Originally Posted by
Amelie
I know that train. Took it many times from Jackson Heights to the city. I had a guy sitting across from me on that train doing something I can't write here cause it would get deleted. As long as he stayed in his seat I didn't care.
I can't tell you how many times I run or have run into these situations. It happens almost every time I go out and it's not a nice feeling. In NYC guys always come up to me with crude remarks and it doesn't matter what I am wearing. Even as a youngster guys said the same stuff to me. Bad men are bad men, it doesn't matter how one looks and dresses they are bad men.
There were times at night in NYC when I turned a corner and down the block a bit was a bunch of guys coming my way. I would turn around and walk the other way. If they yelled at me I would jump into a cab and take it for a few blocks, pay him and get out and continue walking home. There were times when I was off guard and a guy managed to follow me to my building vestibule. I wouldn't open the door with my key, I would ring my own bell knowing there would be no answer and walk away and come back later on.
You got to learn how to handle yourself in these situations. The word I use is street smarts. Sometimes it happens so much you get a "spidey" sense that it's going to happen when you see a stranger coming up to you. You can feel a bad situation before it gets to you. That's why some women cross the street when they see someone they don't trust standing up the street.
