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09-28-2006, 04:22 PM
Charleen

Yeah, I could go for that as well. No explaining to do on either side. As far as being though of as gay, who cares? The way I dress now, I'm probably thought of as an effeminite gay anyway. As Karren on the other board puts it- the best of both worlds. Love and xxxx, Lily
09-29-2006, 04:24 AM
trannie T

So who is expeced to pay? The F2M or the M2F?
09-29-2006, 06:30 AM
Kate Simmons

Paying

50/50 or "dutch treat". I've learned not to volunteer though while en femme. The guy gets insulted and insists. Love it when they are gallant like that.:love: Ericka Kay
09-29-2006, 08:49 AM
CaptLex

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tammi_52

I think it would be a blast to have a relationship with a GG CDer. No judgements, on either side. Just as a tomboy GG is sexy to me, I would hope my soft and girlie side would be the same to the other.

I don't know if you (and others here) realize that a GG in pants is not the same as an FtM. And I'm not even sure what definition of tomboy people are using. An FtM presents as male - not necessarily a girl in jeans and a baseball cap. So, if you're not attracted to a male presentation (regardless of genitals), you may not be attracted to FtMs. I hope that's not too confusing.
09-29-2006, 10:09 AM
chloe_tv1

hi

it dosenn't matter what ya wearin just as long as you love that person
09-29-2006, 01:14 PM
Kiera

I would be willing to give it a try, but I would want to know both sides of who I am dating. I also would hope to be able to share both sides of myself. This is of course assuming that f2m are like many of the m2fs and do not always wish to portray themsleves as the opposite gender. wow... the more I think about this the more confused I get.... I guess it would just have to depend on the individual and how well we get along....
kiera
09-29-2006, 01:34 PM
Abraxas

I think most of us DO want to always portray ourselves as male, at least to some extent. Because we feel that we ARE.
We may occasionally (very rarely) feel 'girly'-- in a sense that probably all guys occasionally feel a bit feminine.
But most of us here are TG, not CD, and therefore feel that we ARE male. We probably all have 2 sides, but most of the time it is only the male one that makes an appearance.

Of course, I'm just speaking for myself, and from what I've observed. Please correct me, guys, if I'm wrong!
09-29-2006, 01:47 PM
CaptLex

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Originally Posted by Abraxas

I think most of us DO want to always portray ourselves as male, at least to some extent. Because we feel that we ARE. . . . We probably all have 2 sides, but most of the time it is only the male one that makes an appearance. . . . Please correct me, guys, if I'm wrong!

Well, you got it right, as far as my situation is concerned. You said what I was trying to say (in my own roundabout way). :thumbsup:
09-29-2006, 02:32 PM
Kieron Andrew

spot on Abraxas.......
09-29-2006, 08:33 PM
JenniferMint

Quote:

Originally Posted by Abraxas

But most of us here are TG, not CD, and therefore feel that we ARE male. We probably all have 2 sides, but most of the time it is only the male one that makes an appearance.

Weird, lots of guys in the M2F CD forum identify as male but the reverse doesn't seem to be as true
09-29-2006, 08:51 PM
Charleen

For myself, I've most always identified with my femme aspect. (hate to use the word side as Lily is prevalent at all times even when I'm Charlie). I can understand where you boys are coming from, and I stand by my previous post. Love and xxxx, Lily
09-30-2006, 02:51 AM
chloe_tv1

quote

me i prefer to be known as a f when dressed than genetic m
09-30-2006, 05:32 PM
CaptLex

Quote:

Originally Posted by JenniferMint

Weird, lots of guys in the M2F CD forum identify as male but the reverse doesn't seem to be as true

Yeah, that's it in a nutshell - the real difference between that side and this side. ;)
09-30-2006, 05:50 PM
Jennifer Giovannetta

Yes I would do that. Sounds fun.
10-01-2006, 11:19 PM
cutbait

At present, I am with an mtf, and an ftm... (Yes part of the trio) I must say that aside from the whole bi thing looking at 1/3 of the deal (mine and hers) it is quite rewarding. I do agree that the 'tomboy' term does not fit the deff of the ftm... it's more of how one feels when dressed. No matter what role you’re trying to fill.

I have found my self more passable as a tomboy. (Girl in t-shirt, and jeans.) And she is just a knock out no matter what she's in.

