For me i am definatatly a Straight Lesbian:heehee:
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For me i am definatatly a Straight Lesbian:heehee:
i used to consider myself totally straight but have recently been having somewhat of a relationship with a man while dressed and i have to admit that in girl mode i like guys. but when in guy mode its all about girls!
Straight. And only real GGs for me. No offense, but guys in frocks don't turn me on :)
I'm only attracted to genetic females (actually only one genetic female) but "straight" isn't the word I would use to describe my sexual orientation.
Always considered myself straight, but definitely a turn-on looking at pics of other tgirls. My wife once said I must be a lesbian
I can swing both ways and every way in between for the right person.
I chose bisexual but it does tend to change as I get older. In actuality I feel that I am totally heterosexual, meaning girls when I am a boy and boys when I am a girl. Being with a man when I am Dawn just seems so natural and fulfilling. Have to admit though, that after my experiences as Dawn, that I could easily be totally bisexual. Loving it.
When I'm not dressed, I am totally hetro. However, at times I feel like a lesbian traped in a male body.
Yes, I did. But there's more to this than meets the eye which is why I say its wierd.Quote:
Originally Posted by skirt_lover
If I was to go to work as I wish to then even though I would be dressed as a woman, I wouldn't (I don't think) be capable of eyeing up or thinking about the guys there. I need a greenfield site which is fine.
But then when I go as a bloke (all the time), I think of the girls as friends more than lovers and supress the urge to think they are attractive. So there is something subtle going on in my mind.
Not much help I know, but interesting - and I find it hard to put it in words.
When I look at women, I tend to admire their figure, jewelry, makeup and their clothing, always wondering how I would look in them. I agree that a minority of CD's are into straight men and I confess that I am one of them but it took quite some time of dressing in the closet, then dating just CD's and eventually it led to dating straight men. All my experiences with men have been very pleasant and enjoyable. I am also single (divorced) and wonder if that may have a lot to do with it. I haven't had sex with a woman for four years now. Good lord, now I don't know what I am.
Hugs to all, Janice
I like guys when dressed, girls when not dressed.
Does that make me bisexual?
I used to think I was bisexual with a greater leaning toward women than men possibly a 90% women to 10% men ratio. Something odd has happened though since I started my transition 4 years ago and my sexuality as I perceive it has changed totally. Right now I find myself to be more asexual than anything else. I still find people attractive, both men and women (including t-girls and t-boys) but not in a sexual way. I love nothing better than cuddling up with some beautiful woman or handsome guy but sex never really enters the equation for me. So I guess I have to vote for "none of the above....."
Ditto. And I am even more attracted to females when I am dressed - it seems to be a much "free-er" me. I loosen up a great deal more when I have that really wonderful female thing going. And in the general sense - I am more accepted by the not-so-opposite sex.Quote:
Originally Posted by Andrea M. Forbes
It needs to be said, that crossdressing is a sexual activity for me. It is foreplay. It is a nearly continuous sensual high - that doesn't happen under normal "drabbing". I would guess that's why it works so well at making me feel sexually vital.
And I only need to meet with crossdresser groups now and then to remind me that indeed "Guys in frocks don't turn me on." either, still, and never did.
Yet, in a very important way, this group seems to fill a very important need, an empty space that, left unattended, can be an unhappy part of my life.
Rickie
Sometimes when I am dressed, I do think about having a guy, but I think that has a lot to do with wanting to feel like a woman.
Wow!
Looking at the poll results at the moment is really interesting!
Close to a third bi. That tallies with the statistics I've heard for Australian men in anonymous surveys.
Very low percentage for completely gay, less than one percent! Thats less than a quarter of the figure I normally hear.
The thing I find most interesting is the t-girls etc catagories.
It seems a lot of folk are attracted to t-girls but not many exclusively. No catagory for t-boys though.
And yet, the number of t-girls only people is equal to the number of gays! A whole seperate sexuality perhaps?
While many discussions of the subject have a bunch of people rushing to state that they are straight so far we have in the poll about the same number of bisexual people as the rest of the population. There seem less gay people here than the general population but an equal number of t-girl only people.
What does that mean for the forum? Are most of the bisexual people overly quiet? Do they feel as free and able to discuss their issues as the straight people? Do they have less issues to discuss? is the forum perhaps too hetero-centric? In our concern not to all be labeled gay by societies mistaken stereotyping have we failed to be supportive enough to the third here who are bisexual and the small percentage who are gay or t-girl only?
[SIZE="3"]I am hetero but I have fantasized about Tgirls.
