CDs if your wife wanted you to become the girl in the relationship is it ok?

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Originally Posted by Marleena

I'll take this a fantasy type thread. Too bad it is based on old school stereotype roles as some members have mentioned. Marriages are supposed to be partnerships of equals. Subjecting young children to a CD in a mother's role may not be in their best interest either, so I have no answer to this one.

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I am onboard with this mostly. But as it has been mentioned to me, I actually noticed how this might annoy perfectly capable same sex married persons implying that marriage requires a male female combo.

But a child should be able to know precisely who was the one that did the long scream as they were being born.

Not a problem in my world as it stands. My son is cool with all of this. I think he's gotten used to his dad being non standard in so many ways.

All in all, I think I have already scored plenty of accomplishments along the way. Son never went to daycare. Wife worked for several years after son was born. My average day was with my son on lap while I chatted online when not doing something around the home. We went for lots of walks. Son made a lot of regular stops by mommy's work to say hello. Went shopping with son alot, enough that he was likely one of the more well known kids to the staff at the store (we lived across from the store for 9 years too).

All things concerned, my son has had two flavours of mom around all his life. Mom version A and mom version B. I have not worked since he was born. Dad has never been someone that was 'at work'.

Count me in! In fact, I'm pretty much the lady of the house as it is.

Heck YES, that would be OK with me! In fact, I can honestly say my wife is very much the "man" in our relationship in so many ways. Adding to the fact that I'm already a stay at home housewife who takes care of the domestic side of things, we are very much established and comfortable in our respective roles.

Being "the girl" is awesome!

To Sean's original post.....heck yeah!

It's a rather unlilkely reality , but I want to be a lesbian so bad.

Are you kidding? There are times when I am delighted to head out on the road so that I can get some peace and quiet, but my wife spends all day every day with the children. I wouldn't take that job if it doubled our income!

Since I work from home, I get to do plenty of housework and it's always felt pretty natural. My dad always helped around the house, when my mother would let him. Of course, he didn't do it dressed as I do. As for a full time switch, my wife would rather be the one to stay and keep house. She only works for the income and pretty much hates it. I think she likes me as chief furniture mover and spider killer and that's fine with me.

I have to say no to this one, first of all I make more money, second I like the type of work I do and, third I don't know if I could be a fill time girl ( its a nice idea though)

even though she does not admit it she does. i think she is a closet lesbian and she just eats it up when i cook, clean and do household chores as cassandra. i enjoy it to, although i know it is not healthy.

some of our past bedroom behavior led me to coming full circle as a TG. sad to say i cannot get her to come to terms with this and i know there will soon be a parting of the ways, simply because although i enjoy the freedom to dress whenever i want to and enjoy being her girl, she cannot be honest about it. i don't know if that make sense to anyone though.

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Originally Posted by cassandra54

even though she does not admit it she does. i think she is a closet lesbian and she just eats it up when i cook, clean and do household chores as cassandra.

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do you think it is possible that she simply appreciates someone else doing the chores and that does not make her a lesbian?

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Originally Posted by Jenniferathome

do you think it is possible that she simply appreciates someone else doing the chores and that does not make her a lesbian?

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that could be true, except that 1. I always did chores before I dressed and 2. She doesn't really like men or any physical contact. She has a problem in that area, something else I cannot get her to deal with.

It's a fantasy, but in reality I don't think it would work.

I do not think this is a question for "crossdressers." crossdressers are not women and not trying to chage roles on a permanent basis. We like to present as women occasionally. I think one would have to be far more toward transgender than CD to be interested.