Back to the nature of the thread, it is all that you could image. She gives me tips on makeup, and I help her with the walk. (Not so much, but that is how I tell my self that I am helping... maybe it's more me being on her arm...)
10-01-2006, 11:25 PM
cutbait

Quote:

Originally Posted by CaptLex

Yeah, that's it in a nutshell - the real difference between that side and this side. ;)

i must admit capt. this side of the house does make me use my nudle more often... that just might explane the smoke...
10-04-2006, 01:47 PM
jennie-lynn

As A MTF cd'er, I think it would be kinda cool
10-05-2006, 01:38 AM
Sweet Jane

yes, yes oh hell yes!!..damn I'd be in heaven. I'd love to have met and fallen in love with a F2M crossdresser......now it's back to reality..
10-05-2006, 04:50 AM
Kate Simmons

Could be reality

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Originally Posted by Sweet Jane

yes, yes oh hell yes!!..damn I'd be in heaven. I'd love to have met and fallen in love with a F2M crossdresser......now it's back to reality..

I feel this is totally possible and a lot of us here could fill the respective roles quite nicely. We have respect for one another. I personally, would love to try a relationship like this as it challenges all of society's "norms".:happy: Ericka
10-05-2006, 08:03 AM
sissylacypanties

Dating a Crossdresser

I think that would be fun, 'he would know who wears the panties in this house.....smiles...
10-08-2006, 06:43 AM
melissainks

This is a really interesting conversation. One post that hit me was the comment who would pay for the check at dinner? I'd guess if both were out in cd mode, the FtM would.

If I'm out as Melissa, I would be projecting a fem image and I don't know any FtM cd's but I am guessing it the same deal, they are projecting a male image.

Would I go out a Ft.If emtionally conected with the person then yes I would
10-08-2006, 07:14 AM
Kieron Andrew

Quote:

Originally Posted by melissainks

This is a really interesting conversation. One post that hit me was the comment who would pay for the check at dinner? I'd guess if both were out in cd mode, the FtM would.

If I'm out as Melissa, I would be projecting a fem image and I don't know any FtM cd's but I am guessing it the same deal, they are projecting a male image.

Would I go out a Ft.If emtionally conected with the person then yes I would

i always pay the check with my MTF girl friend
10-08-2006, 11:18 AM
Stacy GG

Quote:

Originally Posted by melissainks

This is a really interesting conversation. One post that hit me was the comment who would pay for the check at dinner? I'd guess if both were out in cd mode, the FtM would.

If I'm out as Melissa, I would be projecting a fem image and I don't know any FtM cd's but I am guessing it the same deal, they are projecting a male image.

Would I go out a Ft.If emtionally conected with the person then yes I would

definatley an intresting question, what about a GG and MTF? well, actually I always pay, so I guess I answered my own question. :heehee:
10-08-2006, 08:31 PM
JenniferMint

I'm MTF, but I pay when I go out with my boyfriend. I do make a lot more money than he does, though.

I was talking with one of my GG friends the other day. She thinks that crossdressing is weird, and she was threatening that if I'm going to dress up as a girl when visiting her, then she'll dress up as a guy.

She's very feminine though, so if she dressed up as a guy she'd just look like a cute tomboy, which I think is hot. So I said sure, you can be my "boyfriend" and I'll be your "girlfriend". She backed out. :P
10-09-2006, 11:37 PM
Jestina

I have actually gotten my girlfriend to cross dress with me.
It was a riot.
Several occasions we have gone to a hotel together as "Jesse" and "Bob"
She is very feminine and very hot so it is a stretch, but she is a GOOD actor.

I think I have a pretty unusual situation though.
I am grateful for it.

Jestina
10-10-2006, 08:51 AM
JenniferMint

Quote:

Originally Posted by Jestina

I have actually gotten my girlfriend to cross dress with me.
It was a riot.
Several occasions we have gone to a hotel together as "Jesse" and "Bob"
She is very feminine and very hot so it is a stretch, but she is a GOOD actor.

So how well does she pass as a guy? Do you have pictures? :)
10-10-2006, 08:57 AM
Kieron Andrew

Quote:

Originally Posted by JenniferMint

So how well does she pass as a guy? Do you have pictures? :)

yeah we wanna see!
10-13-2006, 08:03 PM
Chrissy31

Yes I would date a t-guy or a FtM crossdresser if they were tall enough and fairly masculine.
10-13-2006, 08:09 PM
CaptLex

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chrissy31

Yes I would date a t-guy or a FtM crossdresser if they were tall enough and fairly masculine.