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Quiet Batty? Um well for my part I've just been busy. Tommorrow is a big day for me. So I've not been reading
I'm in the bisexual ballpark. I'm wondering though of those that answered strait with bi fantasies ( which seem to be a large number too) how they in fact answered the Poll. I think that knowledge could give alot of forsight into the actual numbers that the question alone didnt
The comment earlier on pansexuality hit a good spot with me too, as I'm attracted to those transitioning, females, and males. Several stages between too.
Fully straight. So saying. I hate to admit this, and I am totally confused, but there are one or two Gurls here that I am very attracted to visually. I REALLY don't like the thought of relations with a male (for me. I don't judge others), but some of you pull off the sex kitten look so well that I almost forget what's beneath the skirt. Color me crazy. :o
So did I.Quote:
I say Girls and Tgirls.
Interesting coincidence. I have a screensaver set of her pics. Dare I mention she looks great in PVC? :heehee:Quote:
Tgirl star called Areeya that I think is just beautiful.
I would suggest Bi or Bi-curious, but I won't haggle.Quote:
I dont like other guys. I think its the softness of the female body Im attracted to, and tgirls have that softness too. When it comes to Tgirls the fact that they have a penis doesnt bother me.
Is there a name for guys that like Tgirls?
Another "me too". Who I may be attracted to has nothing to do with how I am dressed. Drab or crossdressed, my sexual interests don't change.Quote:
Note in this discussion I take tgirl to mean a girl with both parts, not crossdressers. Im not attracted to other crossdressers, but chick with a penis is curiously attractive to me.
I think of guys when I am a girl and I think of guys and girls when I am a guy.:o
i think im just attracted to femininity. some tgirls are just as hot or hotter than ggs.
Was 100% hetero but after experiences first of all with fellow tgirls and then with guys when en femme, I feel I'm attracted increasingly to men and not only just when dressed.
In order of preference
1 an attractive tgirl
2 an attractive guy
3 an attractive girl
I am attracted only to women. When living everyday life I only turn my head toward women. However, when I'm in a sexual mode, I can fanticize about anything, and do. In "normal" mode I am atracted to T-Girls, and very attractive, feme CD's (passible ones). Not sure what that makes me, and not really concerned about it.
Laura
Hetro male, and lesbian when dressed. I loved the times with my wife while dressed. She isn't accepting now but maybe again in the future.
I have known from about the age of 13 or 14 that I am Bi and liked women's clothing (at then and partly now the underwear) but wouldn't accept it. I guess due to the way I was raised. It took me about 10 years to at least start to coming to grips with it either one.
Kinda hard to explain. Sometimes I'll see a man that I find attractive, maybe even let my mind wander, but I couldn't bring myself to do anything. Not because of fear or embarrassment, but rather for the fact that I love my wife exclusively. For me, any other relationship, male or female, would feel like cheating, even though she has told me numerous times that she would be ok with it. Maybe straight with Bi tendencies?
I am a happily married bisexual. If I had to identify, it would be a definite preference towards women with a sexual interest in men. I realy don't think I could ever be in a relatioship with a man. but sexually its all good
Bisexual. Only boys when dressed.
I've just realised that after straight, bi is the most popular call on this poll.
Cool, I feel like one of us.
I've written a lot of blog articles about the whole CD sexuality thing. I even know some adult webmasters who think they know what it's all about. The truth is CD's are lots of different people with lots of different taste,, uh,, so to speak!!
I'm more or less straight, but if we had a big party, I was dressed in my schoolgirl outfit, some gay guys were there, I was drunk,,, I could see something happening. I guess I'm bi-curious. Most CD's are straight, a lot are bi, very few IMO are gay.
Even the guys who like ********/ladyboys consider themselves to be straight, figure that out! :sad:
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Originally Posted by jennCD
Crossdressing is not a sexually stimulating thing for me, it is more of a release. An enjoyable activity. I don't change the way I think or act. It was a sexual turn on when I was younger, but now it is a place I can go that is all about me. A place to go where I can escape the pressures of being a father, husband, employee, coach....etc.
I am attracted to GG's and Tgirls. I'm not attracted to guys at all.
Most of the guys that I have met usally want sex and are very pushy
about it. Through dressing up, I have dicovered how sensual GG's are
and also the Tgirls that I have been with over the years and enjoy this
approach more. I can see why GG's complain about how fast men are.
They want the experience to last longer than 10 minutes. I have been
with a couple of men in my experimentation days but it never did
any thing for me. When I have been with a GG or Tgirl, I have
found it much more enjoyable.
When in guy mode i fancy women 100% my head only ever turns when an attractive girl walks by..when i'm dressed as a women i still fancy women and my head still turns to them, however, the thought of being wined/dined and ravished by a man thats been taken in by my feminine charms is one i can't deny, it would kind of validate me as a women.
