Nope, not in a million years! :eek: My wife is cool about me dressing around the house, but the 'buck stops' at the bedroom door.
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Nope, not in a million years! :eek: My wife is cool about me dressing around the house, but the 'buck stops' at the bedroom door.
My SO loves me in silky things in bed. She has even bought me pajamas.
I go to bed every night with panties, camisole or gown but if any hanky panky is to take place they will be off at the end.
Hasn't happened yet. I do think about it.:hugs:
Angie
My wife and I have been bed enfemme several times. We have matching girdles. I enjoy this time together so much. I don't think she is turned on by it, but is making me happy, God bless her heart.
A couple times but not very often. That was an early conditional boundary. Over time each of us grew more comfortable, and the boundary was breached. But only when she was comfortable with it.
The first was after a night,at a club in femme. Things just happened, the next time we tried I was so nervous and tense. It didn't work to well.
So short version yes but, only if things are right, for her.
Yes, I always sleep in a nightie and panties, unless it's too hot, and then it's only panties, and she has absolutely no problem with it. We even have matching pink nighties.
Karen
I have slept quite a few times in nightgowns. My wife doesn't think anything of it and it usually leads to good things in the morning.
Sleeping? I thought this was about sex?
Anyway Christina goes somewhere else during sex and my wife gets all of her husband. I separate my dressing from our sex life which is fine with me and better for my wife.
Of course if I'm feeling particularly fem that day I'll then change into a nightie for the sleeping part :)
Hmmm. I would be interested in trying this at some point, but I don't know....I couldn't ever see doing that with my wife. I think that's something I'd rather do with someone I don't have to wake up with the next morning, ya know? That would be weird for me, I think...
I would like to try it, though.
That's right. I am not attracted to women so if I think if my CD husband as a woman then it doesn't work for me. But he's not a woman..he's a CDing male..and I find I'm still attracted to him. So yes, sometimes, but not all the time. My husband isn't selfish so I know he'll be my man for me when I need my man too.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jess
Oh yes, all the time! She likes it a lot! Perhaps it satisfies both our fantasies...? :o
Sully
Same for me. I really can't remember the last time Katie wasn't there in some way.Quote:
Originally Posted by Melanie R
We always make love as two women...with a little added equipment. My wife is also bi-experienced, and has said that our love making is much more satisfying than it ever was with her male ex.
Hi Marina, My girl friend said she is not a L--- which is not a problem. I am Bi an she knows about it. To get to the point yes we have made love with me dressed she realy gets hot. GO FIGURE!!!!! Who am I to complaine. JO:brolleyes: :daydreaming: :devil::eek::lol2::Playnice::fs:
josephine,
it makes some sens to me - she's not a lesbian in the sense that she's overtly seeking female intimacy, but you're the ideal substitute, providing the f/f contact without challenge to her self image.
Not fully femme but often wearing panties, bra nighties or some other female stuff. Depending on day, wife either is ok with it or enjoys it.
I had a GG friend when I lived in Fl who sometimes helped me dress before bed. Her opinion was that I was better dressed. Maybe I am.
When I first suggested that I come to bed as Anna, my wife reminded me that just because I was CD, she wasn't a lesbian and didn't want to make love to a woman. That sort of ended any chance after that.
It's a shame too, because the one time that we started fooling around with me dressed the electricity of our nylons touching was so intense. I've never felt anything remotely like that before or since.
I had almost 50 years with my lovely late wife. I was definitely her man, but was also her girl friend many times at night. I mostly wore nightgowns, or other feminine sleep apparel until the children grew older.
The "dance" steps did not always remain the same!!
being in bed enfemme as I want to be or as appropriate for sleep. In the winter it is panties and the pjs my wife bought me and in the summer it's panties only or with a slip.
sure but I quickly came to the conclusion it is all in the mind. it never "felt" any different. so it was a fun build up
I feel so naked without something silky, slinky, smoothy, agaist my skin. The only time I'm not in feminine bedroom attire is when sleeping at friends homes, or on road trips with friends.
Tanya gets more action than her male friend in our bedroom, but that an't saying much either as other have mentioned. As for the dance steps, I was never a good dancer, so I plan on letting her lead the dancing. And enjoy it from the other side and see if that helps.
I guess the wife is OK with, cause she knows for sure whats under all those cloths. And she never complains when Tanya's over for a night of fun.
Tanya
I wear a night gown almost every night and my wife is fine with it. I also wear breast forms and hip pads often. Our lovemaking is actually enhanced with the clothing.
I'm allowed to wear whatever i want to bed with my wife.. She draws the line at clothes and shoes though. It must be either a nightie, satin PJ's, lingerie or just me. I do get her to take charge of things in the bedroom too, it really spices up our sex life and marriage.
My wife and I are very often intimate when I am dressed. She loves me in sexy lingerie!
My ex sort of tolerated it once in a while (but later used it in court against me when topic of child visitation/custody etc. came up). In my opinion I think I was a better lover when wearing stockings and heels (and pulling panties aside) than I was totally naked.
Karen
Yes, I always sleep in a nightie or panties, camisole or gown, bra breast forms, with the wife
Well I tell ya, my new girl friend loves my dressing up and wants me to go out with her dressed all the time and I must say she really loves trying to turn me on in public. At clubs that is she can't keep her hands from under my skirt. So most of the time we never get to the bed, LOL.
