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Guess I am not a woman. I don't want a big beefy hairy man. I am attracted to well groomed "professional" looking men. Sports jackets, great smiles, well dressed (even if jeans not baggy or worn). clean shaven face. I disagree that women want the macho type of man. Hardly any of my male friends would have ever been married if that were true. Women like men who are confident and fun. The package is just window dressing
That about describes mine too.Quote:
Originally Posted by laura.lapinski
Guess I am a lesbian bi-curios CD
He would be a GG. Not interested in men and don't fantasize about em either.
Hiya Sean, long time no see!Quote:
Originally Posted by seanmuscle
To your comment, I must be really weird. I wear high heels when I go out with my SO to try to be as tall as she is, to try to eliminate one of the 'readability' factors. When people on the street see two people walking together who are the same height, the one who is taller does not appear so huge. Anyway, I don't feel the least bit masculine by doing so. And why don't I feel masculine when I do this? Because I'm not a man. lol
Not the women I know. How old are you, Sean. You should get to know more modern women.Quote:
Originally Posted by seanmuscle
Your opinion is based on a sample of people who claim to be "women" on a fetish site? Let guess, you're not a researcher of any kind...Quote:
Originally Posted by LilSissyStevie
Absolutely 0 interest in men, there is nothing I find attractive about them at all. If going for a biological male, then I would need an ultra fem full time ts/tv. If feminine enough, i may be flexible on the pre vs post op. But really, I'm all for women
OK, a trans woman is a woman. Pre-op, post-op, non-op - we are women. As for surgery status - having sex with one of us is nothing like having sex with a man because - we aren't men. Yeah, porn shows a bunch of penetrative types of activity going on. In the real world, this doesn't happen for most of us. And a lot of us wouldn't want it even if we could.Quote:
Originally Posted by WhitneyCD
But hey, if the defining quality of a woman for you is her vagina, then I guess you don't have a very high opinion of women!
I actually have a real boyfriend but I've never met him in person. I met him on a chat site over 5 years ago and we have developed a very close relationship which shows no signs of waning.
If I only had a fantasy boyfriend he would be just like my guy. He is handsome, fit, athletic, sexy, intelligent, the right age, very loyal and devoted, wonderful to communicate with and most importantly absolutely adores me and makes me feel very desirable and feminine. He adds incredibly to my CDing pleasure and I'm forever grateful I found him.
I made no claim that my opinion was based on scientific research, so congratulations for defeating your own strawman. It's an odd criticism coming from someone that asserts, without any evidence or rationale, that their DNA makes them wear dresses.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jenniferathome
Sounds like a perfect boyfriend to me.Quote:
Originally Posted by laura.lapinski
amazing how many "I don't like men" people don't read well isn't it? It doesn't ask if you like men, want to sleep with men, dream about men or have in any manner before ever seen a man. It asks in a fantasy world. So here's an idea. If you you don't want a man or fantasize about a man you don't post an answer here. You are just taking up space on the thread.Quote:
Originally Posted by rah
OK, I'll give it a shot...
I found it really hard to imagine any specifics of a "fantasy" boyfriend beyond boring non-sexy things like being kind, gentle, honest, funny, etc.
But tonight I happened to listen to a CD of someone singing Andrew Lloyd Webber's "Music of the Night" and this singer was amazing... he had a deep, rich voice with amazing dynamic contrast, control and power. I was weak in the knees!
So yeah, a handsome guy with a really strong singing voice would do it for me.
Sorry Lorileah, you don't get to decide; the OP, Rah, didn't restrict comments or answers to a specific demographic.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lorileah
I'm an open advocate for our Gay/Lesbian/Bi/Trans brothers and sisters to my friends, family and workmates, but I'm straight, and can no more come up with a "fantasy boyfriend" than I can a fantasy girlfriend who'd dress me in a nappy/diaper, put me in a playpen, and feed me with a bottle... it's just not my thing.
Quite frankly threads like this are the reason that when I introduced my girlfriend to the site, I logged-in and took her to the "Loved Ones" forum first, emphasising the supportive and nurturing nature of the site.
