When you go out do you

I am a solid 1 aspirng to be at 2 and even periodically reaching it. Rejection sucks and being read for me seems to be the starting point for that.

I'm a three......... but do care what others think, and that is why I spend the time making sure the look is right for where I'm going, dressed appropriatly for my age group..... and treat others as I would expect to be treated.

I'm a #3 and thats ok with me

For me it depends on where I am. If i'm in the car or walking to a club then I'm a 3-4. When I'm in a club enjoying my femme side then I'm a 4-5.

somewhere between 3 and 6 depending on the situation. I continue to keep exploring just the same. The more i do, the higher the comfort number.

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Originally Posted by BeckyAnderson

I have completely accepted myself for who I am and I'm proud of it. I'm not pretending to be a woman and, as a result, I never worry about being read. I'm just a guy who likes to wear woman's clothes and be as pretty as I can with what I have to work with. Hugs, Becky

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I must agree these days, I occasionally wonder what someone is thinking and then I just don't care anymore I am who I am and I am now confortable with myself so why worry, just enjoy.

For me it would be definetly a 2. I can't say I'm obsessed about being read with the exception of the possibility of being read by someone who could hurt me. On the other hand I wouldn't mind with being read by someone who would be really cool with my crossdressing.

I am a definite 4 moving to a 5. It's been so long now with so many positive experiences that I almost never think about it. That's true even when I'm paying for a purchase at the mall and the clerk is giving me the twice over....I just think... Deal With It Fella ... and I WILL BE BACK....

I agree with karen a #6

When I'm with my squeeze.....4.90, by myself.......6.


Em

4 mostly. I go out to have fun not worry :)

3-Absolutely no question that everyone will recognize the mustache + dress combination as cross-dressing. It's scary, because I'm not sure how people will react, although sales staff and restaurant staff are good-humored. Also I want to avoid people who know me in drab, although I have encountered casual acquaintances a couple of times without repercussions.

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Originally Posted by NV Susan

[SIZE="4"]For me, as I'm getting ready to go out I'm around #2...:straightface:
As I walk out the door I'm at #3...:doh:
After I'm in the car on my way to wherever I'm at #4...:o
When I get to wherever I'm going I jump to Karren's #6...:)
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This answer sums me up perfectly.
When I am actually wandering around a crowded shopping mall all the fear has gone, but I do wonder what people are thinking when they see me.

Tash :)

Im with Karen

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Originally Posted by Karren Hutton

6... Don't care but sometimes wonder what people are really thinking...

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I am at #1 for sure. I am almost panicking all the time. Sad but true.

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Originally Posted by thechic

Yep,Just dont care.

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If i looked as good as you i woulld'nt care either. Keep it up.

#3, but then it's usually NYE. Would be a #2 otherwise.

I'm with Karren. Wonder how the feeling of not being read is...

Probably a 3 depending where I am at

5.5 to a 6.........Thanks Karen !

When I dress at home and want to go out the door, #1. In fact that's want keeps me from going out the door. The couple of times I have made it out the door, or if I dressed somewhere else, #3.

Not only do I rarely think about it and care even less, I actually expect to be read. This makes life so much easier.