I just realized when looking at the poll that if you add up all the other groups besides strait which all contain at least some bisexuality to them, that bisexuality and or gay account for 42.25% of us. That is an astounding number. And that doesnt include some presumably who have fantasies but consider themselves strait because they are married and dedicated to that person. That really is a huge percentage overall, and I think gives some insight into our psychology. It's definitely more than the societal average, so while it's not safe to say all CD's are gay or bi, it does seem to be fair to say there is a greater perpensity amoung crossdressers to be gay or bisexual than is represented in society as a whole. Not a popular opinion I'm certain, but nonetheless it's what the numbers are showing here. Astounding.
Amanda
personally, I'll do anything I can feel an attraction to, as long as they are human, living, and between 21 and 35 years old (I'm 23, so no perv here!). However, if in a relationship, it doesn't matter, because my partner, regardless of their sex, will either fulfill all my needs as I fulfill theirs, or we'll walk away friends and not look back.
butlike you said, to each their own, right?
i am totally bisexual (sexualy) wheather dressed or en-drab....and really feel i am 50/50 with the only difference being that i dont think i could ever be "married" to a man.....dont know if that really makes sence.......but it does in my own lil world
for me i find im only a complete rounded person as a tranny. in guy mode, i dont really have any interest in anybody. fortunately, im tranny on a daily basis, and then im 100% gay, and only for masculine men.
Completely and irrevocably straight.
I truly love my wife and am committed to our marriage (42 years).
Yes, crossdressing is important to me, but my wife does not share that view, so it is something that I can only do when I am lucky enough to have the opportunity.
I am Heterosexual, not gay, I can't stand to be around gross guys. I have many CD friends though, that I enjoy being around, but not for sex.
If we met one another and you told me you were straight......who cares!
If we met one another and you told me you were gay.......who cares!
If we met one another and you told me you were bi........who cares!
The only people who care are the people who feel that they have to confess their sexuality. You don't have to apologize about you hetersexuality, you don't have to apologize for your homosexuality, you don't have to apologize about your bisexuality.
Although I have thought that it was important to make a disclaimer, I have decided that it is better to not kiss and tell. My relationship with another person is our business.
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Originally Posted by Phyliss
I guess I would have to aggree with Phyllis.
Just for a fun fact, I have a whole page of crossdresser polls in my transgender blog. One of them is "What is your sexual orientation?"
I have 53 votes for straight, 39 for bisexual, 15 for not sure yet and 6 for gay. I should have also had "bi-curious", I bet that would have had a lot of votes.
Also 53% said they are married, 28% said single.
:)
No, Its never a popular observation and often shouted down.Quote:
Originally Posted by kinkedamanda
The poll numbers hold up every time there is a poll here or other sites. Even with an atempt to inflate the "strait" results by breaking up everything else into tiny catagories, the numbers never pass 60%. 60% IS most, but not in the connotation that many like to portray. A significant portion of the crossdressing community is not strait. That fact won't go away.
Put it this way. Most CD's have a hard enough time admitting they like dressing in female garb, and a lot declare "I am not gay" as their first statement when coming out... I think this suggests that a lot of CD's have a hard time admitting quite what they feel and what they really want... And I can understand that.
Still, I would say that indeed a large percentage are indeed either gay, bi, or latent homo/bi, and even more than the polls suggest.
I'm decidedly bisexual, and my wife knows that. When I'm with her, I'm very much a man, but sometimes I just need to be a complete woman, and there's only one way to get that. :o It doesn't happen often (enough), but I love it when it does.
Bev
I voted straight , In male mode I love women and in female mode I love women so I guess in female mode I would be a lesbian and that would make me bi. I really dont think it matters what other people think of your sexuality as long as you are comfortable with who YOU are. :thumbsup: Tomara cd
i consider myself bi-curious
dear Staycee,
we seem to live on the edge of such a gray area.
yes, i'm straight and i read the stats that say most of us are. however, i want very much to feel lovely, attractive, desirable. i want guys to approve of my presentation. but i don't want to kiss them or be kissed by them!
don't want to be a tease, either. its so confusing.
and,
some of you dressers are so enticingly appealing,
i do register natural male arousal.
all this on top of my core stand of wishing i'd been born female
or that i could be magically transformed at which time i'd still want to be with GGs.
no double standard intended, ever.
just attempting honest appraisal.
we stand on the edge of unknown territory.
and some of you are boldly venturing into it.
it feels like evolution,
gradual transformation,
of our species?
are we on the cutting edge without knowing it?
just a butterfly,
jessie
I'm a heterosexual who loves dressing as a woman.
100% hetero