What do U get out of underdressing, exactly?

I've read these threads for a while... and I honestly don't get "underdressing" as a concept.

Okay, I like cute panties. That's all I own any more. I don't attach any particular feelings to them; I simply hate tighty-whities and boxers; there aren't really other options. I don't think about what's under my jeans. I don't "feel feminine." It's just my underwear; it happens to come from a different source.

And I really don't get the pantyhose fetish. To me, they're a practical under layer in the winter; maintaining a comfortable temperature between about 10 and 50 degrees, working outside. I don't consider it crossdressing at all. They're horribly un-sexy, and completely inaccessible for anything related to sex. If I were to describe pantyhose in one word, it would be "functional." If I lived in a tropical clime, I wouldn't own any. (Stockings and garter belts are a different story tho... ;) )

Now then... date nights are a different matter. I try to wear nice lingerie under my dresses... all for my girlfriend's benefit, of course. ;)

Unfortunately besides a couple of hours a week to fully dress, underdressing is all i have. In the winter panties and pantyhose are part of my everyday clothing, love how i pantyhose rub against my pants, and just love knowing that i am wearing something fem.

Confidence. To know that I am at least partially dressed as myself

I've been wearing girls panties for a while now and I must say that it took me quite a while to find out which ones were more comfy and which were impractical. Prehaps the problem is that you haven't found the correct fitting for your body. I find that men's underwear to rather uncomfy because I have a small waist which causes them to ride high. So girls undies work great for me unless they have a center seam down the crotch or are not wide enough. So go find out which ones work for you. I have so many panties that I can't wear and yet love to look at and can't toss out. Ahhhh what to do with them????

Camis and panties simply feel good... I wear jeans and tops and shorts and tops as well... yet there is nothing to match the feel of camis and panties... my GG friends hate their bras... I have bras, and wear them from time to time... yet nothing matches camis and panties...

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Originally Posted by Rhonda Jean

I guess it's a way of being as feminine as I can be without anyone knowing it but me. I don't wear a bra to work very often anymore, but as far as panties go... I love that they're delicate, sometimes ornate, soft, and sexy. I love opening the drawer and seeing all these pretty, ultimately feminine things and knowing that they're mine. I like choosing them according to mood or whim. I like them because that's what girls wear. I enjoy the naughty sexiness of it all. I like knowing that I'm wearing the same underwear as any beautiful woman I see.

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I couldn't say it any better other than I just like too

Since I'm in college and can barely ever get the time to dress fully I love underdressing... I guess its the fact that I can achieve my femme feeling and still look masculine to everyone else in public... plus who the heck doesn't like wearing a cute pair of panties?! Right now I'm sitting on a train wearing boy sweatpants and shirt with a pair of purple Victorias secret hiphuggers with hearts all over... couldnt be more content!

I never under dress and my regular underwear is from conservative to skimpy male bikini briefs...on my personal experience underdressing is somehow mental torture is like being forced to hide my female identity while presenting as a male but once again only on my own personal perspective.

I guess I just love the thought of knowing my pink fem panties with pretty bows are a tenth of an inch from the girl next to me on the subway. I would love it if she only knew.

for me it is all about that little secret. You know, but no one else knows. Wearing a cute thong gives me the outlet to be dressed, without being dressed.

It's not practical for me most of the time because I go to the gym most days on the way home from work. I never did it much in the past anyway, though I have just got some rather nice knickers from M&S for that purpose. I have enjoyed the feeling of tights under my trousers rarely, but most of the time it's not really doing anything for me and I don't see the point