My wife is 100% accepting. Our bedroom activities often involve both of us wearing pantyhose. It's a great feeling with our legs rubbing together, and she enjoys it too.Quote:
Originally Posted by MarinaKirax
Beyond that, she knew that I wanted to 'dance' while fully dressed, and indulged my fantasy. It's not something high on her list of favorite things to do, but she wasn't grossed out about it. We even had matching dresses :) She's content to do so again if the mood strikes, but knowing it's not among her favorite things I haven't asked her again.
It's pretty simple really. It takes courage, self acceptance, and a willingness to see the current 'her' run for hills. All you have to be willing to do is be able to tell the woman you're dating that you are a crossdresser at some point early on in your dating her.Quote:
Originally Posted by amflguy
If she doesn't accept it, and runs away, you just saved yourself a bunch of time you would have wasted developing that relationship further. If she doesn't run, then you've potentially found the right person and you go from there.
Not all woman accept crossdressing, and even among the ones that accept it not all will accept their husbands dressed en femme in bed. But, life is too short for a CDer to accept having a woman that rejects who they are. Have the courage to step forward as all of you, not just the manly-man parts of you.
I sleep every night in a chemise, babydoll, or cami/panty set.. Something along those lines.. She sleeps in a tank top.. and granny panty.. She isnt into frilly things in bed, even when doing it, she just strips is off and says lets go.. much more like a man.. we have done it with me wearing the lingerie, but she really didnt do much with the touching and caressing.. it was much more to the point.. She has never been one for romance and foreplay though... hmm... makes me wonder...
Yes, I have these fantasies about myself and my wife often. She hasn't quite accepted it, yes I have brought it up! ....Not yet. Maybe.... It is quite the usual for mtf CDers...
Yes, I am always a woman in bed!
My sweetie and I tried it several times, but the outcome was unsatisfying. Even tho my wife loves and accepts Danielle in our marriage, I think this make her uncomfortable:2c:
Yes , of course,, all the time. He wears a nightgown to bed anyway . We are both into the Hollywood glam stuff anyway .. Sometimes he pefers to take a more submissive role but it is not overly obvious.. He also knows without me telling him when it is time to be his male self every so often , so he is not selfish like that ...but I think he is beautiful either way.
Sometimes yes and sometimes no. We've also rocked the casbah with both of us dressed quite a few times. My wife's totally accepting but lets me decide if I want to dress for bed or not. Her favorite things at the moment are pantyhose and a red satin nightie she got me for Christmas. She says she loves the feel of the hose and the satin together against her body.
99% of the time I wear pantyhose, a slip, night shirt or lingerie.
It's odd how someone can think they know how they would feel about something but then find themselves completely opposite of what they thought. While we haven't ... done the dirty deed with him all dressed I have found myself appreciating certain aspects of him being dressed. Like this one time he came home from work and was walkin around with his undershirt and uniform pants on lookin for his lounge pants. I look up from my book to see hot pink with black lace peeking out from his pants and couldn't help but say that it looked hot. Do I think i could go all out with him dressed? I honestly don't know anymore but we are takin one day at a time and I'm finding myself comfortable with a lot I didn't think I would be.:cute:Quote:
Originally Posted by Jess
always ,as gina really can't remember when we made love and i didn't at least have a nitie on. she is so good to me
Ummm, the only thing that comes to mind is, . . . ewwww.
Actually, there is another thing that comes to mind. That would be why?
- My wife is my wife
My wife is a woman- I am her husband
I am not
When we are in bed, any lingerie in the whole equation is soon seen as an obstacle anyway, so why.
Puzzled.
Kathi
When we sleep my SO wants me with nothing on.....occationally She will put me in a short nighty with pantyhose, but not that often.
When we have, as u put it "marital affairs", i am 90% of the time dressed in things ranging from fem under things to full on outfits, it all depends on what She wants me wearing
silk
Nope. It's one of the places my wife draws a very definite line. She won't even kiss me when I'm enfemme, well, a kiss on the cheek, but not a full on liplock.
Hugs...Joni Mari
Whenever we're home alone, I go to bed en femme. Kind of, just panties and a nightie.
We go to hotels a lot lately. With the kids all day around the house (crazy schedules, it'salmostimpossible to find one hour without one of them in the house), it's our only chance to have some time for ourselves. I always wear female on those occasions.
Yes, my wife and I have done it in full dress and makeup. She stopped for several years but last NYE I got dressed up and we made love. It was awesome.
my ex-wife slept with me in ligerie....my former girlfriend did too.......my present partner.....no way.
Yes I had tried once with my wife on my marriage anniversery , Being totally feminine with bridle make up.,wear & slept whole night with all other natural process & enjoyed night but now I want next chanceQuote:
Originally Posted by MarinaKirax
vjaducd/kirancd
Yes it is very sexy when you both wear matching bras and garterbelts with long stockings.:love::hugs:
Lucky for everyone
Priscellia
I wear some kind of nightie every night - well except when we want to ... She cant get into that - yet. Anyway, getting ready for bed at our house is a girls routine. There we are in front of our mirrors putting on our cremes and such - both in our nighties. I love it !
I sleep en fem every night
I usually sleep with nothing on. Occasionaly when the wife and I would play around we would wear night gowns to bed. Although they didn't stay on for long.
Stephanie Michelle