In your lifetime, how much have you been judged for your crossdresssing? For transgressing the holy gender norms of western civilization? And how did it feel? Do you really need to turn around and heap it on the next available person? That's how bullying is propagated.
What we really need is to support one another. Everyone in this forum is living in the margins because we dress in a way that is outside the usual social standards . It's inexcusable to further marginalize them for not measuring up to your standard. I'm very happy that you are so meticulous in putting your presentation together. I do the same in my own way. My style means I presentably coordinate my outfits and shoes, I wax my legs, and shave my face, but does not include wig, makeup or breastforms. I'm pretty sure, based on what you wrote, that you would judge me harshly because of what I omit relative to you. And we just don't need that kind of infighting if we are to continue to gain respect in the world.