Dates

I date my wife at least twice a week. She is all I can handle if I want to go on living. Seriously I am not into dating men. Love the ladies too much. That includes their clothes.

What Sherri said about the "Cd's are by definition" thing, as well as about dating, is right. Whether casual or a serious relationship, #1 is treat a T-girl as a lady.

From what little I know of Australia, Sydney is the place to go, I hear there's an LGBT section of town ( clubs & such ).

Havent yet...but who knows

Not really sure if I should post on here, but my experience for what it is worth.
First off, I am a TSwoman since July 2007. I dated if you can call it that another tswoman from the group I went to, having dinner every week together after the meeting (on me!).

Two months later she asked me if she could come home with me, I said ok and we have been together ever since.

I dance with men and love being held, they buy me drinks but I seldom go out alone, usually with my so or with her and my ex-gf. She doesn't mind that I do.

The men I dance with do not know I am TS, but one suspected my gg exgf was. we all had a laugh over that.

Prior to my transition I was strictly heterosexual male with a lot of feminine traits of character. I never liked men or boys and was never attracted to them.

If our relationship which is nonsexual broke up, I can see I might become bi and date men and women both, for socialization and also for sex.

I know (and this is just my circle) more TS that are lesbian among the mtf's than hetero. You like girls before, you are more likely to like girls after. The ftm's I know personally, not very many include a married couple(to a guy) and a couple that I guess you would say are male gay in their chosen gender.

My wife of 27 years is extremely jealous, but at least now she knows when I look at other women I am not lusting after them just trying to get tips and admiring their clothes and the way they handle theirselves. There were ( and still are) confusing times when I think there is something wrong with me. I am coming to terms with my feminine self. I have the best woman in the world for me. If I was your age and had been honest with myself I might have wondered too what my sexual orientation was. But I love my wife, enjoy being around others women and sisters. Shopping, out for coffee or lunch and blending in is what I want now. But I'm 49 YO and you are so young, I wish you good luck in finding yourself, it took me many years and a loving wife to find the way that is right for me, I hope you find yours, Just try to respect yourself and others, honesty I think will always pay off in the long run. Hugs, but remember a hug from me is like getting a hug from your sister or in your case a Aunt.

P.S. I did not mean to come off sounding like you had too find a woman, find out who is right for you. Good Luck!

Why is it that whenever a question like this is asked, every CD with a wife has to rush in and say that they would never cheat on thier wives, let alone date a man?

And; why is it that people are in such a hurry to answer questions that were not intended for them?

This question seems to have a specific audiance. And; I would say that unless you can contribute in a positive or constructive way, to this or any other question, then "stay the heck off the topic".

...steps off the soap box.

Ok, hun; now to answer your question. I am not a TS. I have however dated a few men and even lived with one as his "wife" for quite awhile.

Happy endings? Well most of the dates were like anyone elses dates. Some good and some bad. The long term relationship was rather pleasant till I realized that I lacked the emotional element necessary to bond romantacally with a man.

Hope this was constructive.

Love

Michelle

I have only been out with gentleman a few times on dates and they were wonderful. The men were very protective and caring and treated me as a lady at all times. I look forward to more dates with these guys and other men like them. They fill an emotional and physical need I have when dressed and madeup as Susan