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My wife has told me to get dress in something nice before. She doesn't help with makeup, but I hardly wear anything other than lipstick. As for the part about excitment, we have in the past been intimate while I was dressed. The problem with that was that she almost burst my "girls".
Dana, It sounds like you are very lucky in deed, My GLady lets me dress, and buys me things,but really is not turned on by it, and could live without me doing it.
My wife is not supporting at all. I have to stay in thw closet. She knows I dress, but will not want to know about it.
My wife has never ask me to dress, but has "NO" problem with it...she'll ask what I'm waerning though...she also will tell me HONESTLY how I look...we bought her and her mini skirts and after we were both in them deceided that they were much to short for us:heehee:
She has spent hous helping me with the finer points of dressing, make up, walk and now working on the voice...
Turn on...welllll...I honestly don't know...I will say this though, if I was a woman, or transitioned I would perfer another woman:happy: , some how knowing how men are or can be:straightface: < excuse me guys >, I have nothing for them...BUT...
I'd love to experience a lesbian session with my wife:rolleyes: ...but only HER...never know if it happened might open an all new realm of our "love/lust" life:o
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You are one lucky girl, that is all I have to say.Quote:
Originally Posted by Dana Carlton
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Melissa
My SO allows me to dress any time I want. All day every day for several If I want. She says I seem more relaxed and open when I'm Sandy. So I'd say that she approves. She has helped with my wigs before and told me that she'd like to do my makeup sometime. And I'd say she is supportive, she helps me buy clothes. Sexual turn on... No, nada, never. She is in love with Sam, Sandy is just a friend I guess.
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As this is all new to me, discovered this desire about a year and half ago, I've hardly adjusted and my wife is further from that than I. Initially I'll admit I overwhelmed her with it all, not seeing the difficulties she was really having. As for now, yes, obviously she knows....turned on, oh god no, and has never asked me to do this for her. Right now we've agreed that I will just keep it out of sight until she is ready. I'm ok with that, at least she is trying...and we've recently had her 11 yr old son move in with us so is more necessary that it stay behind closed doors than ever. I'm sure she will come around if that is possible for her. She is trying very hard has done her research and is an active member of this forum. Time will tell. For now I've gone into hiding so to speak but if that is what will help her to deal with that other woman in my life, and to understand that it isnt a competition, then I will gladly remain under the radar until she can safely handle otherwise.
gary
I have always dressed around my wife, even when we first met. Does it turn her on? I don't know, but I do know I do! :thumbsup:
Haven't mentioned this before, but I was in prison for over 18 years (high profile theft). While there an old girlfriend started coming up to see me and we hit it off again. She came up to see me every week for seven years. We got married and I've been out for 2 1/2 years and we're doing great.
I said all of that to say this. I've always been very much in the closet. Played the roll of the tough guy in there. However, every week we'd sit, hold hands, drink the crappiest cappuccino you could ever imagine, and talk. Eventually my crossdressing fantasies came to the table and, to my surprise, she was very much okay with it. Didn't mind at all and found it exciting.
She bought me a peach colored satiny nightie and actually dressed me in it the night I came home. As intensely erotic as it gets.
Even though she doesn't request that I dress, she doesn't mind it and sometimes is quite turned on by it.
(For what it's worth, I traded in my lock picks for a lunch box.)
I would love for my wife to help dress me. I just do not see it happening anytime soon. She just wishes it would go away. She jokes with me about it sometimes, and maybe that is a start. I can alway dream!
I told my wife 4 days after we got married.I had seen a psychologist before we got married and he told me its best to tell my wife so I told her but after (I was chicken,ok?) she was very upset and got over it quickly but ahoved it away and we've never been able to speak abot it since (and never will).
I am sooooo sensual alone within myself but dont want to lose my relationship.
It just all happened so naturally that I hadn't thought about this question, but my wife has initiated Tina's "visits" a lot, and it has evolved to just that question, "Would Tina like to visit?". There's no "turn-on" involved...just two girl friends having a visit!:happy: :happy:
Tina