How tall is tall enough, Chrissy? :battingeyelashes:
10-13-2006, 08:28 PM
Chrissy31

Quote:

Originally Posted by CaptLex

How tall is tall enough, Chrissy? :battingeyelashes:

Well taller than me would be great but as I'm 5'11 it's not very likely so I would say if they were about 5'8 or taller I'd be interested.
Don't get me wrong I'm not height-ist and I know character counts for more than looks and I wouldn't say that dating someone shorter was out of the question I'm just saying that it would be nice if they were quite tall.
10-13-2006, 08:53 PM
Wendi {LI NY}

that would be great !

yes,yes ,I think that would be so cool. i think we can relate to each other ? Wendi:love:
10-14-2006, 08:42 AM
CaptLex

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chrissy31

Well taller than me would be great but as I'm 5'11 it's not very likely so I would say if they were about 5'8 or taller I'd be interested. Don't get me wrong I'm not height-ist and I know character counts for more than looks and I wouldn't say that dating someone shorter was out of the question I'm just saying that it would be nice if they were quite tall.

I'd say you'd have a hard time finding an FtM taller than 5'11" (the tallest one I met is about 5'8"), but nothing is impossible.

I had a dream the other day that I was propositioned by an MtF, though I don't know if she was CD or TS. In my dream I told her it couldn't happen 'cause she'd probably want to make love to a woman, and that wouldn't work for me. I'll have to run that one by my therapist to see what he thinks that means. :heehee:
10-14-2006, 11:15 AM
Chrissy31

Quote:

Originally Posted by CaptLex

I'd say you'd have a hard time finding an FtM taller than 5'11" (the tallest one I met is about 5'8"), but nothing is impossible.

I had a dream the other day that I was propositioned by an MtF, though I don't know if she was CD or TS. In my dream I told her it couldn't happen 'cause she'd probably want to make love to a woman, and that wouldn't work for me. I'll have to run that one by my therapist to see what he thinks that means. :heehee:

I had presumed that the question of dating in this thread was hypothetical as everyone is individual and I personally wouldn't look for a date who fits certain criteria although there are traits in people that are more attractive for example the stereotypical attractive man is supposed to be tall, dark and handsome. As many people would agree here I don't like stereotyping and as for the subject of making love goes I think that you could fill an entire new thread on that subject. Personally in my current situation I wouldn't fancy making love with a man or woman at the moment and I suppose that just kissing and cuddling might put people off.
10-14-2006, 12:14 PM
Marlena Dahlstrom

Quote:

Originally Posted by CaptLex

I had a dream the other day that I was propositioned by an MtF, though I don't know if she was CD or TS. In my dream I told her it couldn't happen 'cause she'd probably want to make love to a woman, and that wouldn't work for me. I'll have to run that one by my therapist to see what he thinks that means. :heehee:

Or maybe she wanted to be made love to as a woman.... ;)
10-14-2006, 12:28 PM
bi_weird

Can I get a prize? I'm ftm-ish (still not sure I want that label...) and six foot even. I also have broad shoulders for a girl. I first started wearing guys clothes with the excuse that they fit better. So yes, there is at least one out there who's taller than 5'11''
10-14-2006, 12:40 PM
CaptLex

Quote:

Originally Posted by Marlena Dahlstrom

Or maybe she wanted to be made love to as a woman.... ;)

Which wouldn't work for me either (I thought about that too). I guess this means the FtM/MtF hookup wouldn't be a good idea in my case. :p

Quote:

Originally Posted by bi_weird

Can I get a prize? I'm ftm-ish (still not sure I want that label...) and six foot even. I also have broad shoulders for a girl. I first started wearing guys clothes with the excuse that they fit better. So yes, there is at least one out there who's taller than 5'11''

Yup, you sure do win the grand prize! :balloons: It's good to know there's an exception to every supposed rule. Now that I think about it, our Sparro (who's been MIA for a while) is also tall. Lucky guys!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chrissy31

Personally in my current situation I wouldn't fancy making love with a man or woman at the moment and I suppose that just kissing and cuddling might put people off.