Et tu, Jennifer? :heehee:Quote:
Originally Posted by Jenniferathome
I definitely want that in a boyfriend. I love tall guys with fabulous bodies!Quote:
Originally Posted by rah
hi girls, I was not going to post, since I only think about women ,but what to hell here it goes, my man would have to be one of them nikki Newark types,all slick and ready for action,just down and dirty sex lol hugs lynda
It isn't about my opinion of women, the question was what my fantasy boyfriend would be like. As someone not attracted to masculinity, I based my answer on the genetic composition of the person. Would I go for a porn star- absolutely. But thats all for show, so if the individual maintains the role of a man, then I have no interest. If the individual who was born a male assumes the role of a woman in a physical sense and appears to be very feminine in body and manner, then that is what I would be much more attracted to.Quote:
Originally Posted by PaulaQ
This^^^^^^EXACTLY.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jenniferathome
Joni
I guess Rah wasn't asking you, was she? Your answer really doesn't add to the conversation.Quote:
Originally Posted by Candice Mae
The OP Rah wasn't asking you, was she?Quote:
Originally Posted by Paula_Femme
There's an old adage about "If you can't say anything nice..."
I don't get all these "I'm gonna throw up" and "I'm only into GGs" comments on this. OP asked about a fantasy world, and if you can't place yourself into that setting then why bother commenting at all? The negative "Oh you're cracked in the head" style of comments don't add anything, it just tosses a wet blanket on the conversation. OP wasn't asking "you" specifically, if you can't even conceive of this or it makes you physically ill - why not just keep it to yourself?
Seriously, if you don't have any good to say, why bother commenting at all?
Now y'all done got my dander up. I really don't like negative people.
~Melissa
I would like a guy who is clean shaven, athletic, sensitive, caring and most of all honest. Who would make me feel like a woman treat me well. Be loving and sensual. And yes, I would make love to him as i have done in my mind many times before. Maybe one day I will meet him and the dream will come true, you never know.
My main problem is that I am very choosy and I wouldn't get involved in any way unless I knew he was genuine. I will get my day I feel very sure about that and 'the man' will be very happy with me as i will make him feel like he is the best.
:battingeyelashes: Lucy Lou xxx
If we are to believe the psychologists, no one is completely immune to thoughts of the same sex in some intimate way. I believe this to be true. How do you know you are turned off by something unless you have at least given it some thought in the first place? For example, I can honestly say that I don't believe I want to go to the Caribbean because I have thought about it; I've not been there though.
Having said that, I have thought about other guys but that doesn't float my boat at all so I feel comfortable in agreeing with several others. Women for me... especially the one I'm married to.
Lacy PJs
Just for clarification's sake, it would help if the responders actually understood the question:
"So in a fantasy world..."
Here are a couple of definitions to help us along:
fan·ta·sy
ˈfan(t)əsē/
noun
1.
the faculty or activity of imagining things, especially things that are impossible or improbable.
fan·ta·size
ˈfan(t)əˌsīz/
verb
indulge in daydreaming about something desired.
Rah's question was about "fantasy".
Next answer please...I'm still working on mine.
Jaye
I'm just not attracted to me on any level, not mentally, emotionally, psychologically, physically, sexually ~ sorry there's just noting that I find attractive about men?
I am attracted to femininity, women, and all that goes with that.
He would be tall, muscular, hairless, and large in every way. :daydreaming:
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Originally Posted by Katey888
Katey, exellent point! My thoughts exactly. Men, and I use that term loosely, haha just kidding, take a look at your pretty little femme selves in the mirror before judging another's "straight fantasies"
Robyn you naughty girl:oQuote:
Originally Posted by Robyn2006
I'm with Robyn but mine can have hair.
Looking like Pierce Brosnan or Tom Selleck wouldn't hurt. He'd have to love nights out at the theater and if he loved vintage cars almost as much as he loved me, that would be nice. He'd always much prefer me in skirts and dresses than slacks. I had a boyfriend for decades and he was sweet and wonderful and loved me to dress up. Unfortunately those men are far and few between. However, I still feel I was very lucky to have had him in my life.
If I were to construct a fantasy world, I wouldn't have to worry about whether I was straight or not, because I would be the cute chick/busty wench, and 100% straight. And my guy would be kinda retro, either a cowboy or a sailor. Someone who was gone for long stretches of time, but who was madly in love and faithful, so whenever he came home, we would both know how special our time together was.
I would be a barmaid/tender, serving up drinks and making everyone feel welcome, while unintentionally breaking a heart or two as I try to politely decline every pass that guys made at me, because I knew that I was spoken for.
As for looks...Broad at the shoulders, narrow at the hips. He would always lean slightly forward when he walked, as though he knew he had a destination and wasn't gonna hesitate in getting there. When he was walking away, for either the range or the sea, I could watch his confident stride and the way his shoulders rolled, and would know that on his return home, that determined walk would end at my door and nothing would be able to stop him.
