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Yes, I have one main regret in 2011. It was the least I have gone out dressed since I came out 6 years ago. I went out and socialized only 4 times as Robin; normally I am good for between 15 - 25 times a year. It was mostly because of financial reasons. My wife is slightly tolerant only, but she is that way whether I have the money or not. I gently TELL her, not ASK her when I want to go out as a Robin. She doesn't ask me about everything she wants to do either. We both pick our spots in an otherwise real good marriage. The other reason is that a very good friend of mine is well on her way to full transition including surgery. She honestly is not that excited about my Robin side anymore. We see each other as friends - me as male and her as female. I had to be flexible on this or we would not have continued our friendship.I have seen this same attitude from other transsexuals as well.
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I went out plenty this year, but my 'regret' is that I wish I had enjoyed my one day time trip to the mall enough to want to go out again during the day. As it stands, I expect I will simply make due with club time and being with my girlfriend (who I am moving in with next month and loves both her boyfriend and girlfriend!). I might be tg, but I'm also introverted enough to not really want to go out and do the mall, dinners, etc as Kaela.
Oh, and I wish I had taken the chance with her earlier than May since my last 8 months have been awesome.
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Like a lot of the comments - not going out en femme earlier. I regret being afraid of doing that as it was one of the best things I have ever done.
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My biggest regret is not having found the courage to leave my house dressed yet, maybe this year !
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I regret how my time at Divas Las Vegas worked out in 2011, it was a bit of a fizzer for a variety of reasons
Melissa
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I only regret not going out more en femme... and maybe caring a little too much about how I will be received by the public.
But I am not a regretful woman. Those are only things I am going to change for next year.