You might be surprised, Chrissy . . . :twirl:
10-14-2006, 04:39 PM
MJ

well thats a good question yes i would
10-15-2006, 01:45 AM
Sejd

If it wasn't because I am married - and my wife would kill me, anyhow, if I was single, I would sertainly date a female anytime. I know, that makes me kind'a lesbian, so what? by the way, great question.
hugs
Sejd
10-15-2006, 02:33 AM
TransMenaceGirl

Sorry, but if I may, I'm a MtF TS, and I have several FtM TS friends, and I find them perfectly hot, except a certain one or two. But Dennis... Dennis knows it, too, that he's hot. Just too damn bad he's gay...
Not that I might stand a chance, since he was already going out with Robyn. But she didn't treat him very well, the bitxx. Didn't even know what she had - just used him and threw him away. No wonder he's gay now! Do I sound like a drama queen or what?
10-15-2006, 02:41 AM
crossing-the-rain

Hi ,I think this is an excellent idea .
Rain
10-15-2006, 03:04 AM
vlord

i wound love to find some one like that:heehee: :hugs:
10-17-2006, 02:39 PM
JenniferMint

I was surprised to find that there's actually quite a few GGs who are taller than 6':
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tallest_woman
10-17-2006, 06:02 PM
Marissa Mae

I most definately would be interested in seeing what it was like! I have to say though, I am not a full time dresser, as I am hetero and enjoy dressing for the pleasure that it brings :o

If I were to date a FtM, I guess I would want someone of the same level, ie. they like to dress but are also comfortable being female when not dressed. This makes sense, I think?

I totally think the experience would be priceless! Mutual understanding and motivation :D What could be better!? Of course I wouldn't force a relationship just because of this, him and I would need to be compatible personality wise for anything to really happen :happy:

it'd be fun to meet up with a (some) FtM and see what it was like to be around like minded individuals of the opposite "sex"!! :hugs:
10-23-2006, 12:44 AM
pyro_46151

I would love to date a ftm crossdresser i think it would be totally hot then we could have so much fun and help each other out!
10-23-2006, 04:16 AM
Poltergeist

Of course I would - actually it seems like the most natural thing for me. I'm FtM, but I'm not afraid of my feminine side, which I do have from having been raised as a girl. I don't have the natural opposite that other bio females have, so I'm not attracted to the "extreme" gender roles. I'm attracted to feminine men, and the "normal" macho guys are of course not attracted to a woman in men's clothes with a shaved head. So - a MtF CD who liked me for me would be a dream come true :happy:
10-23-2006, 05:28 AM
Kate Simmons

Dinner

Okay, so all of the above having been said, I'm open to going out to dinner with any of the dreamy guys here. Not looking for "sky rockets" or anything like that, just good friendship mostly and enjoying each other's company. Most of you know of my multi-faceted personality and my acceptance of you just being yourselves. It would be nice to go to dinner with one of you guys (who I consider REAL men BTW who are in touch with yourselves). Anyway, that's my standing invitation and I'm stickin" to it.:happy: Ericka/Rich
10-23-2006, 07:11 AM
jamesrap

dose any one no any good sites that female to male crossdressers hang out?

i'm a male to female crossdresser looking to share clothes.

Jenny
10-23-2006, 07:21 AM
Kieron Andrew

Quote:

Originally Posted by jamesrap

dose any one no any good sites that female to male crossdressers hang out?

i'm a male to female crossdresser looking to share clothes.

Jenny

:rolleyes:uhhhhh FTMs hang out here.....but i doubt you'll find anyone share clothes with
10-23-2006, 09:29 AM
CaptLex

Quote:

Originally Posted by Poltergeist

Of course I would - actually it seems like the most natural thing for me. I'm FtM, but I'm not afraid of my feminine side, which I do have from having been raised as a girl. I don't have the natural opposite that other bio females have, so I'm not attracted to the "extreme" gender roles. I'm attracted to feminine men, and the "normal" macho guys are of course not attracted to a woman in men's clothes with a shaved head. So - a MtF CD who liked me for me would be a dream come true :happy:

Hey, Poltergeist, and welcome. :welcom: I have a question for you: I know you said you're attracted to feminine men (me too, actually - though not exclusively), are you at all attracted to transmen?
10-23-2006, 09:30 AM
CaptLex

Quote:

Originally Posted by jamesrap

dose any one no any good sites that female to male crossdressers hang out? i'm a male to female crossdresser looking to share clothes.

Jenny

Jenny, it might work out better for you to share clothes with a GG than an FtM (since most of us don't wear women's clothes).

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