I guess it depends.
I like women but the other 80% of the time, I wish my guy was with me and prefer men these days
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I guess it depends.
I like women but the other 80% of the time, I wish my guy was with me and prefer men these days
I am heterosexual all the way. I have a gorgeous redheaded extra sexy wife and I simply can't keep my paws off of her! I have fantasies of being able to make love to her while I'm dressed as Scarlett and they will remain just that - fantasies - which is fine with me.
Sincerely Scarlett :2c:
I would tell people I'm bi or pansexual, but it's weird. I don't go checking out guys and I don't think certain guys are hot — I have no outward physical preferences for them — but I'm sure I could feel an emotional connection with some and that's important.
I do find myself more sexually attracted to male pieces, so to speak, and much more turned on by playing a feminine role, particularly in the bedroom, though, and sometimes it's easier to find men to satisfy that.
I seem to have evolved in my sexuality. As I have gotten older and now having come to realize that I am attracted to men, more when dressed. I do have thoughts about being with a man when not dressed, but don't think I would ever pursue that. I do like women, but now more as friends. I would love to find another CD TV or Trans girl for a relationship. It is complicated.
I am heterosexual and have no desire to be with a man. I love my wife and she is my best friend. She knows I dress, but prefers not to see it. I do wish she would accept this side of me. I have thought it would be great to know another crossdresser with whom I could go shopping or out for coffee and a meal.
First the question you pose is one about the community and there isn't a single answer that would be right for a group as varied as this one. Broad brush explanations tend to cover a lot of territory but don't explain much. Just reading the responses here illustrates how different each of our journeys has been.
For me? I have no idea, but like so many others I've had the fantasies that have never faced the possible test of reality. There have been bi-curious moments and nearly all of them have come when I was alone. Maybe some day the curiosity and the test of reality will happen at the same time and place and I'll find out, or I'll leave it as a pleasant fantasy that doesn't harm anyone or complicate my life.
I can't categorize myself. Women turn me on immensely but, I am very excited by MTF TG. When I am dressed, I wish to be submissive and wish to service men. So what does that make me?
A little over a month ago, I could have discussed the possible answers to this question. Now.....I'm 100% bisexual. I did not think so, but there I am, talking to guys at the gym and making dates. I'm not even playing. I'm learning a lot about what I like, though. I'm wildly attracted to assertive, confident, and intelligent women, and I am attracted to muscular, sweet, gentle men.
Sexual attraction is very much in the mind so when we are fem I think their has to be a mental change to attraction gender wise. I am married and my major attraction has always been to women however their have been occasions when I have been attracted to men and this has always been lead by an attraction to them as person rather than male.
But hey I know I'm crazy!
I think, like many here that making love to my wife while dressed is my #1 fantasy. It's not going to happen and I can live with that. Like many others I have had the fantasy of being with a man while dressed as a woman. That is also not going to happen, even though I have had the opportunity. It is one reserved for special moments with myself.
i think im bisexual but i like girls and other cross dressers but i dont like guy... i mean i like trans and cd´s ... i dont picture my self with a guy... i did tried once and it was ok.. but i prefer feminine partners...
Well, I cant say exactly what I am....I mean, I really, really love my wife. She is awesome woman....And, I guess differently form most of what I red, I don´t fantasy been with my wife dresses as a girl...I actually, don´t want her to be with me...In the past, I thought, I love som uch woman, than I want to be one..lololol....
When I am dressed, I don´t think about my wife, or woman, but men. I have a confused mind. I guess I separated my girl´s life form my boy´s life too much time, so now, I think differently when I am dressed...
may be I am bisexual...not sure, though.
I'm bisexual. However, I feel like labeling sexuality, much like gender identity, is slowly becoming a thing of the past. Why struggle to find one specific word that sums up who you really are? Identify yourself as "awesome". This is something I still struggle with to this day, although it's a heck of a lot easier now than it was before. When I'm Briana, my attraction to men greatly intensifies. Dating and being intimate with men as her is greatly more satisfying than anything I've done in my hetero life... which used to scare the life out of me. Now? I (mostly) embrace it. It got so ridiculous to sit here and think, "I'm supposed to be a guy who likes girls. But sometimes, I'm a guy who likes guys. Briana likes girls too, though... shouldn't she only like guys?" It's the kind of stuff that'll keep you up all night.
