I'm lucky, I've got a supportive and understanding SO and we have a blast together with my CD'ing.
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I'm lucky, I've got a supportive and understanding SO and we have a blast together with my CD'ing.
[SIZE="3"]Dear Kristin
I do so hope that she comes round, it is wonderful when she understands.
gwen[/SIZE]
If I can't be myself around a partner, that person goes because they are obviously the wrong person.Quote:
Originally Posted by CarrieAnneEvers
My wife enjoys both my feminine and masculine parts of my total being and is able to see beyond what I am wearing. You can see how we handle my dressing in this You Tube segment posted today. Enjoy! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c-1c5...&feature=email.
Hugs,
Melanie
My wife as seen me many times in the past when we first got together she was open, accepting and curious about it. We went out and did things with a group but as time when by and kids came along that has changed. She now puts up with it and would prefer not to see Sallee. I respect that and don't push it.
I guess it depends on each individual and their specific relationship. I can certainly understand the gg's view
hey guys sometimes i wish i never told my SO about cd. theres times i want 2 dress up so bad but i dont. my kids r 1 reason and my non understanding wife is another.i opened up 2 her and i thought she would understand. so she pretended 2. but every time i dressed up i noticed a change in her.i wish i had a supporting wife like some of u guys.sometimes i feel so alone not having no one 2 support me. its so hard and depressing. theres times i try 2 give up cd but 2 be honest i cant. dont know what 2 do.
My wife has seen me dressed on numerous occasions. Honestly, I feel more awkward when she sees me dressed, not the other way around. :o I've never pushed it on her though, and I still make sure she has plenty of time to see in drab. We've reached a comfort level that has taken several years to attain, and seems to work well. :thumbsup: But, I do admit, my radar is always up to scan for any changes that may occur with her accaptance and emotions. :)
My wife has never seen Karyn completely dressed. We do go shopping together (in drab) and usually if we by lingerie, it matches. I do walk around the house in the evening in panties and a chemise or full slip. She does not mind. When she is ready to see Karyn, I will dress for her. But if she is never ready to see her, that's fine too.
I told my wife last year about my fem side. One of the condictions we agreed to is
1. She does not want to see me dressed
2. She does not want to see pictures of me dressed
Funny thing is, last christmas, she bought me a long Pink robe, Pink Satin PJ's and Pink fuzzy slippers and I wear these in the evening a lot and the Pink PJ's to bed. Also in the summer on weekends, I can wear lady Hanes t-shirts, lady Hanes shorts, and Green with Pink trim open toe sandels with no socks, so my polished toes are exposed. I guess if I was to put my wig and makeup on, she may have a problem. So guess as long as I still look male from head up she is OK.
oops sorry been on the red wine 2nite i mean completed look not competed look ......what am i like!!!!!!
I'm going to absent myself from this conversation because my wife of ten years has seen me dressed about a thousand times, has gone out to dinner with me, dressed, about two dozen times and even spent three hours shopping in Lane Bryant with me, dressed and trying on clothes. I know I am lucky. But it took me 40 years to find her.