got to learn some control to hold them up inside plus Spanx are a nice addition. I'm tucked nicely inside my pantyhose with Spanx panties all day
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got to learn some control to hold them up inside plus Spanx are a nice addition. I'm tucked nicely inside my pantyhose with Spanx panties all day
I typically use my booty booster panty. It works really well for tucking.
This is probably a dumb noob question but, I have had the ole' "snip"aroo done (vasectomy) and am wonding if it is possible for the testis to get stuck up in there? I am curious to try tucking but am a bit nervous if I cant get them back out. Does anyone know if they can get stuck in there?
In my active dressing years (including a few years of full-time, or nearly so), I never attempted taping/tucking. Part of the reason was fear of damage to the ol’ walnuts, or strangulating a blood vessel. I was born with an undescended testicle, which eventually popped out on its own, but left me with a varicocele (colloquially referred to as a “bag of worms”). I never wanted to try pushing them up into the cavity because of that excess of large, tangled blood vessels on one side.
Given that I was never going to have the figure to wear a swimsuit or bikini (and I’m not a beach person anyway), my only concern was being able to wear pants or shorts and have the nether regions smooth. And given my specific circumstances, I used my own method that involves neither tucking nor taping. If you are in similar circumstances, this may work for you.
One, I am not terribly well-endowed, so there was not a lot to hide. Two, I have little to no libido, and do not get rock-hard erections (though I can be aroused to a climax), so the risk of unexpected swelling of my member was not an issue. And, third, I have always been plagued by typical male middle-aged spread (I started serious crossdressing at the age of about 35). OK, what I’m really trying to say is that I have a BELLY that has never been tamed by diet or exercise. But, ironically, it worked to my advantage anyway.
I always used a good quality panty girdle to tame the abdominal flesh. I knew I was never going to achieve anything remotely resembling an hourglass figure anyway, so my main concern was simply smoothing and evening out the belly area.
Here’s how I handled the naughty bits. In a complete reversal of the tucking/taping procedure, I would stretch everything – penis, testicles and scrotum – UP over my belly. When held in place with the girdle (and it needs to be a good quality girdle, with a strong front panel), the whole package is subsumed into the belly fat, displacing it and “disappearing” into a solid, smoothed line. This method was “good enough” to wear shorts, jeans, stirrup pants (yes, stirrup pants – it was the early 90’s, OK?) or leggings with NO bulges, bumps or ridges visible. (And, believe me, I asked the opinion of many CD friends, and they all agreed it looked perfectly natural and feminine.)
Moreover, it was comfortable, utilized no tape or glue, and was easily undone/redone for a potty break. The only potential pitfall was moisture, and as I tended to “dribble” a bit after urinating, I simply had to take my time and make sure the tap was completely dry before repositioning everything. (As women tend to take longer in the loo, and do their business in a closed stall, this delay was never seen as abnormal.)
So, to sum up....IF you are minimally endowed, IF you have some belly fat to work with, IF you can find a decent quality panty girdle, and IF your goals do not include swimsuits, thongs, etc., this MAY work for you. It provides a good, smooth line for shorts and pants, is easy and comfortable, and passes visual scrutiny. (Assuming anyone is checking you out that closely – I don’t think the average shopper or co-worker is obsessively examining your crotch, anyway....at least I HOPE not...)
May sound strange, but how would an erection complicate all this....dressing is so sexual to me at times.
Hi Felicity
These are the best instructions I have ever read on 'tuck n tape'. Great job, thank you. I only ever tape if I am wearing a very sheer dress or might have my photo taken. Most times I find I prefer to just dress carefully and as I am not hugely endowed I can usually get away without too much showing. ;)
Years ago when I did tape more often this would have been so much better info than what was around or what I experimented with!
hugs
helen xx
TUCKING FOR THE SMALLER GUY
What emerges from this thread is that one method does not suit everyone. I have tried every cache on the market and none work for me simply because you have to be better endowed than I am to fill the pouch - I don't even reach the opening. Like Helenchapel, I am small (about the length of my forefinger when at rest) and I never grow when I'm dressed. I often wear a one-piece body former and tight panties under my hose so don't need to tuck then. If I am wearing stockings and little panties then it is necessary and I do it like this:
Using scotch tape, I use two short pieces in a X to close the opening of foreskin to stop my helmet popping out (I am uncircumcised). With another two pieces I make a T with a short cross piece and a very long upright piece. I fasten the short piece around the base of the shaft with the upright running along the top of my shaft, sticky side down. I then fasten another short piece around the top of my shaft. I then bend right over and pull the long piece down between my legs and tightly up between my cheeks and up until it reaches the small of my back.
This will stay in place for ages and also allows me to o****m inside my clothes. I can also sit down and cross my legs easily - I imagine this would not be possible if I was a normal size. My parts are virtually undetectable to all but the most persistent wandering hand even in skimpy lingerie!