Whatever feels right to you is the right answer. We're all the same, yet so completely different. That's what makes us awesome.
The only thing I want to do anything with is with a woman dress like a woman. But hay that's me others need to do what they need to do. I just a old hippie lesbian.:hugs:
Angie
Always have been straight, but more & more feel bi-curious when dressed
when i dress up...i get so curious about being with a man as a woman... i think we all do..even if many say no
I just can't work up any emotional or physical interest in men, regardless of how I'm presenting. Straight as an arrow (but a little kinky).
- Diane
Yep iam bi dressed or not dressed.
Well, your post is making a very broad and incorrect assumption, confusing sexual orientation and gender identity/expression which are mutually exclusive. There can be any and all combinations but certainly NOT just one, such as crossdressers are bisexual. I certainly am not bisexual.
Another part of your post refers to"in my mind", which may or may not be what you would want to do. I know I have many fantasies, having sex with a man is not one, but I have others but that doesn't mean if I tried to actually do it that it would be enjoyable.
My initial sexual encounters were with men. I admired women but didnt feel sexualy attracted to them until my mid 20s. I began to date women as camouflage because I was in the Army and needed to convince others I was straight. It wasnt until I began dating a particular woman on a regular basis and we became intimate that i discovered i liked women as well. And no, she didnt know I was trans - she just thought i had a phobia about body hair.
Today, I am married to an amazing woman who is also bi. We met when i was en femme so she fully knew about me as our friendship developed.
I have never been attracted to men.
I can see a guy, like Robert Downey Jr., and be like, "that's a good lookin' guy."
However, I've never had any sexual attraction towards men; I've never even been curious about such.
But that's just me.
I have absolutely nothing against bi's or gays.
:)
Perhaps it is the satisfaction of "being a good actress" and playing the part well ! Do it often enough and you will begin to observe the male "weaknesses" that Women sometimes speak of when it applies to relationships. I am speaking from experience...It is fun to be an actress and also good when it's over.Quote:
Originally Posted by briana_betancourt
Being bisexual isn't a matter of clothing .. it is a matter of whether or not you are attracted to both men and women alike. I am bi, but I don't necessarily get dressed up to go play with guys.
But remember, ladies: if you are bisexual, you have just doubled your chances of a date on Saturday night!
How often does this type of thread come up? I love to read everyone's self justification of why or why not they are this or that, no wonder some CD/TV/TG/TS/etc. are so confused! As a whole, we just can't get away from labels and categorizing EVERYTHING! If you can get past the labeling, the categorizing, and the self justifying, I bet you will all have a lot more fun. I know I do!
No attraction to masculinity. Knowing what is underneath the clothing pretty much would keep me from any attraction if I were single. No fantasies of men or CDers.
I am bisexual not because I am a crossdresser. I love being with men and women and I love to dress. However when I am dressed I prefer men but I have been with women dressed but not sexually. Wow now I am confused
Back in the 50/60s I didn't understand crossdressing. As a teen I dated only girls and never had interest in guys. When I moved to a large city and became friends with someone who was gay. I came out to him about CDing, but never wanted to have sex with him. He allowed me to dress and be out as a girl. It was a lot of fun. It gave him cover to have me riding around with him or going on make believe dates. I made a good girl and played the role. We never did engage in sex.
I am definitely bi. As a man, I am attracted to both sexes. However, when dressed, my attraction to men goes through the roof, and attraction to women diminishes. My sexual encounters en femme have been strictly with men. For some reason, I am not sexually attracted to women, or even other CD's, when dressed. However, I don't worry about what to label myself. I just accept that I am who I am.
I am definitely straight. I have heard the phrase "lesbian trapped in a man's body" before, and I think it best describes me. Although I have heard from trans ladies that when they have had some time on HRT they find their sexual preferences changing.
I'm straight haven't ever been attracted to men at all, I love women!!
I have been attracted to only Women all my life, but since I have started dressing I have become curious and confused about myself. So for now I will say I am not Bisexual.