Jaye
I really like guys who have beards and also if he is good at working with his hands such as working on cars and has the same interest as me as far as cars since I am a car type girl.
I find it interesting that the 'I'm so straight I have to let everyone know' types, can clearly see the title of the thread, choose to enter, read and reply and yet apparently have no interest?
It is what it is, allow people their fantasy and don't be hypocrites.
Sometimes it reminds me of the saying 'Thou doth protest too much' if you don't agree with the subject why are you getting involved?
For me, not so much fantasy as requirements. I am attracted to tall guys, taller than me. But I certainly don't want to be dominated by a Neanderthal. I like character, sense of humour and intelligent conversation. I'm attracted to personality, a guy that can't hold an engaging conversation no matter how good looking, is going to turn me off.
And loyalty, I want a long term relationship and not to be worrying if he is having fun elsewhere.
My "ideal boyfriend" would be a tall, athletic, GG with a great figure, well "built" long hair and beautiful face and a great sense of style.
So, in my fantasy world I'm a CD who's a lesbian, so I would want my "boyfriend" to be a GG, and by her description, she would probably have to be a supermodel.
When I was much younger, I occasionally fanaticized about being made love to by a strong ,gentle and sensitive man. I imagined myself as being totally submissive and following his every command. As I grew older, these fantasies became fewer in occurrence.
Here is a pic of me with mine, it's from a trip I took awhile back to Hollywood
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I've always liked older men. And by older men I mean my friend Jaime's dad has been a long time crush of mine. He's 6'4, well buit, very successful, artistic, kind, generous. I could go on. He looks a bit like Tom Selek. If anything happens to our wives I'm going for it.
As a male I'm hetro but when my CDing comes out I'm all women. To be with a man maybe over the top for me now. Fantasy and reality are two different things. But at times I do fantasies about being with another CD. Any Takers, just kidding
I've never been with a guy before but have come to realize that I fantasise about men constantly, not sure if that makes me gay but my ideal boyfriend would be older and bald with strong arms and a deep voice who spoils me and has a huge sex drive, kinda weird putting it into words as I've never realised how much o think about it before
My fantasy is to have a woman as a woman
Kirsty x
Great respect for Khora's honesty. "Just like the physical act and being CD allows me to experience the feminine role. Imagination is everything, and for most that is all it would ever be. Truth to power is saying these days. Khora gets my vote for identifying a CD motive and desire.
I met my Mr. Perfect several years ago. We had a fantastic relationship. One most could only dream of. Unfortunately, he passed away unexpectedly 6 years ago. Now days as long as they are breathing and the heart is still pounding.... even if I have installed a ventilator and defibrillator next to the bed;).
I could literally spend days in this thread. :devil:WOW! Nice you see you haven't changed one bit.Quote:
Originally Posted by seanmuscle
So tell me, how did a neanderthal like you jump from fire and the wheel to internet forum usage? :lol2:
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"Reine and Sandra you dont understand" Typical MAN thinking HE knows what a women wants better then actual women do. :lol2:
"Women want taller men?" REALLY? Thanks for the insight Captain Caveman!
Real shocker considering the average height for females is 5 foot 5 inches (164.5CM) and for men is 5 foot 10 inches (178.2 CM). Granted there are exceptions and variations, but for the most part, most men are generally taller then most women, so stating women wanting a taller man has about as much merit as saying most women are attracted to men. Again, thanks Captain Caveman!
At 5'6 I can only think of 3 not taller then me (at least by a lot) men: Napoleon = Dead, Tom Cruise = No Thanks and Al Pacino. OK I would definitely make an exception for Al, come on, who wouldn't lol.
Roughly speaking, about 85% of the adult male population (in the U.S.) is taller then me.
So of course I want a taller guy, it's hard enough finding a decent one out of the 85% I'm not going to start fishing in the shallow end. lol. About the only real question would be "how much taller" do I prefer a potential guy to be?
It would be nice if he was at least 5'10 so I would be slightly shorter or about the same height while in heels. And I say this NOT for me, but for HIM! Yes that's right, seems most guys don't like being shorter then their girlfriends.
Go Figure? Might be because being shorter is seen as being inferior and NOT an ALPHA MALE trait!!! Right Sean? Yes those pesky fragile wittle alpha male egos do bruise quite easily don't they? :lol2:
Anyways, LOL, to answer the OP, like others have said, there is no "fantasy guy" for me to wonder about.
I like guys (and girls) and about the only "fantasy" might be becoming one of those "greedy Bi chicks who want to **** every person they see" and wanting one of each. :lol2: A girl can dream, can't she? :battingeyelashes: