Crossing dressing and dating guys?

I love dateing a man when I am dressed in my Sunday go to church skirt/outfit.
Just having a man take care of me and me taking care of him is heaven.
Wearing a nice knee length skirt and seeing his reaction when he carefully puts his hand on my crossed knee while at the theather is worth it.

sexuality has nothing to do with gender.

I don't think I could ever get in the mindset to date, bed, etc. a man.

Even when I feel I'm at my peak, my most beautiful, where men would trip over their own feet to get to me -- I'd rather spend that time with a woman. Women are all I've ever found attractive.

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Originally Posted by seanmuscle

I will not apologize for saying most. It is quite evident here that many CDs have fantasies about men and/or have slept with men. Like I said because there is social stigma with being a CD there are often feelings of guilt and shame so it is a process that occurs over time as CDs become more comfortable and accepting of their feminine side. Being with a man is the one the most girly feelings a CD can experience. You can see how many CDs actually think like genetic women. They love to feel safe and protected in a strong mans arms and to be the woman making love to a man.

For all those CDs out there, stockings, heels and garter belts drive men nuts. Especially toped off with lace panties and a frilly feminine blouse.

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No need to apologize. That would imply you did something wrong, and you did not. I just disagree with your statement. :)

I definitely want to take my feminine side all the way to enjoying men!!:daydreaming:

Just the thought of being treated like a woman in every way by a good looking man = MMM!!!

In the morning while in bed. I often fantasize about being with another cross dresser, in bed.

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Originally Posted by seanmuscle

You might have feelings of jealousy and insecurity knowing your husband is attracted to masculine, strong and handsome men while en femme. That is why I would advice you to date a traditional man.

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Lol, thanks for your concern, but I was just asking the question. I'm quite happy with my CD boyfriend. :)

If she were attracted to other men or women though, whether she is in guy or femme mode, I don't think our relationship would have much future. :D

Being attracted to other men or women is probably natural, but if you're in a relationship, acting on those attractions is a no-no!

Rachael, there are different degrees of attraction, some bordering on the obsessive. I was responding to Mr. Sean Muscle's fantasies. If my SO felt that way about either other men or women, I'm afraid our relationship wouldn't have much future. Excessive fantasies about others do take energy away from current relationships.

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Originally Posted by ReineD

Rachael, there are different degrees of attraction, some bordering on the obsessive. I was responding to Mr. Sean Muscle's fantasies. If my SO felt that way about either other men or women, I'm afraid our relationship wouldn't have much future. Excessive fantasies about others do take energy away from current relationships.

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To withhold a fantasy from your S.O. is just sabotaging a relationship. I kinda wonder if with-holding fantasies from loved ones leads to the obsession that your referring to. Being by its very nature a self absorbed behavior, it lends itself to compulsion. :2c:

I agree with you, Jody. Fantasies are fun when they can be shared. If a CD wants to take on the more passive role with her GG partner, and she is willing, then I guess the sky's the limit! :)

But there's not much the GG can do if her CD partner wants a man to the point where she/he can think of little else. This would also apply if the CD partner wanted to be with another GG to the same degree. Or if anyone, in any relationship regardless of gender, wanted to be with anyone else for that matter. This would be the "moving on" point for me, both if my SO wanted someone else (and it was more than a passing fancy), or if I did.

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Originally Posted by ReineD

I agree with you, Jody. Fantasies are fun when they can be shared. If a CD wants to take on the more passive role with her GG partner, and she is willing, then I guess the sky's the limit! :)

But there's not much the GG can do if her CD partner wants a man to the point where she/he can think of little else. This would also apply if the CD partner wanted to be with another GG to the same degree. Or if anyone, in any relationship regardless of gender, wanted to be with anyone else for that matter. This would be the "moving on" point for me, both if my SO wanted someone else (and it was more than a passing fancy), or if I did.

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Sadly if the CD is not thinking of anything except being with a man while dressed, then yes, I'd say the relationship is probably coming to an end. Fantasy is fantasy until the person decides to make it a reality. I definitely understand how that prospect can cause a lot of anxiety for a S.O. and is one of the reasons I'm a strong supporter of honesty (complete honesty) in a relationship. The other advantage is just as you said, when both people know what the others fantasies are, the sky is the limit!

Even just a fleeting curiosity about the subject should probably be talked about with the persons partner in my mind. I guess what it really comes down to is communication, and honesty are the cornerstone of any successful marriage, or partnership.

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Originally Posted by ashleydaniel

Just the thought of being treated like a woman in every way by a good looking man = MMM!!!

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Right there with yah girl! :daydreaming:

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Originally Posted by joannemarie barker

You know what,I don't think I'd wanna be a girl with a girl.I like to be a man with a girl
I'd still like to be a girl with a man though..hmm does that make sense lol :)

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It makes perfect sense to me.

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Originally Posted by joanad

It makes perfect sense to me.

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Thanks Joan :)

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Originally Posted by KellyWannabe

How many of us think about being with a guy while crossdressing?

I know I do! I wanna be a naughty girl! :daydreaming:

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I've never been sexually attracted to a man, yet when I dress as a female or even dream about being dressed, I have a fantasy of being with one.

I am married and love my wife so it's not going to happen. Even if I were not married, I don't know how I would arrange it or if I would actually go through with it.

My real fantasy is exchanging bodies with my wife for a couple of weeks. Since that's impossible, my alternate fantasy is that I dress as a female and my wife dresses as a male and ....................

I've always fantasied about being treated like a lady. Having a man lust over me, holding a door, buying flowers etc. I even desire a sexual relationship, but I'm no way turned on by anything manly. Its almost like I want to fulfill the feminine roll, but nothing else. But, outside of being en femme, there is no desire. It's almost like a a switch gets turned on when I slip on a pair of heels.

I think a woman is more what I would like to date ^^, but sometimes I am not 100% sure, I only recognized s.th. a good feeling by touching by accident the skin of a good male friend. But trying to imagine s.th. with a man doesn t turn me on, but a small insecurity stays ^^

Absolutely! I frequently wonder what it would be like to go out on a date with a man and more...I just haven't explored that yet. I have been asked out for drinks by a local guy recently, but have not yet worked up the courage to say yes!

Kelly,
I have never thought about being with a guy at all however I constantly fantasize about doing sexual things with them. I have no interest in kissing or going on a date with men at all and have no idea what makes a man attractive in the least.

Does that make any sense at all?

Temptationfails, from a GGs POV having read most of this thread, it does make sense. :p

You're attracted to the idea of a man, but only because the thoughts make you feel more womanly. I'm guessing that GGs don't do that for you (since with them, you are in your guy mode). But at the same time, you are still sexually attracted to GGs and not men.

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Originally Posted by temptationfalls

Kelly,
I have never thought about being with a guy at all however I constantly fantasize about doing sexual things with them. I have no interest in kissing or going on a date with men at all and have no idea what makes a man attractive in the least.

Does that make any sense at all?

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That makes perfect sense to me. It's pretty much how I feel. Dressed as a woman, having sex with a male, but he has no face, just .......... you know what.

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Originally Posted by linda allen

That makes perfect sense to me. It's pretty much how I feel. Dressed as a woman, having sex with a male, but he has no face, just .......... you know what.

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Pretty much agree. It is the beginning stages. As you go on your journey of self discovery you will begin to want to kiss cute men with strong masculine facial features.

I am MARRIED!!But this question has crossed my mind alot.Dressed I think being treated like a women even when not dressed I really think that If I wasnt MARRIED that if the situation presented it self while I was dressed I would try something new.Just to know if that is something I would like to persue,But mind you I am MARRIED so this wont be happening any time soon