Well long story short. I've been crossdressing about all my life, Been married 3 times, I lost my last wife last Nov. All knew about my other side. Since then I've found a few other GURLS! I didn't think that I had a Bi or Gay bone in me! But I have met a very special gurl and have had relationship things that I never thought I would have. So sign me up to the BI TRIBE!! Huggs Lill
I like woman but if a guy catches my eye and shows an interest I wouldn't say no.
I am bi for sure. I cross dressed the first time when I was 14. Never thought about gay then. Now that I am old I found through a chat I discovered making love with a man was wonderful. The experience had me going back to dressing. I love it and now I can feel like a real fem again and enjoy it with a man.
No...all gg for me...cant stand males...less interaction with other guys during the day happier i am...guess i am a closeted lesbian
I have no physical/sexual attraction whatsoever to men - in fact, quite the opposite. 100% heterosexual here.
Can not make a general statement cross dressers are bi. It is an individual preference. I do not have any desire to have a sexual relation with a male. My sex Partners and fantasies are female. Although once as a teenager I had sex with another male.
I have never had sex with a man, but the mind does wonder what it would be like. Im married and very happy but my mind does wonder sometimes.:daydreaming:
While I can't speak to anyone else's feelings or experiences, I don't believe crossdressers are inherently bisexual. I think most are either gay or straight, with crossdressing being a totally separate issue. However, I do believe it can happen that crossdressing can cause one to wonder what it might be like to, for example, be with a man as a woman, even though natural attraction is to women. Gender and sexual norms are so deeply embedded and heavily reinforced throughout society that when you're seeing yourself as a woman, it's almost inevitable for the mind to at least consider the idea of carrying out the role we've been conditioned to believe normal for women, despite the fact that nothing about sexual attraction is truly uniform to any demographic. For myself, having seen myself as female from the time I understood the difference between boys and girls, and having had a SO who accepts and supports me since age 13, I never experienced that kind of wonder or curiosity myself, but I've known others who have. Some have followed through with it, and invariably they report that it was not only nothing like they'd pictured, but also that it wasn't even particularly enjoyable because once in the situation they felt detached, just going through the motions, in large part because they weren't truly interested but just acting out what they thought they should want on some level. The one exception I can recall was a friend of mine who rather than being with a man, told her wife about the idea. The wife suggested that they explore the concept but with her playing the role of the man both in mannerisms and sexually, using prostheses. They both actually found it to be quite fulfilling, as my friend was emotionally invested, and her wife got to explore and express aspects of herself that she had suppressed because they weren't "ladylike". However, after hearing how the concept had been so great for them, my wife and I tried the same and got nothing out of it, so once again each situation tends to be unique to the persons involved.
Hi Rian :hugs:, I a just a normal striate male who likes to dress feminine .>Orchid...:daydreaming:...
Hi, I'd say I'm bi curious.
I don't find men attractive but ******** and convincing crossdressers make me wonder if I could.
I’m not sure if bi sexual is how I would describe me...I don’t like men..well, masculine men. I like CD, TS and TV. I’ve never been aroused by a guy not in drag. Lol try explaining that to your wife or girlfriend while you’re all dressed up!
I guess maybe I am different to some . When dressed I am
deeply and sincerely attracted to women , and if they are also
attracted it can lead to bonding on a very deep level .
JAS
I'm bisexual. I discovered the female part of me through that, but it isn't why.
It also led me to question more about what just a PERSON is, which again, isn't why.
I was born this way. The rest is just figuring it out.
To quote Robin Williams' golf sketch "Fahk NO!"Quote:
Originally Posted by Ashleyrobyn831
Sorry, I'm not bisexual. For everyone their own, just not what I am.
Hi Lilly new member here, i saw you live in Negaunee i used to live in Skandia many years ago. I didnt go out back then but liveing in florida now and go out at least once a week.. feeling so much better about it now. And yes to the bi thing for me. When im dressed and fully fem.. its the guys for me.
Bisexuals are bisexuals..
If I *like* you like that, then I do. It has nothing to do with presentation. I like *you* and want *you*. Perhaps it is the idea of being open to possibilities? The idea that neither you nor I had a choice in what genetics we were dealt?
- MM
Kaitlyn -- I totally agree. It's really just that easy.
I would class myself as Bi, I think....
I find women visually attractive. But I like men in a sexual way..... Only when dressed..... It's kind of complicated, I guess :P