It took me ages to find what worked for me, and many of the explanations here didn't work at all and I found them baffling. Keep trying till you find one that suits you - it's worth it.
Hi Lucy, :) This is really very helpful and gives another option for those who want to 'tuck'. One little correction on my part if I may, I only said I was not hugely endowed because most people that wish to tuck are trying to hide an obvious bulge. I am not hung up on the whole size issue but I can't honestly say I am small.
I suppose its my fault I should have been more helpfully clear, after all what does 'not hugely endowed' mean? So I can completely understand where you are coming from. I am average according to UK stats.
I hope you don't mind my correction sweety xx
I find that tight panties are all that is required once everything is in the correct place, under armour have some great boyshorts which I think are specifically designed for this purpose...
For some reason i can not figure it out. I have gone over numerous peoples instructions and methods but just can seem to get it right. Is it all possible that i am just not able to do this?
I use hockey tape. It runs 3 inches wide and sticks really well. It doesn't affect my skin
so it works for me.
What I do is cut a piece of tape about 4 to 5 inches long. Then I cut a small diamond shape hole about 1 1/2 inces from one end. I adjust the berrys then run the tape front to back... aligning the diamond shape hole with the opening in the helmet. I pull it snug, and I'm good to go. Whe I gotta pee, I sit down and everything works as planned.
One thing that helps is rolling the scrotum skin (now empty) onto itself before the taping
I've been at this method for over two months, and although I haven't tried everyday tonight is another example of how far I usually get trying. :sad:
I'm on my third hour and I can NEVER find the cavities to push them into. I know I have the potential to put them up there because they've accidentally popped up on there own sleeping before (last occurrence was when I was 18). I've read quite literally every post, and several sites and forums. Guess I'll keep at it but 2 months of trying feels like I'm way overdue for finally succeeding. :cry:
I might be aiming for the wrong area all this time, I always only get as far as the testicles being pushed against the area behind the penis, but never actually going into any holes or just squeezing off to the remaining loose skin to the side (which has been a false alarm many a time when I've thought they've finally made the journey up there).
Any others here have a hernia repaired? Can you still tuck? Thanks, any detail would help.
Sara, i've had a hernia too, and i can tuck fine. but occasionally i find it's a little more painful than what some other girls describe. But i do know they are being truthful because when i do tuck, my left goes in fine, feels fine, etc. However my right (hernia side) i have to be a little more aggressive with it. sometimes it's perfectly fine just like the left, other time i have to try try again.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sarasometimes
I don't seem to have any natural nesting place myself. They wind up just under the skin and a couple of inches above the base of the wand. Doable, but not terribly comfy.
I've had better results going back and between with the whole package, but that requires a substantial amount of rear end padding to interrupt pressure whilst sitting. Not a prob for me, since the padding is one of the basics of my process.
YMMV, Good Luck, and Enjoy!
Not getting anywhere with this either unfortunately. Can't seem to locate any nesting places at all! Any suggestions?
Run a cold bath and sit in it for five minutes - they will find their way up naturally.
This is first time of trying. My boys pop up ok in the morning but in the evening they are a handful. Only just started doing this but its cool. Need to pra
ctice i guess
Stephie M,
I just recantly figured out this thing of hiding the "boys" in the cavity. I've seen these tucking posts before, but ther's just somthing about print medium that things often get lost on me... It was the episode of ManSwers with the sumo wrestlers thast caught my attention, and pointed my WWW reasearch in the right directions, and helped it finaly soak in ast to what these posts are talking about. I feel so dence right now :doh:
Anywho, the "boys" slip right into place quite nicely, and makes a bikini bottom look awsome! I'll likely be rock'n a 2 pc all summer...
How-some-ever THe problem comes when I try to sit down... Crunch! Furthermore, Leg crossing is out of the question. :eek:
I'm guessing I'm missing something here? I figgure that either #1, I'm just not used to it enough yet, or #2 I'm not stufffing them in far enough, or #3 one is not ment to sit with this kind of tuck. or #4 all of the above?
Given that you've only just started doing it, things are still probably a bit tight. Practice regularly and the ligaments etc will stretch and it will get more and more comfortable.Quote:
Originally Posted by 5150 Girl
I guess I'm a "lucky?" one. When not aroused, I'm tiny, and control top pantyhose do the job just fine. When I add a pair of firm control panties or a pantygirdle, it makes me really smooth and rounded. My SO says that I've got plenty when she "does her things". I think she's just being nice - and she is nice. - Linda
Same here Linda. I am tiny and I prefer it that way :)
I guess control top pantyhose work best for me.
Hi,
This sounds really good, where can I get this??Quote:
Originally Posted by Juliemckay
Thanks
tve never had a problem,as a matter of fact when i was younger i often wondered where they were at.It seemed to always happen naturally.