Sure I'd love to wake up as a woman. Would I like to stay that way is another question. Probably not.
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Sure I'd love to wake up as a woman. Would I like to stay that way is another question. Probably not.
Yes I would! I feel like many aspects of my life would be better if I was female, and I could be a real girlfriend to my boyfriend. To wake up as a woman without having to go through all of the surgery and steps to genetically became a woman? To look sexy in bikinis and lingerie? Yes please!
Any age prior to 55 I would have said yes without a question. Then I finally accepted who I am. Today I would still be happy to wake up as a woman. But finally I am also happy to wake up each day as me. Those dreams I had since child hood, stopped after self acceptace.
I used to answer this question with the 'as long as I could switch back and forth' type of reply.
After actually getting around to trying it out medically and socially, yes, I am happy to wake up and spend the rest of the day and night this way.
Reading thru this reminds me of the story Joe Bates Saga where an industrial accident turns 3 men into 3 women overnight. Its a very long read and extremely detailed but well worth the read.
As a grown up, everytime I imagined being an actual woman I figured I'd be a heterosexual one and that meant having sex with men and putting up with their jokes, and the fantasy quickly vanished with a 'pop' sound. As for having this fantasy as a teen, it mostly meant having breasts and looking hot, but at that time I didn't really forecast the implications of looking hot as a girl.
A lot of women wake up as a woman, but sadly in cultures and societies which either repress or disrespect women. So I have to answer: it depends.
I really enjoy having the Best of Both Worlds,
I guess for myself it is trying to live a double life. I love being a male but I do enjoy having those dress like a princess days and fem moment. I enjoy both aspects.
I would love to have more feminine shape and boobs, but full woman is a no. I enjoy intimacy with my wife so not having that part of me is a deal breaker.
Time is the key isn't it? Maybe forty or fifty years ago, yes I would have loved that. Waking up as a female. But time marches on and now I am pretty happy. I get to dress quite a bit in retirement. My wife has a really active social life. She knows about my dressing and has so for some thirty years. She is pretty cool with it. My wife and I are about to be grandparents for the first time. We are so happy! We painted the new nursery yesterday. Can't wait for our new grandchild to be born. I spent the morning refinishing my daughter's old toy box to fit with the new nursery. I can't complain. I wouldn't trade my position now for any other.
I would be fine if I were born a girl. However, I would not what to just wake up a woman. It would disrupt my whole life. It always sounds good but seldom meets our expectations.
Sara
Would my wife change, too? Not sure were our positions(?) reversed either of us would have picked the other LOL.
I've been dreaming about it since I'm a teenager! So my answer is yes....keeping my little extra!
As some have stated if I can snap my fingers and change back and forth I most definitely would.
Yes Please!
Yes, as I think my personality would suit being female. As this is a fantasy I'd also like to be a good looking woman and that everyone else would think I had always been a woman, so that life could go on as normal.
To wake up as a woman? In a desired curvy female body? Yes, I would accept this as a gift, a delayed gratification for a mistake made when I was procreated. It has became clear to me after decades that I do crossdress because my female mind needs that. It is not an addiction but a natural need. There are lot of another needs, desires, fantasies to live as women do. I don't know if I am entitled to call myself a woman but my feminized mind does.
Oh my! Yes I would love that. I truly believe I?m stuck in this body and I need to be set free. I also have the woman feelings and desires.
Thanks to Misty's suggestion I read the Joe Bates Saga, quite interesting! Long and drawn out, but a lot of good stuff in there.
Another story I thought about from this thread was Jack Chalker's Four Lords of the Diamond series, for sci-fi and fantasy fans out there. Each book is a different world, on one of them people swap bodies with whoever is sleeping near them each night. One day you're you, the next you're in your wife's body and she's in yours. I guess that would make everyone a CD?
Yes yes yes
I am not sure if I would like that. Because women with a very feminine shape gets a lot of attention. I think if they dress down, not to highlight it, less attention is attracted.
Can any guy here imagine what it would be like if it happens to them?
I guess I see too many video's.
Natalie; exactly. I got the tiniest insight into that the first time a random person saw me (partially) en femme. I felt completely objectified in a very, very negative way (not that there's a positive way to be objectified). I'm not sure I would want that all the time every time I go out. Many years ago, I started dating a very nice young lady. We hit it off very well, really clicked. She wore baggy clothes all the time, nothing form fitting, nothing overtly feminine. I was in total shock the first time I saw her without her clothes on. She had an incredible figure, just awe inspiring. She told me about her fashion choices... she wore the baggy clothes because she was sick of the negative attention her body drew. My wife too has sometimes said being a woman is a pain because of the negative, objectifying attention her figure draws.
So yeah, it would be awesome to wake up a woman some day, but there are significant negatives to such a dream too.
No, I would not want to be a GG in today's world. Women are treated horribly. Far easier for me to just pretend I am one.