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I consider myself a male lesbian. I have no attraction whatsoever to other males, not only do their penises appear strange looking to me, and certainly not something I have any curiousity about, but I don't particularly care for how mine looks either. Fortunately, mine is very small...I easily have a flat front just by wearing control panties or other control garments. When I need to answer nature's call, I sit, so I don't really even see the thing then.
I think what this topic teaches us most of all is what proportion of people just read the title of a topic and nothing else. (Probably more so when it's phrased as a question) :)
To answer the original posting, I don't think topics like the one you linked serve to perpetuate the myth to any great extent. Anyone who spends any small amount of time here at all, will get a good impression of what proportion of the site are hetro/bi/homo. I think most of the general public's views are far more heavily influenced by what they see on TV and in Movies. Anyone coming here to get more information, surely would stay around long enough to pick up on the truth of things.
Having said all that, maybe there will be some people who will (as I said at the start) just read the title of the topics and then disappear to form their own opinions. :)
yes, that is a common question for the majority of society. I've never been asked that question, I'm straight. Whenever I go out en femme, like dancing clubbing...at least one guy picks on me, wants to dance or wants to pick me up. That makes me very uncormfortable and I usually treat them like any woman would do, with respect, but no thanks. I like to be around women mostly, when Cd and when I'm out as a guy.
Fair enough, Nigella.
No, I'm not gay. I'm strictly heterosexual, married 17 years.
Its clear that many of those that make up the public erroneously assume that gay and CD are related. So, in that context, it seems a reasonable question, since it reflects a mistaken belief about CDers. We shouldn't be surprised - the public is ill-informed about so many things.
There's a comedian. What was his name, oh yeah Russell Peters. He has a sketch about how people's perception was skewed by the media. Look up "arab rednecks" and you get the idea. Please don't call me to the mat on this. It's just a comedy sketch, not some rant on ethnicity or bigotry. Anyway, perhaps the public perceives us all to be homosexual because the only media attention we get is with "Donahue" and drag queens. Is it the gay communities fault? No, they do what they do and the media likes sensation. What's more sensational than a fabulous drag queen? Me? I'm not about to go running into the street in my girl clothing to knock down those misconceptions. My crossdressing, as I'm certain it is for most of us is a very private affair. I'm not about to lead a charge to change people's views. There will be no-one behind me to back me up. I know it's not the real question in the thread, but as to anyone's sexuality who cares? Being gay is so mainstream anymore we'll actually be thought of as trendy! My wife knows I'm not, (gay or trendy) and she is all that counts.
To be specific, I am bisexual and not gay. Yes, there is a difference and I think everyone here SHOULD understand that...
I consider myself heterosexual and Have never been attracted to a man yet become aroused by the sight of what I consider to be a very attractive and feminine cd'er. Does that make me gay or bisexual?