Wrote my wife a letter

Again, thank you for the kind words. It was all of you who helped me find the courage to tell her and if I could, I would hug you all because I could not have done this without having been a member of this forum. It's amazing to think that only a week or so ago I had pretty much accepted the fact that my marriage was over, and now it looks as though it may very well survive. Not only survive, but flourish with a truth I never thought possible. The future is still unknown, but I have a smile on my face.

I thank you all because you have helped me more than you will ever know.

I really am smiling.

I am so happy for you moongdog. Just remember to be extra sensitive to your wife's needs as the two of you work through this. It sounds like she is a caring and wonderful person, so make sure she knows you appreciate her.