Why is Cd'ing = Wanting to be a Woman via Surgery

I've seen the mis-conception that all CD'ers want to be women, or at least act like a woman, right here on this board. For instance a lot of the time when somebody posts a thread about going out and interacting with the public, dressed for the first time, there is advice about needing to talk or walk in a feminine way. And while I have some aspirations to losing 50+ pounds and "passing" at least to some extent, I have no intention of going out of my way to necessarily talk/walk like a woman. Rather, I want to pass looks-wise, and then make them do a double take when they hear me talk (or sing).

So to some extent what I'm trying to say is, in summary, this very community needs to look itself in the mirror, when the question is posed as to why the mindset exists that us CD'ers must want to be, or at least behave like, women.

I'm reading SO MUCH self rightious denial here, it worries me!:sad:

"I'm straight." "I won't want to transition". Etc. Etc.

I want to ask ALL OF U THAT SAID THAT, " HOW DO U KNOW?":eek:

U start off under dressing or trying on a family member's things. U move on to putting on a few girlie things of your own in secret.
Finally, one way or another your SO finds out. U start dressing completely in private.

Then, THAT day comes! U want to go out dressed! U like it, and want to do it again and again! WHY!?

If u CAN'T understand why your SO keeps expecting the other shoe to drop, I think you're in DENIAL!:brolleyes:

But, never mind her! How do U know the day WON'T come when u want MORE? To be MORE of a woman? Or, to be with another CD, or a man? Do u think that never happens? Or, maybe u think it happens to others, but CAN'T happen to u?

U really DON'T need to explain how DIFFERENT U R to us here, or your SO. Just look inside and explain it to YOURSELF!

I think THAT'S where all this DENIAL STARTS!:doh:

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Originally Posted by Lucy_Bella

I agree you can control cding Sissy ..But you can never stop and useing yourself to me is a bad example at 70 years young still dressing no matter what the late RIP misses wishes where.. Your still dressing , why don't you stop? Back your words..Control yes ..stop no..

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Lucy,

If one of my children, or the lady I love, told me to stop dressing I would! Immediately, without question. Yes, it can be done. It just takes willpower, which I have. I dress because I feel more comfortable in feminine clothing! It fits and feels much better than most mens clothing. But as I said, if asked to stop by someone who really means something to me, I not only could but would!! Those facts are backed up by medical science!