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[SIZE=4]How often have you been approached by someone who was way too needy? Did you back-peddle as fast as you could to get away from them? Sometimes people tend to attempt to push themselves into relationships simply to prove that they can.[/SIZE]
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[SIZE=4]Relax, let life take its course. It may not be with a GG. It could turn out that a young puppy is your best bet. They at least appreciate all of you.[/SIZE]
I have to agree with Joni on that. Doing something positive with something you believe in gives you instant common ground. Volunteering in a time when "what's in it for me" seems to be the norm shows conviction and selflessness. If a regular commitment isn't an option, here's one thing you can do whenever the opportunity presents itself: Help someone move. I've cemented friendships that way and you'll meet new people. If it's someone you barely know, it'll count even more.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jonianne
Not standing up for yourself and lack of confidence is different than being sensitive. I wouldn't want to be with a woman I could walk all over all the time, and with a few exceptions, I don't believe most women want a guy they can walk all over.
At what point do I bring up the crossdressing? It's about misrepresenting myself as a 'normal' guy. Crossdressing is I think, a deal breaker for the very vast majority of women, as far as her mate is concerned; I don't know a single one who can even not laugh at the idea of a guy who likes to wear girl clothes. I wouldn't be able to live with someone who 'tolerated it but really hated the idea', no matter how much I want to be with someone. Sometimes, anyone.Quote:
Yes, but that's not a big problem is it? You follow up a number of the responses from genuine women, and then you raise the mention of cross-dressing, after you've grown to know them better