good time.
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I think all of us at one time get excited about seeing ourselves but as you get older you just want to dress.for me it was exciting until about 22 then it was different
i'd date me, but then i love me for my awesome personality!(hahahahaha)
Absolutely. I get turned on by looking in the mirror while I am dressed and I enjoy looking at the few photos I have of myself dressed. I do not really pass very well and I never receive feedback on any of my pictures from others. But I still love to dress for my self expression.
I love to look at pictures of myself dressed. There is definitely a sexual aspect. Sometimes I am surprised how nice I look wearing just a tee shirt over my padded push-up bra. Sometimes when I go out underdressed, I will forget I am wearing panties and a bra. It is great when I inadvertently make a particular motion and I feel my bra against my body. I absolutely love the feeling of waking up in the morning and realize I am wearing my favorite Vanity Fair panties. Right now I am wearing some brand new shimmery suntan color exercise tights. I wonder if the clerk at Penney's knew the tights were for me?
depends on my mood,the outfit and what i plan to do while dressed.
stacy-marie
wow what is better then feeling pretty
You make a good point, although I don't believe that narcissism is the correct term. It is the nature of the beast. Look at just the basic definition of autogynephelia for an explanation of what TGs are describing in this thread (and not as a motive for transition as Blanchard originally suggested). This is a concern for many GGs, especially if they want to be present in the sexual relationship. Their TG partners don't indulge in front of them, but show up in the bedroom with low libido. Lots of GGs feel they just aren't 'enough' for their partners and looking at the responses in this thread, I can see why. I'm not making any judgments, and I thank the OP for bringing it up. It is important to bring this out in the open.Quote:
Originally Posted by gemsay32
How can you tell the difference between such a M2F and someone who doesn't fully let go of his male identity, if the outward appearance is the same? But perhaps we should PM about this since it is a bit off topic.Quote:
Originally Posted by Annaliese2010
When I was younger I could get excited dressing in sexy lingerie or a nightgon but not any more. I've been CDing to long now.
My wife and daughter (25) and I spent a recient 3 day weekend in Las Vegas, It was fun stnding round in our hotel room just the 3 of us in a bra and panty. I went on this trip with all womens clothing. My wife thought everyone would be standing around laughing and pointing at me in my womens clothing but no one said a word at how I was dressed and I just minded my own business.
I used to get turned on just by getting dressed, in my younger days probably got turned on just thinking about it. Now, it rarely happens, and usually only when I haven't dressed for a long time. With only my wife at home with me, I get plenty of time to dress, and so it has become even more rare.
I plead guilty, when I first started dressing and would peek at myself in the mirror I would get arroused. But those days are past and I get no reaction anymore from just dressing.
100% !!! I over-heat when I see myself in the mirror wearing my shear tights and stilettos. Also, I find putting on red lipstick very arousing and thrilling. When I look in the mirror and see those shiny stilettos and shiny lips I feel that familiar wave of arousing heat passing through my body...
Wonder if this can be age related? It seems that when I read posts from people here who are over say 50, they are the ones who don't do the sexy thing anymore and just want to blend in. Are the majority (Docrobbysherry not included) who get turned on, younger? (That may also fit the not as interested in sex in general when you are over a certain age thing too)
I used to till I joined this site, after seeing so many gorgeous girls I feel like a dog...........lol Madilyn :daydreaming:
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early on (teens) absolutely. Heck I'd get turned on from a photoshopped photo of myself. Now, it's more a feeling of the clothes and makeup (being femme) than anything else. I still enjoy looking at myself, but more from a perspective of "How well did I do on makeup and hair, did I do good? am I passable yet? do I look sexy?"
I used to get turned on by looking at my make up in the mirror more so when i was a few years younger. now days though its more about how i feel inside.